my wife goes to a single guy's apartment to smoke pot, he has come on to her, should I be concerned?

Answer 1

Why don't you go with her? I would never let my man go to a womans house alone, and I would never expect him to allow me to go to a mans house alone. Be a man and stand up for yourself, your wife should not be going to ANY guys house without you.

Answer 2

There are so many levels of wrongness to this situation, it's hard to know where to begin.
1. So you are not concerned that your wife is going somewhere and doing something illegal that could get her in jail and you all into financial trouble?
2. Do you know this guy aside from him being a smoke-buddy?
3. Yes, be concerned. Also get an AIDS test because you just never know.
4. You are either very trusting or very stupid to condone your wife doing this.
5. If she smokes and you don't, this will only lead to VERY big problems down the road. If you all are serious about being married and staying married, nip it in the bud now.
6. If none of the above applies, get your balls back from your wife and move on with your life with someone you have more in common with.

Answer 3

I am sure that your wife going to a single mans apartment to smoke his pot for free should not be a concern at all.

Answer 4

First of all, your wife should not be in the presence of another man in his apartment regardless of what they're doing, without you. She should have more respect for you and your marriage. If she must smoke pot, why can't she smoke it with you. Buddy, you need to get a handle on this before it goes any further.

Answer 5

Wow is something wrong. Either she is not getting enough attention and that is why she is telling you this or she is telling you this to throw it in your face. If she told you don't worry I told him I am not interested then tell her you want to go next time.If she refuses start saving rent money. Remember your feelings count and this type of behavior is direspectful. Tell her how you feel, set up some guidelines. A lot of people say to trust but trust has to built on a solid foundation. Telling you she is going to smoke pot with a single guy who is hitting on her does not sound stable. Whatever you do remember violence will not fix it. Just walk away if it gets that bad.

Answer 6

Of course you should be. 1. she should not be smoking pot. 2. She should not be over some guys house smoking pot. 3. She should not be over some guys house smoking pot when he came on to her. If I had a guy friend and he made a pass at me knowing that I was in a relationship I would not want to be around him again it might give him mixed messages.

Answer 7

Yep. You didn't say if you smoke or not or if you approve of her smoking it. Either way, why doesn't she have him come to your apartment instead of her always going over there? Apparently she doesn't mind him coming on to her because she keeps on going over there. Duh...obviously something is going on. I think it's time to set some ground rules before it gets more serious. Nip it in the bud or else one day she will go there and not come back home for good.

Answer 8

POT?...You should be concern she is doing DRUGS! Second YES you should be concern and YES she will cheat on you ...if she hasn't already...doesn't drug let your guard down or something...How do you know he came on to you....she told you?....sounds weird to me. GO with her if you are into pot...if not Tell to STOP smoking!....don't start smoking pot or doing drugs it is not good for you and it is illegal....and talk to her before it all gets out of control....good luck

Answer 9

First she should not be going to a singles apartment and second she told you. do you care if she goes to this man apartment?Because it does not sound like it to me. So you either ask her to stop go with her or deal with it. If it was me she would not be going there but then I'm a female and it would be a him not a she

Answer 10

Ummm-YAH!!

I dont think that weed and "being alone together" is a good combination for a man and a woman..Why dont you casually STOP BY and RING THE DOORBELL??? Cover the peep hole and disguise your voice when you ring the bell. See what they're doing--and see what kind of "vibe" you get. Dont bring a weapon--no man or woman is worth life behind bars--sorry--but no piece of as$ is ALL THAT.

Peace

Answer 11

Of course you should be concerned. Next time she goes over there, follow her in about 15 minutes and see for yourself what's going on. However, I think you already know.