Marriage & Divorce - 11 August 2006

2006-08-11 14:32:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-11 14:30:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems to be so, but this can't be right; please help me out here; what else is there in life?

2006-08-11 14:28:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I are both 24 years & I just found out that my husband cheated on me while I was pregnant with our daughter who is now 9 months and even once after she was born. We also have a 5 year old little boy. From what it seems he is remorseful and has pleaded with me about the changes he is going to make but I want to see action and no more talking. I want to forgive him but it is hard when I know every single detail about what he has done. I basically went on to his bestfriends email to see what my husband use to email him about. I came across an email where he gave graffic details about one encounter with a women saying she has some bomb *** pu$$%, she was nice and think and he wished he could have went raw dawg with her but he didnt and she $u*k@d the **** out of his you know what...the details are a little too much for me and its hard to get them out of my head. I want to forgive him because we have a family but is forgiving even possible at this point?? I need help please!!

2006-08-11 14:26:30 · 32 answers · asked by Micah 1

He acts like he loves me, we have a good sex life, he has never complained. We have always been good friends and our friends envy our loving relationship. What went wrong?

2006-08-11 14:25:46 · 9 answers · asked by Betrayed wife 1

2006-08-11 14:06:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you found out that your husband is calling his ex (with whom he had a sexual relationship before he met you) ever since you were 6 months preganat.You confront him and he denied it, then you call her and she also denied it. Then time passs away and you found out he called her again and you discover the tellephone data and guess what?? they are been calling each other for a year!! And their conversation are as long as 2 hours!! Don't tell me this is only a friendship. What wil she want anyways, she had a baby with another man!!

2006-08-11 13:58:14 · 21 answers · asked by YO 2

2006-08-11 13:54:12 · 33 answers · asked by eeee 1

my husban came out of work @ 2:30 pm it is now 5:56 pm and he is not home? i assume he might be at a bar. what should i do?

2006-08-11 13:52:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok after that ring slip on my finger and we get a house together all he does is play video games..i had no idea... you know today we had to go and meet the teachers for school, my sons first time ever being in school, kindergarden...and i had some paper work to fill out...my husband has already been through it so as a first time mom i have no clue... i asked him for his help and he snapped at me...what a Jerk! also their first day of school, im suppose to take my youngest stepson and my son to school, but the oldest stepson my husband wants his mom to take him, whats the big deal, im trying to get involve w/ all of them and be there for them like the same as my own...this is very upsetting...im trying to include myself...but our family feels like it was before we got married, he does stuff for his kids and i do stuff w/ my son, its not like a real family, i dont feel like all of us is included...what to do???

2006-08-11 13:51:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should I divorce him?

2006-08-11 13:48:45 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Special anniversary coming up, I want to surprise my husband with something besides Barry White, Sade, or Al Green. Thanx

2006-08-11 13:46:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

left your wife for another woman?

2006-08-11 13:43:40 · 14 answers · asked by ? 3

while my wife was gone i went down the street to ask a woman to watch my kid while i took a shower after i took a shower i tried to give her a massage she refused left and then told my wife the next day. i made a terrible mistake and let temptation get the best of me i have learned my lesson and i need her back how do i get her and my kids back?any information would be helpful.if u feel the need to be mean and not help then please move on

2006-08-11 13:42:13 · 24 answers · asked by gummyworms 1

iv been gone now im back ha ha ha

2006-08-11 13:36:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have for him, dyed my hair, lost weight i was already a size 10, changed my style of clothes. I have brought toys and he gets an erection but chooses to roll over and go to sleep, no he not seeing anyone else cause he alwasys with me his choice

2006-08-11 13:21:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was with my exboyfriend off and on for 5 years until we decided to go our separate ways. Even though we had broken up, we still remain friends and got together every so often. It's been 3 years since I last spoke to him. I think about him more frequently as time goes by. I even thought of hiring a detective to find him. Everytime I think of him I get goose bumps and my stomach gets in knots. You know that feeling?

The problem is that I've been married for 6 years to the most wonderful man. I thought I would grow to love my husband but it's not working. I don't think I ever truly loved my husband. I don't want to hurt him but I don't think I can stay married to him either.

What should I do? Should I stay married? Should I find my exboyfriend and expect to be disappointed? Please help. I'm desparate.

2006-08-11 13:21:06 · 20 answers · asked by Sally 1

no sex in my marriage, tried every trick in the book, my husband does not bat an eyelid. I have high sex drive he has none. I stayed faithful its now once in a whole year. Now we just argue about it. He says he loves me and he does not know why help?? Thinking of divorce

2006-08-11 13:12:27 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I ask questions about my relationship and people always say "Leave, Run away, Don't look behing you..."

From what I know, all people put up with alot of crap in a relationship. What do you put up with? Is what I put up with normal, or is it too much? What makes things like this balance out?

ME:
- Jealous
- Overweight a bit
- Always feel sick
- Poor motivation

HIM:
- Violent when drinking -- damages things on multiple occasions
- Asshole attititude
- Poor motivation
- Terrible with money

Yes, he has hurt me when he drinks. He hasn't done it for along time now so hes getting over it. BUT he has damaged his car like 2 weeks ago because of it. BUT I have my faults too. Do people work on the faults or leave??

What faults do you deal with and when do you leave??

Im the type of person who won't leave someone until im cheated on, etc. so it's hard for me to judge things like that but I think other ppl overreact.

Look at my last ? and answer too pls

2006-08-11 13:12:07 · 12 answers · asked by Poestalker 4

My mother found out recently my father had an affair. Im 19 and I wish my father unhappiness until the day he dies. He hasn't offered explanations for my mom, he constantly tries to make the matter seem less important than it is, and he only says they need counseling (I know all of this through my mom). But he did not tell my mother of this out of his own accord, so I find myself wondering how my mother could ever trust him. My mom has found him lying so many times before I dont think it is possible for him to tell the truth. It seems to me that if this had happened in my situation I would have thrown him out of the house and threatened with divorce and only thought of continuing the relationship if he came and offered to make all the amends possible. My mother wont let me talk to him about any of it. I feel I can never trust men again, and I have so much pent up rage that I feel I could wish his death in front of him if I were given the chance. I feel I deserve information.

2006-08-11 13:09:26 · 19 answers · asked by Carla S 1

i have been married for 18 years. we have had ups and downs. we have separated before about 5 times the shortest 1 week the longrst 2 months. our two kid are 16 and 19. our relationship is like a room mate. we both do not initiat sex. all i hear is that she is not happy and that it is my fault. if i am not making here happy and i dont want to change the person i am. is it time to go our own way. i stay away from other women because i do not want a women to be an excuse. i know things will be pain full but i do not want to hurt her

2006-08-11 13:02:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been living with my bf for two years now, we are basically getting engaged soon. Heres the facts:

- He can't drink without getting angry
- Hes not just angry he gets violent
- He has damaged our vehicles 3 times over this and on several occasions me

He met a old friend on Myspace that I don't know. Latley, it seems to me like he wants to be single again and go to bars and all that crap. He says he doesn't.

I don't trust him to hang out w/ppl on his own because he has poor judgement on characters and decisions. When he does go on his own he comes home late, etc. He hasn't cheated or anything like that.

He says to me "i am going out with my friend from myspace sometime soon" (old HS buddies)

I say no... he wants to go but all this person posts is about going to bars and getting drunk. This means hes a bachelor goes to bars and looks for pussy. I can't drink yet.

Can he go or can't he?? In your opinion, don't give me the "do you trust him" crap.

2006-08-11 12:57:22 · 27 answers · asked by Poestalker 4

2006-08-11 12:46:03 · 22 answers · asked by goodpeach31 1

2006-08-11 12:43:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I are going through a divorce. She moved out 2 weeks ago and took all her stuff. But she left her 2 dogs and still comes over to check on them. She isnt able to move them into her apartment yet. I don't like her coming in and out of the house whenever she wants and when i am not there. The house is in both our names but she left. Can I change the locks to keep her out or do i have to let her in when i am not there. She turned over the keys and garage door opener but uses the keypad outside to get in.

2006-08-11 12:41:58 · 50 answers · asked by 501 DEVIL 1

my husband has been stealing things from me.i dont know why. is he giving it to someone else? or is he just trying to keep me from having my nice thins.shoes,jewelry,dresses and my weed stash what do i do??

2006-08-11 12:40:59 · 14 answers · asked by angie devine 3

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2006-08-11 12:35:20 · 8 answers · asked by EnglishKnight25 1

I started a new job a few months ago and is how I met this guy, who is also married. We speak to each other on a daily basis. We even take our breaks and go to lunch together. We have so much in common. I love my husband very much, but at the same time I want to be with this guy. He asked me out for friendly drinks and I said yes. I know that if do meet him for drinks, I will be all over him. I'm tempted to go and see what happens. What makes it exciting is that my husband is away on a business trip and would never ever find out if I actually did something with this guy. Do you think I should go and see what happens?

2006-08-11 12:33:32 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Maybe it's because my parents are divorced so I wouldn't understand, but why is it that I look at marriages as a crazy idea? I mean, how can two people really share their lives together and never be initimate with another member of the opposite sex. How are marriages maintained with such animation and unpredicability? I mean, ugh.. it's just seems like I'd be sick of guy, or he'd be sick of me within a month.

2006-08-11 12:27:03 · 12 answers · asked by kellz8706 1

If my husband has left me and the house is in my name only, can I change the locks on doors?

2006-08-11 12:26:43 · 11 answers · asked by lipglossaddiction 3