i have for him, dyed my hair, lost weight i was already a size 10, changed my style of clothes. I have brought toys and he gets an erection but chooses to roll over and go to sleep, no he not seeing anyone else cause he alwasys with me his choice
2006-08-11 13:21:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I empathize with you girl ! Been there done that...get rid of him!
Life is TOO short
2006-08-11 17:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just bizarre.
He has an erection and chooses to "roll over and go to sleep"?!
I'm speechless. This man has some serious psychological or social problems.
2006-08-11 13:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have to do too much and not be yourself. It sounds like he has the problem not you. How about you being yourself and finding love with someone who loves that person after you salvage your self esteem? He sounds like he has problems and is in need of help. Perhaps he is impatent or gay. It is not your fault. He should not have had to modify you to make it work. He needs to take a hike and you need to think about yourself not him. Pick up your dignity and heal your wounds take care of you. Do what you enjoy and do what pleases you. Make some friends and move on. Sorry, but it looks hopeless.
2006-08-11 13:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by adobeprincess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife is the same way. Apparently there are various levels of sexuality. He doesn't need much. Mismatches like that can be painful. I can't recommend a divorce because I haven't done that.
My condolences.
2006-08-11 13:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hell get on top and get it started when he gets erect. show him you want it. if he still doesnt go through with it then go see the thereapist. or you can bring another girl in and spice things up for him if you can do that. a threesome is pretty erotic he might go for that.
2006-08-11 13:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by mldwild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got ice water running through his veins ... what can I tell ya? Look at it this way, with the make-over at least you're ready for open season!
2006-08-11 13:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by TCBgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems as if ur freind likes to see or get pleasure from things and not take the energy to give it back out......u changed all this stuff for him and what has he done for u ??? is he just using u to say he has a gf?? thats to figure out for urself
2006-08-11 13:24:33 · answer #7 · answered by music man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what your question is, but I subscribe to a "Billy Joel" kind of guy, that is:
"Don't go changing, to try to please me....
I love you just the way you are."
2006-08-11 13:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by doublewidemama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once again... check out S.W.A.G.E.
http://www.groups.yahoo.com/group/swage
2006-08-11 16:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see Doctor Ruth.
2006-08-11 13:25:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋