Marriage & Divorce - 7 August 2006

How do I find closer? How does someone who you love and loves you just walk away?

2006-08-07 23:59:51 · 13 answers · asked by Nicolle D 1

2006-08-07 23:49:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to learn about first night

2006-08-07 23:44:12 · 5 answers · asked by kk 1

2006-08-07 23:40:33 · 8 answers · asked by jwad j 1

2006-08-07 23:12:08 · 44 answers · asked by mz.hunnie 3

Ladies, i need answers, i want to show my wife that im trying, i want to show her im not a shut in, i hate the theater/musicals/ballet, i wouldnt ask her to go to a strip club with me... i dont want to go dancing... i want ideas for fun cheap date ideas, eg somewhere i can get on my oyster, cheap food, maybe some laughs, tho im taking her to a comedy club, just something a couple can do thats cheap and fun, no long walks, no museums, no art. Pref with other ppl about, but not noisy ppl, a hate pubs as they r full of noisy kids, getting wasted. Quiet cheap cpl fun! Pm me if you want, we would double, dont care if you 100 gay and disfigured etc.. Just need stuff to get us out.

2006-08-07 22:38:39 · 8 answers · asked by yeah well 5

My husband and I have been married for 5 years next month but I don't know what anniversary it is. All I know is that 1 year is paper, and 50 is Golden, 60 is diamond.

2006-08-07 22:35:38 · 10 answers · asked by chelle0980 6

Man do i hate mine, shes a stuck up, pile of **** whos convinced of her own self worth and fails to see how horrible of an excuse for a parent (or anything else for that matter!) she truely is, but enough about mine how about yours =)

2006-08-07 22:32:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-07 22:32:27 · 5 answers · asked by leloyoalot 2

I am just going to make this simple...How long have you been married? How old are you and your hubby? On average, how many times a week do you give your hubby oral sex to completion? What are your conditions and feelings regarding performing oral sex on your hubby, if any?

I am not fond of it but have no problem with it if I have been given the same treatment first. Problem is, I have an extremly low sex drive because I am a type 1 diabetic plus have to be on the pill and on top of that I am just feeling overwhelmed all the time. It has become another task for me since we had our son 2 1/2 years ago and I even thought my hubby wanted a BJ way too much before we had our son. I am really wondering how often husbands are asking for it and how often wives are giving it. I usually do it 2-3 times a week but for some reason I am thinking that it is way too much. I don't want to keep count of anything but his drive is insane and I am just feeling like sex has become like doing the dishes.

2006-08-07 22:25:15 · 3 answers · asked by chrissy757 5

2006-08-07 22:01:16 · 26 answers · asked by 1 1

My "husband" of 11 yrs. is now living in an apartment owned by his mother and has gone to work for his mother's company. He asked me today where he should send the divorce papers. Although I want him to heal and be happy (from the marriage and divorce), I'm so frustrated that happiness is coming more readily to him while I'm still stuck in sadness and depression. Furthermore, I can't help but be irritated with the mother-in-law for enticing him with this new life. She's tickled to have her son back (they live an hour and 15 min. away), but does she care that his family is severed (we have 2 kids)? How do I stop envying their happiness and start finding happiness of my own? And is it wrong to feel this way?

2006-08-07 21:59:39 · 8 answers · asked by ophelia 2

My husband & I are a very sexually active couple (at least 1x or more a day & we've been together for almost a yr) & although I'll be satisfied during sexual intercourse, afterwards (a few minutes or even a few hours) I find myself wanting more, but he'll be spent. We try all different things & rarely the same position 2x/wk (only 3 positions are ever the same). He's the sweetest & most caring man in the world but I fear I may be a nympho (like most of the females in my family...) I'd only been w/ a few people before him but they hadn't broken my hymen nor given me an orgasim (he gives me MANY during sex) Also, I haven't the <3 to tell him that he's never given me an orgasim while going down on me. Is there anyway that I can get off while he goes down on me? Since he loves to so much? Being w/ another is OUT OF THE QUESTION!! (Yes, he has a tongue ring & <3 2 watch me play. No, I wasn't abused sexually as a child. I could go w/o sex w/ him & could cuddle instead. I just want to know y)

2006-08-07 21:51:14 · 13 answers · asked by Krysti 2

My wife and i have been married for 5 years, we have three sons under the age of 5 together, lately she says she doesn't love me anymore. i have been trying to do as much as possible around the house, help with the kids but she says she is not attacted to me anymore, she feels cold with me. we try to go out by ourselves to spark something by it seems like nothing is working. one day she says everything is fine, and other days she is not happy. she is 32 and i am 37. i have never cheated on her or lied to her. i don't spend time in bars, i am home as much as possible. we have no money problems. we have been to see consulting and i does seem to be getting any where. the biggest problem that has come up was i wasn't helping enough around the house. she also says she went through hard pregnancies. is there a chance she will fall back in love with me? I think this is going to be hard on me and my kids?

2006-08-07 21:50:55 · 11 answers · asked by pat379 1

l love my wife so much that she turns me to puddy. I'm in no way, shape, or form, a whimp. Just man enough to show my wife the loving she deserves. Of all of my friends, I'm the only one still married. When I hang out with them, I drink beer and get rowdy too. But when it's time for me to go, I go. They call me pu$$y whipped, go home to the little woman. No surprised their all divorced. But why crack on a man who's happy in marriage and will do ANYTHING for his wife? I don't understand.

2006-08-07 21:42:57 · 11 answers · asked by wudbiser 4

im married, husband drinking and fighting and hiting me. i need love and care. i suffered for 15 years. Now i got a new lover he is unmarried. he told me he will look after me. actually he gives love and care. so, he said he nevr married another woman. he need me and also he asked me to come with him to go abroad. So, what shall i do. i have two children. my new lover told me he will look after my kids too. I cant get a decision. both of us love each other. sometime when someone look at me even he does not like. he said nobody look at me without him. Even he doesnt like if i sleep with my husband i mean not sex. So, i have no idea. me2 love him very much. important thing is he is younger than me. Plz tell me wht should i do?

2006-08-07 21:37:43 · 4 answers · asked by anudil 1

2006-08-07 21:29:55 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-07 21:20:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife loves me to kiss her feet and toes. I want to walk up to her while she's watching tv, sit on the floor with a bucket of water and towels. Take off her shoes and socks and slowly wash her feet one at a time.(she's on her feet all day at work). Once i'm done I will dry them, kiss her toes, sprinkle baby powder on her pretty feet and slide her favorite slippers on. Would this be sexy or dumb?

2006-08-07 21:15:49 · 25 answers · asked by wudbiser 4

I want to be the focus of his emotions but I'm afraid that every time I get this attention, he always wants to jump to bed to prove this point. How do I handle this without hurting his feeling and not getting to bed with him:?

2006-08-07 21:04:44 · 16 answers · asked by Kasanova 1

2006-08-07 20:59:21 · 16 answers · asked by princess ysa 3

My wife drinks and does cocaine all most everyday and want to split cause she is unhappy and depressed and blames it on me. I work and make a good living and have showered my wife with nice things for 4 years and she does not work. She shops, spends money, drinks and does drugs, we have house keepers and no kids and I still can’t get a hot meal on the table when I get home so my wife is basically on vacation permaninenty with no responsibilities at all. Unfortunately I have enabled her to be lazy. I work and make a living and pay for everything so we are going to get divorced and she gets 1/2 of all the money I have saved and property I have bought? Then I have to pay her alimony, DAMN. I am self employee so should I just go on vacation and not earn anymore money cause I have to pay more if I earn more? Help I need advice!

2006-08-07 20:55:05 · 11 answers · asked by jamessmith2200 1

I always have this question in my mind. Me & my bf are an life example. My family is a typical Chinese family in China whereas my bf's is a Christian family, speaking English.

I met him in Singapore during studies and we have been together for 1yr 5 mths..

I scare that next time if we are going to married, how can our parents communicate? My parents only can speak Chinese(my dad knows English though, but Singapore English is quite different from standard English), his parents only speak English(her mother knows a bit Chinese only) and he can speak some Chinese but not that good...

Will our marriage be affected by this?? (i'm 21 this yr, he is 23 next yr)

2006-08-07 20:53:47 · 6 answers · asked by a V a 4

We have a beautiful 16 month old son. My wife constantly finds fault with everything I do (even when I do what she asks), and explodes into cruel, spitting rages. Our son is suffering from this situation. Wife is in total denial. She wants a divorce, then wants revenge, then says she is trying to make it better. How do I get her some help? She will not admit these behaviors to professional, or go to marraige counseling. Thanks for any input.

2006-08-07 20:43:22 · 12 answers · asked by John D 1

My husband and I decided to do something different. He commented on a.nal. Should I do it? I want to know if it hurts? How does it feel? What else should we try??

2006-08-07 20:20:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you do if your spouse lied time and time again about stuff they did on the internet and then after prying it out of them you found out that it was cybersex and they said that they were sorry and would even get rid of the internet would you stay with them?

2006-08-07 20:18:35 · 6 answers · asked by J E 1

2006-08-07 20:15:13 · 11 answers · asked by digarts 1

A month ago I was at Vegas, NV. I went to a club and I lost count of my drinks. Some how I had meet a guy (who is/was a resident in Vegas). The next day I woke up in his bed I asked "who he was". He said, "I am your husband!" Some how I don't remember anything of that night. He looks like a nice guy. Should I stay with him and do a pre-nup? Or File for divorce?

2006-08-07 20:03:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

in answer to my previous question he was having problems with the people he was living with and he moved to his familys and i live with my grandparents to help out with them till he can afford a place for us.. and we are still together in that way but i am just worried about my son and what is going on.

2006-08-07 20:01:08 · 2 answers · asked by Melinda D 3

2006-08-07 20:00:01 · 19 answers · asked by Vikas Singh 2