A.nal, should I do it??

Question

My husband and I decided to do something different. He commented on a.nal. Should I do it? I want to know if it hurts? How does it feel? What else should we try??

Answer 1

Anal sex is not for everyone. You have to have an open mind and be willing to stick with it from the beginning because initially it is going to hurt a bit. It takes sometime to get use to having something stuck in your anus whether it be a d*ck, a toy, or whatever regardless of the amount of lube you use. And a good quality lube is very important. Brands like WET and Glide are good brands but shop around. While you are shopping for good lubes pick up a couple of anal toys. They have all kinds (probes, beads, plugs, etc...) Ofcourse they come in all shapes and sizes so choose a variety. They can help loosen you up for the real thing. After you apply plenty of lube and your husband starts to penetrate you besure to make him take it slow. As a matter of fact once he is in a little bit you should control the progression. Take it slow; give your rectal muscles time to relax around his d*ck. Once you are ready push back against him takign it in slowly. Once it is all the way in allow yourself time to relax again; get use to it. Once you ready again either you or your husband can start taking it in and out but very slowly. The rest is up to you.

While doing this you can rub on your clit, penetrate your vagina with a dildo, vibrator, or other toy. Incorporating toys in to your sex sessions can be very fun and very, very pleasurable. It can an hours to your enjoyment. They have instructional videos out for things like this. You just have to do some research.

Answer 2

I can only comment from the male side but I can honestly say,that all the women I've had anal with, seemed to have enjoyed it , but then again its not something you rush and patience and a gentle hand goes a long way in to if you enjoy it or not. The time invested has always been well worth it to Me. Good quality lube is a must. And they are not all the same, there are tons of new ones on the market today, you just have to be careful of reactions ,personal preference, and price.

There are way more sensory receptors up the bum than the vaginal trac. Makes sense to Me it would be more sensitive to both pain and pleasure, and of course there are those that feel those are synonomous. To each his (or her)own, you'll never know which you are untill you try I suppose.

Answer 3

She might have interior haemorrhoids and even warts, this may reason anal bleeding. When we grow older our tissues 'dry up' and cells grow older so they do not secrete as a lot. The bowel is full of mucous probably (to support the passage of poo), however with anal intercourse u have to use plenty of water- founded lubrication (no longer vaseline because it harbours micro organism). The Dr can do a rapid assess with a proctoscope to have a seem to look what's going on, however I might preserve off with the anal intercourse four now, because the bleeding may not get larger. Maybe she used to be too dry? Also a rectal ultrasound will also be performed to assess for any abnormalities. Make definite she tells her Dr that she engages in anal intercourse. With any lengthy bleeding, positioned pads/towels some thing u have handy, and get her to lie on a pillow together with her backside up (so the blood does not drift downward). Ice wrapped in a teatowel will aid constrict blood vessels and ensure she does not take Ibuprofen (because it explanations interior bleeding within the frame) - until she has been taking too many anti-inflammatories? Hope she feels larger quickly.

Answer 4

I'll bet he's at least a bit homophobic too. It's often the homophobic married men who keep trying to talk their wives into doing that. Do you see the irony I see? They dislike gays but they want to go up the butt of their wife, like some gay couples do...huh. And what is the difference between a man's rectum and a woman's???????

And the funny thing is if you ask a bunch of gay men if they do that, many of them will say they don't. So go figure.

I tried it once, it hurt right away and it ended. Not gonna try that again. That's not a spot for incoming. So I say don't do it! But a woman I worked with said it was OK, with some other manipulations...

Good luck.

Answer 5

Now a days most of people is using this type of enjoyment.
Generally it is not to good in the future ageing.

Any how enjoy first time while using lubricants are gels in slowly the entering the penis into anal and you can take a decision on the enjoyment. Everybody has having their own relevant experiences.

Answer 6

Yeah it hurts a bit. Go really slow and use lots of lube. Make him stop but not pull out so you can get used to him. Then continue moving.

It's actually alot of fun when you get used to the sensation.

Answer 7

By all means go ahead and do it if you want to spice up your sex life. Just read and find out more on how to do it properly and you will learn to enjoy it. What else should you try? How about sex toys? Sex games? Good luck!

Answer 8

Girls I've been with says it hurts at first but once they get used to it they like it allot. They say it makes them *** harder. They would ask me all the time to do it with them from then on. Have Fun!!!

Answer 9

Why? God didn't make you that way..
Think about that before you commit Sodomy..
You making a mockery of the only creative force you have
the gift of procreation "the gift of life"

Answer 10

Just clean out you colon first.
Do not give oral after, till you've both had a shower.

You should also try swingers clubs.