Marriage & Divorce - 11 August 2006

I need intensive support.

2006-08-11 17:01:50 · 6 answers · asked by Jacks036 5

My boyfriend and his wife have been sleeping in separate rooms for over 2 years. We have been seeing eachother for 18 months. I love him more than I've ever loved anyone in my life. I'm 38 years old, divorced with 3 kids of my own. He won't leave her because he says, he can't do that to his kids and he doesn't want to give up the house. But he wants more than anything for her to be the one to go. I believe him & know that he loves me but how long is too long for me to hang on? I've never known love like this before and I'm afraid to lose it, but do I really have it? Should I give him an ultamatim?

2006-08-11 16:56:27 · 56 answers · asked by AllisonLynn 1

What form do I use when filling a divorce for the state of WI?

2006-08-11 16:54:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Half the time I make it up or have sex with my husband to shut him up.
I just dont have much interest in sex and NO im not gay I like men but I really wish mine had a brain and not just a penis.
We have a kid together as well.
I have never had much interst in sex, not even before him.
I always wanted to do things and go places, not just sit around the house watching tv and having sex before bed.
I am also not attracted to my husband, his attitude and negativity have just gotten to me.
And the few times he's physically assualted me.
I have told him this and he just acts like its no big deal and get over it.
Iam becoming very depressed about this.
I am a SAHM, Im not ugly, Im not fat and I feel like life is wasting away.
I dont work because any time I even mentioned I wanted a job he said whose gonna look after the kid and then he'll accuse me of going to cheat on him with someone at work, like his ex did to him. I dont know what to do????

2006-08-11 16:51:01 · 15 answers · asked by Sheena H 1

My wife gets to stay at home with the kids. 8 years and she has only worked 8 months of that. I am still very attracted to her I am always grabing her but and trying to kiss her. Sex is only convineient when she is ready and that is not much. It has been that way for the entire 8 years we have been married. I dont know what to do I am only conerned with pleasing my wife in any way and I mean any way!! But she cannot touch me unless it is time in her mind. I am to a point I almost cannot take it anymore. I know we have kids and I love them. But we need our time to keep our relationship strong. I am pretty sure she has not cheated but some times I wonder. I feal like she is not attracted to me at all. I feal I am a decent looking guy I am in no way a brad pitt but I am not ugly. At this time we only have sex about 1 time every 2 weeks. I am around 6 inches but she has a min of 3 orgasms and up to 7 each time we do it. Well I think she does. I am just confused and wondering

2006-08-11 16:47:07 · 14 answers · asked by ajh8675309v2 1

I have been told that when I married it was for better or worse, but no one specified as to how bad I am suppose to let it get before it is beyond worse. And then there is that death do us part thing? Where is it okay to draw the line?

2006-08-11 16:44:27 · 13 answers · asked by freshstart_newbeginning 2

2006-08-11 16:36:21 · 31 answers · asked by naive_and_confused 1

I have been maried to my wife for 8 years. We have been togehter 11 years or so. I have always been very atracted to my wife. The first 2 years we were maried was very hard. She did not work she did not clean she did not have anything to do with me romanticly. I worked on the road and I may go for a month or so before we had any relations. As time passed it got worse. I met a girl that was very attracted to me and it was a change and very nice. I did have relations with her and I know it was wrong but I was getting something I was lacking. Emotion and warmth I was not getting at home. Again this is something I dont believe in and to that date I had never cheated on a girl.... I came clean with my wife.. I had a daughter who I loved very much and I wanted to make it work for her sake. I laid it all out. I explained why I did what I did. My wife and I worked it out. This has been over 5 years ago and I have worked and worked to make things work... My wife gets to stay

2006-08-11 16:34:31 · 11 answers · asked by ajh8675309v2 1

I moved to pa with my family into my fathers house, we did not buy it, just moved in with him with my 2 daughters. He owns the house, and has willed it to us when he passes, he is 80. He is remodleing the basement so we have decent living quarters and helps us out financailly all the time. My wife then basically takes care of him, his meds and the kids during the day while i work. Problem is, my wife. She thinks she runs the show on everything, blaming every thing on me finacially becuase i pay child support. I try to make her happy, but she does not know how to save, or raise our kids right. I dont want to loose my family again, i could not do it again.... Am I the failure, what should i do

2006-08-11 16:32:28 · 21 answers · asked by partyjoey 1

2006-08-11 16:30:28 · 31 answers · asked by asdf 1

Were you surprised? Did any of you say 'No'?

2006-08-11 16:27:37 · 11 answers · asked by Kelli 5

2006-08-11 16:24:59 · 26 answers · asked by jiffypop88 4

2006-08-11 16:21:29 · 48 answers · asked by okrabiscuit 2

2006-08-11 16:11:04 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous

What type of come-on can you do --words, touches, etc. to get a married man to have an affair or even just one night. This man and I are insanely attracted to each other and have admitted it to each other, but alas we're both married. I have fallen in love with him, and will risk it all if he will. No lectures on the sanctity of marriage. I know...

2006-08-11 15:56:52 · 36 answers · asked by confused 1

Do you think it is really possible for outside influences to ruin or hurt a marriage?

2006-08-11 15:53:40 · 12 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2

He often loses his erections during lovemaking. This hurts my feelings and makes me feel unwanted and undesirable. He refuses to see a doctor telling me that nothing is wrong and that I need to quit worrying about it. He says he is afraid that the kids will wake up. I still feel like I am doing something wrong and I have tried to change things up!!! Suggestions please!!

2006-08-11 15:44:23 · 37 answers · asked by jiffypop88 4

My husband has been cheating on me for 1 1/2 and had a baby with her I gave him the Second Chance and we were trying to fix our marriage but he does not know if that is what he wants now that I moved to be with him I have 3 kids with him and we have been together 14 years. What Can I do?

2006-08-11 15:41:36 · 16 answers · asked by Katrina H 1

year, 1945.
Phylidelphia, Pennsylvania.

2006-08-11 15:38:28 · 5 answers · asked by zoe p 1

what do you think is it old fashioned? do people still do that? hey guys would you wait for a girl?

2006-08-11 15:37:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-11 15:29:20 · 13 answers · asked by elvis_is_on_mars 1

my husband told me i couldnt talk to any male unless it was his friends and well..... today i looked up my ex on messanger and started talking to him becuase we are friends and now i realize that my marriege is in a heep of trouble becuase he's telling me what to to all the time. my ex knows i still love him and he asked for my address and i gave it to him, should i be worried? and also i feel like my marriage is a mistake. i got married when i was 17 now i m 18 and he's 19

2006-08-11 15:22:56 · 17 answers · asked by everyone knows me! the wonderer 1

Every single person I know has divorced parents, or their parents are separated, fighting to almost the point of divorce.

2006-08-11 15:18:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 5 years. The problem that I am having is that my marrage has become abusive more than once. I have never hit my wife when I was mad at her or when we were arguing, but she has hit me. This has happened a least once a year for evrey year we have been married. With the last couple of times that it has happened I have threatened to leave if it happenes again. I am still with her as of today. To add to it all she is wanting to have kids but I am scared to have kids with her. To me it seams that if she has no broblems with hitting me when she is mad what is she going to do with our kids. One pluse about being with her for so long is that she dose not hit me like she did she has learned to control herself some. The last time that she lost control and hit me was about 4 months ago. After it had happened she said that she would understand if i wanted to leave.

2006-08-11 15:12:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-11 15:09:17 · 50 answers · asked by okrabiscuit 2

I was just wondering how do you know if your husband or partner is having an affair, what are the signs? If he's not having an affair but in love with someone else, what are the signs? How do you know that he will end the marriage or relationship because of someone else - what are the signs?

2006-08-11 15:01:45 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

does anybody else have this problem?

2006-08-11 14:43:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have had custody issues with my ex and hes going back to jail, I need to find out why

2006-08-11 14:42:30 · 3 answers · asked by artkrista 2

What's your wildest, most provocative fantasy?

2006-08-11 14:39:13 · 14 answers · asked by missing_something 2

lets say your in a very loving relationship but kids dont like your mate.........do you let them choose for you. by the way i think not but thought it was interesting question anyway.

2006-08-11 14:37:15 · 12 answers · asked by darkvale 3