2006-08-11 05:29:53 · 11 answers · asked by goneforever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
shut your flap,you must think we believe you
2006-08-11 06:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by har 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what it is he's doing exactly, and ask him why he doesn't do that with you..........
Participate in it with him and learn to let it be a turn on for you both, a way to get back to having a better sex life together.
DON'T freak out about it........
Open the doors of imagination and communication when it comes to those things, talk about sex together, what you like, what he likes, try something new and explore together!
We all get to a point where alot of it is same-old-same -old, and need to find ways to spice it up.
Don't be jealous and freak out on him, unless, after you've tried to meet him halfway, he would still rather be with the computer than you.
Then pack him up and send him on his way to the real world.
2006-08-11 05:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by FrEaKoNaLeAsH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel your pain because my husband's the same thing, he spent most of his time infront of that computer and it's so frustrating. One day, i was so fed up and i didn't talk to him and he approached me asking what is it that's bothering me and so i told him. he felt bad about it. and i stayed the same as not talking to him making him feel what im feeling. so now, he only stays on computer when he's doing his homework and then when i get home from work...he stops and spend time with me.
By the way, i told him>>>>>>> You are spending more time infront of the computer more than me, i know that you're busy and all but I'm also here you know.
2006-08-11 05:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disconnect the Internet.
2006-08-11 05:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first you divorce him. Then you take him back even though he can't support himself. You keep thinking you are going to be remarried. After a few weeks he has an aneurysm and almost dies. You take care of him and support him through his recovery and for a year after that. Then he tells you he doesn't like you and moves in with his Mom. Then you and your kids try to move on with your life.
2006-08-11 05:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by AlphaFemale 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your instinct already is telling you what you need to do. Something else has her attention, you sure don't. What do you want from your marriage. You need to make the marriage more exciting so she won't be interested in the Internet.
2006-08-11 06:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you recognize, i imagine that it truly is a first in over 20 years, that I no longer something on the instantaneous contains recommendations, yet, the day isn't over yet. you're acceptable besides the undeniable fact that, as long as he's cooking.
2016-11-24 20:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get marriage couseling or try talking to them bc obviosly there is a problem!!
2006-08-11 05:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by leenabootie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump your spouse
2006-08-11 05:33:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
strip down nekkid and see if you can get his attention,,,if not...leave him
2006-08-11 05:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by nomad_of_gor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋