She hated to do it..but I always take care of her!
2006-08-11 04:42:22 · 15 answers · asked by gooterscooby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She told me she had a headache....so I put aspirin on my penis....and still no go!!!!
2006-08-11 04:51:17 · update #1
why is everyone so uptight?..honestly...do you really think I have to trick her into it? Now I would like some ideas on how to get her to do it more....but not a bunch of people calling me an ***!...read between the lines people...can I not ask a serious question and have fun with it as well? Geez
2006-08-14 01:36:54 · update #2
Sometimes we as women have this recorder playing in our heads telling us that "good girls don't do that". I think that you should talk about it, in a comfortable setting, away from the bedroom, and find out if there is an underlying issue or belief concerning the matter-maybe she doesn't really know how, or maybe she is not sure that she's even doing it right. There is a method to the madness, and she may not be sure of what exactly that is. Good luck!
2006-08-11 04:54:32 · answer #1 · answered by A C 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There are some good responses in here. Remember, if you do it, you're doing it because you want her to be happy. A man should always be willing to please his woman. If you hold it over her head that you do it for her, there is a chance she will resent you for forcing her to do it. Like the other answerers said, there must be some reason she doesn't want to do it. Does she just not like it? Was there a past experience that took place? Does she not like your scent? Is she afraid of semen in her mouth? Has she been brainwashed that oral sex is the devil? You have to find out what the true underlying reason is. If you are successful, then you can definitely make progress. Remember, you cannot force her, or hold things over her head. That isn't the way a man should handle the situation. Good luck!!
2006-08-11 12:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you giving her the goods if she is unwilling to reciprocate. A marriage is all about doing for each other, and sharing equally. You should make it clear - if she is unwilling to go downtown, then so are you. Dig a little deeper - there may be an emotional reason she is unwilling. See if there is something else she might be willing to do instead. A marriage is a give and take - on both partners parts.
2006-08-11 11:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by Christopher B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Trick her? Scooter, " FORGET ABOUT IT"! !!!! LOL It isn't happening if she's not into it! Well one of you is lucky and it isn't you! {sorry!} Seriously , talk to her, find out what she's "uncomfortable" with! Maybe she needs some help in "knowing how" and tell her you know just the person she can "talk" to ,to help her out! Then "explain"!!!!! If it's still "no" then "you" my friend have a problem!
2006-08-11 12:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by noditz57 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you love your wife you should never trick her into anything. you need to explain why you need this and see if she will compramise a bit. but if she really has a problem with this then find something you like that she can do instead.
"i always take care of her" is no justification, sex and love is not a trading game, everything should be given freely or not at all
2006-08-11 11:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no way to 'trick' her into something like that. If its a big deal to you then talk to her about it ... maybe you can come up with ways to make it more enjoyable for her.
No way to trick a lady into something like that ... sorry!!
Good luck
2006-08-11 11:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by J 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no tricking a woman into doing something she does not want to do, no questions asked...she either wants to..or doesn't want to
2006-08-11 11:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by manderin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't be an *$$hole not all women are up for the whole head experince so just stop trying untill you can learn to talk to her youre screwed!
2006-08-11 13:07:15 · answer #8 · answered by just4 me06 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
IF YOU WANT TO TRICK YOUR WIFE WHY NOT JUST GET DIVORCED AND NOT PLAY GAMES WITH SOME ONE WHO DOESNT DESERVE TO BE PLAYED WITH.YOUR AN ASSH---.DAV TOLD YOU THAT.
2006-08-12 07:45:00 · answer #9 · answered by lickit4u 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you need to shower more so it's less disgusting to her.
2006-08-11 16:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by Brea1243 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋