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why do some women go after married men? if they know he is married why not just back off!! what are they thinking? i might be wrong but is it because they dont have s h i t and they want what his wife has?

2006-08-11 05:40:58 · 27 answers · asked by notyochic 6 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

or are they just lil whore who like to break up happy homes!!

2006-08-11 05:42:05 · update #1

umm my hubby is not cheating but i just met a women who said she loves to go after married men and i think that is pretty sick!

2006-08-11 09:25:06 · update #2

27 answers

hmmm..i hear you, but it goes both ways....i have never been with a married man (thank god).....but i have noticed that although the love or claim to love their wives they have no problem picking up women.

I met a guy a number of years ago, i gave him my number and he called couple times...i noticed he would only call during certain hours...i thought oh he must have a girlfriend....well couple conversations he told me he was married....i was in complete shock......i told him thanks but no thanks......i view peoples marriage as sacred....

2006-08-11 05:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

They are women without any morals or self-esteem. They are more willing to settle for someone else's seconds than they are to do what it takes to build a relationship and a family with that person. I think for some it is sort of like a competition to see if they can take something away from someone else - sort of like 4 year olds fighting over a toy. Once they get it - they usually no longer want it because the thrill of the chase is gone. It's not so much fun when you have the guy 24/7 , wash his undies, and take care of him when he is sick. Not to mention when they get the guy they have just won a lying cheat who places sex above anyone's feelings. I just wish more women who did this would realize it is not just the wife they hurt. There are usually children and families that are caught up in the whole sordid affair and it rips many lives apart. It has happened to me and I know how it hurts. Keep in mind that relationships that start this way almost never last. Women who maintain their self-respect and dignity while dealing with these things are the real winners.

2006-08-11 12:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 1 0

A lot of men do not tell a woman the truth about being married! Or - they are going thru a separation - or some story - And the "other" woman only finds out by accident! Yes - that really does happen! So don't think every woman who has dated a married man is bad! It very well could be that she honestly didn't know.
If she did know - she's not a very good person! The wife should talk with her husband. If he told the wife about it, I wouldn't worry too much! But I would put in a special appearance to introduce myself.

2006-08-11 12:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by Blond Logic 4 · 0 1

It's both of those things, AND the competition factor all combined.
These types of women simply want what they can't have...and they will destroy everything they have to, just to get it,
(WHICH THEY USUALLY DON'T)
AND IF THEY DO ........... only to realize they didn't really want it now that the competition has finally bowed out. (not that they won him)
My saying is "You can't **** a married man, and have him too".
AS FOR THE MEN......
They aren't innocent themselves (the little bastards)
They usually have some type of insecurity that the attention she gives makes them feel more manly about...
Age, inability, etc.....
and yes, they will tell her they are unhappy just to insure that if she has morals, she might not run the other direction as quickly, then once she is deeply interested, either the truth comes out, or the wife makes a surprise visit and introduction. The way to know how bad she really wants him (or his wallet) is if after she finds out about his lies, she continues to persue him...
She might not leave him alone until you actually put a knife to her throat....lol (which really happens...ha ha)

BTW ...if there are any women in the northeastern Georgia area, keep your man on a short leash and away from a whore named Natalie Broome! If she gets ahold of him anyway and he's worthy of keeping, the fastest way to get rid of her is to buy yourself a really nice switchblade.....
NOTE* she didn't get it, so, she's probably looking to take what you have..........LOL

2006-08-11 12:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by FrEaKoNaLeAsH 3 · 0 0

Some like to think that they have the sex appeal & power to "steal" a man from his mate. They do not respect themselves, you or marriage. Some know that a man isn't available and they like that kind of relationship. And some do actually fall into this
unsuspectingly.

As far as the man.......don't ever believe that he doesn't have a choice. We as adults are suppose to have learned self control & delayed gratification. Women accept the fact that men "think with their little head" or "well that's just the way men are", or they go after the woman because of the affair. This is complete BS. I will say it again. This is complete Bull-Sh*t. There is always a choice.

2006-08-11 13:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by weddrev 6 · 1 0

Women believe things that they are told and don't put much emphasis on actions. I will give you an example. You have a married man that has met a single woman. We will call him Jimmy and her Susie. Jimmy meets Susie over the drinking cooler at work they start off with small talk. Over time Jimmy starts telling Susie that his marriage is so miserable. Susie listens with open ears because she is lonely and has not had much luck on the dating scene lately. This goes on for a while. Soon Jimmy and Susie are going to lunch together. Jimmy is telling Susie that he wants to get divorced one day when things are right so he can be with a woman like Susie who is so understanding and listens to him. Susie is soaking up the flattery and compliments. Soon they are meeting after work at Susies apartment for some afternoon delight before Jimmy has goes home. He just tells his wife that he has a meeting. He tells Susie that his wife is depressed and will just be at home in bed sleeping when he gets home. He tells her that she is like that most of her free time. Susie feels sad for Jimmy and wants to be there for him in his time of need. 18 months have gone past and Susie finds out she is pregnant with Jimmy's baby. Susie has also been pressuring Jimmy to move out into an apartment so he can proceed with his divorce. Jimmy tells her that he doesn't have the money to do that right now. Susie gets tired of Jimmy not following through with what he says he is going to do and calls his wife and tells her that she is pregnant with Jimmy's baby. Now Jimmy is pissed off at Susie because Jimmy had no intentions of leaving his wife. He was just have some fun on the side as so many men do. The morle to the story is that: Actions Speak louder than Words. Susie was setting around waiting for Jimmy to leave his wife. Jimmy set it up so that Susie became emotionally attached to him and didn't want to be with any other man.

My personal opinion is that when a woman has sex with a married man, she feels that she stands a chance with him if he were divorced. The unspoken words and reading between the lines are the most dangerous thing a woman can do, but women do it all the time. Most of the time actions will show a woman everything she needs to know.

2006-08-11 13:15:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think it is because they don't see marriage as a barrier. If they can get the guy, then what does it matter that he's married? (that's the thinking).

They don't worry about the fact that a man who would cheat on his wife would also certainly be willing to cheat on his mistress--They don't worry because they think, "I'm so special. If his wife loved him and cared for him like I do, he would never cheat. He only cheats because he has such a bad wife. I'll be the perfect partner for him, and we'll live happily ever after."

Essentially, they go after married men because they are foolish and naive.

2006-08-11 12:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0 0

Lets be a little realistic here. Sometimes people just want to have a little fun in life without a major commitment. I have been married for 36 years and it has been years since my wife has wanted any intimate type fun. I love her dearly but!!! Ran into a female who had same problem; we occasionaly have some fun and what we do between the sheets is nobody else's business. We are probably not unique in what we do; we think of it as a mutual aid project. Life sometimes throws curve balls at you.

2006-08-11 12:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0 1

Usually because they don't want a relationship, just a fling, and going out with someone that is married can almost guarantee that. It's kind of like have a relationship with no commitment, because he is already committed to someone else.

It always seems to amaze me that women do it though, they should have more respect for themselves and the other woman.

2006-08-11 12:59:17 · answer #9 · answered by Valarie 2 · 0 0

Some women are just hoes, while some men are just pigs that tell the sluts they are single. The best way to handle the sluts and pigs is to confront them and beat the sh*t out of the whore (if necessary) and leave the a$$hole guy (if he was thinking about doing anything w/the other b*tch)

2006-08-11 12:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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