My wife drinks and does cocaine all most everyday and want to split cause she is unhappy and depressed and blames it on me. I work and make a good living and have showered my wife with nice things for 4 years and she does not work. She shops, spends money, drinks and does drugs, we have house keepers and no kids and I still can’t get a hot meal on the table when I get home so my wife is basically on vacation permaninenty with no responsibilities at all. Unfortunately I have enabled her to be lazy. I work and make a living and pay for everything so we are going to get divorced and she gets 1/2 of all the money I have saved and property I have bought? Then I have to pay her alimony, DAMN. I am self employee so should I just go on vacation and not earn anymore money cause I have to pay more if I earn more? Help I need advice!
2006-08-07 20:55:05 · 11 answers · asked by jamessmith2200 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get a good lawyer !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-07 20:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Teslajuliet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but there is no way to get away from that finacially,but you damn sure dont need to stop making money just cause you gotta give her half. She'll hit rock bottom and wanna do something or kill herself with her habits soon. But unfortunatly divorce as well as marriage is expensive.So your divorce is definatly about to eat the *** out of the end of your bank. Get Ready! Good Luck!
2006-08-07 21:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sell your assets before divorce (house, cars, furniture etc.) Put all the money into an accounts in Caemens or Swiss accounts. Go on permanent vacation somewhere else in the world.
2006-08-07 20:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by bombhaus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a good lawer. In My state a 3 year prison term is legal grounds for divorce. not sure what the "conspiracy to possess cocaine" carries... points to ponder... and if you would be libel as well since you've already admitted to knowlege aforehand. Yeah,, get a goooooood lawyer
2006-08-07 21:00:41 · answer #4 · answered by mfc795 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Create separate accounts to de-link the finances. I would never recommend funneling money somewhere that doesn't show-up on the radar would be bad. However, here is a link to information. Bankruptcy is not the only option, but I think it can be tricky. Hope the link can help.
2016-03-27 03:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give her a divorce. Make her suffer. Just get your own place and move on. I would never give her the satisfaction of any of what you have earned, and I am a woman.
2006-08-07 21:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man i have done this and bought the t shirt! there is only one way out. kiss ***.....and drain the savings a few hundred at a time so you can answer were it went with.....my own drug habbit.
cash out the property.......
bury it of give to a very trusted person. no paper trail.....
trust me she will take it all with the judge smiling at you. partnerhip the business, giving the other control, file bankrupsy...then divorce and open under a different name. the only way out is to cash out and hide it......better believe it brother.....
use your head man.........or loze your ***...........goodluck!!
2006-08-07 21:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sell all your shlt to a brother or sister for 1$, give them power of attorney over all your stuff and take your wife off of it.
2006-08-07 21:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a great lawyer or better still barrister
2006-08-07 20:57:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bend over and kiss your *** goodbye, there is no financial protection in a divorce, i have been tryin to divorce my husband for 6 years now....goodluck....it is a b i t c h,and it sounds like she is to
2006-08-07 20:59:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same way you did in marriage......lie
2006-08-07 20:58:49 · answer #11 · answered by dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋