Should I divorce him?
2006-08-11 13:48:45 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It could be just that your hubby is stressed out right now.....perhaps at work or from a personal problem. Maybe he is having a problem with getting aroused and he is embarrassed. I hate to mention this but he could be having an affair but don't jump to conclusions. You need to talk to him.....communication is very important.
2006-08-11 14:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by angie_house2000 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I saw your "picture" and I just had to answer your question. Let me start with a question of my own. Is that you in the picture? If so, your behavior may be a reason he has lost interest. Bending over in front of a camera and putting it on the internet for everyone to see isn't very lady-like. Is this a sample of how you act with your husband? Does it embarrass him? Some things should be kept sacred and your body is one of them, especially when you're married. You are disrespecting your husband by showing the world the "wrong side" of the woman he made a vow to.
If that isn't your picture, I apologize. Maybe one of you needs to stop the cycle and do something that shows the other that you still love them. Relationships can lose their luster. When they do, we have to be creative and find ways to put the fire back in them. Try telling him how much you appreciate all he does, or buy him a nice outfit for no reason at all. I'm sure he'll reciprocate. Women have a hard time realizing that men like little gifts too.
Finally, divorce is the last and most final option. Think long and hard before you do it. You could destroy the one that loves you most...
2006-08-11 21:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by pisces7497 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I divorced my husband because he wouldn't give me sex anymore we wouldn't have gotten married. I agree--for better or for worse. I've seen a lot of "worse", including and especially times when there was not only no sex for 6 months but no affection either; we lived like roommates, sometimes roommates who barely spoke to each other. And only through working through it together are we starting to find the "for better" part. People today give up entirely too easily. Who said marriage was supposed to be a piece of cake? I'm in this for the long haul, which means I'm going to try until I run out things to try and will only give up when it's so clear that the marriage is over that even I can't ignore it anymore. And it ain't there yet. And as bad as it's been sometimes, it's never been that bad. Somehow, we make it through, even if sometimes I'm not sure how.
2006-08-11 21:08:01 · answer #3 · answered by I'm just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't divorce him. Talk to him first. Maybe set the mood for some romance. Was there a very special moment in your romance that you can recreate? A little spark can go a long long way.
2006-08-11 20:53:41 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that your husband not having sex with you should be a reason to divorce him...i think the man needs help...and i think that maybe you should be the one to get him that help...
you married him for better or for worse, didn't you? well, this is part of the worse! go and see if you can find a counsellor who can help you more than we at Y!A can...good luck
2006-08-11 20:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by uranus2mars 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put that cup back in the saucer, honey. try some strong green tea and hot chili peppers with a good hot cup of coffee. stick to the for 3 months... once you've blown all of the toxins from your system ( and dropped about 65 pounds) you might have better luck at getting laid.
good luck, girl friend!
2006-08-11 21:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by coffeegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is his backside the same as yours?If thats the case try a different diet.Do you always want to be on top?That would pose a problem.Let the man breath.Really is all that junk in the trunk doing anything for him?Are you sure he's not lost in their somewhere????
2006-08-11 23:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself some soul searching questions. Were you that weight always, if so maybe the problem is with him. Talk to your husband, ask him. Without communication you will never know. A closed mouth can not be fed.
2006-08-11 20:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by sweetl8dyt24 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well it depends on what is going on. Try to ask him what is happening in the relationship and how you feel about it. as far as divorcing him, is that all that matters to you? Think about it before you do something drastic.
2006-08-11 20:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by cathy o 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to talk to him first and maybe get counseling.
Good luck.Don't divorce him unless he is unfaithful to you.
2006-08-11 21:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by YO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋