Marriage & Divorce - 7 August 2006

Is it normal to love your husband but hate him at the same time? I keep telling him I want a divorce, but when he agree's with me I can't do it because I love him... Please help I am tired of being miserable! I don't know what to do!

2006-08-07 07:15:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you ever had this feeling before? I love my fiance for being the father of my baby and also for the great lover he is, but I also hate him for his past and the way he used to treat me (its a long story, but things have gotten better!)

I don't plan on leaving him, I just want to know if this is truly possible.

Thanks!

2006-08-07 07:12:06 · 59 answers · asked by Kathy S 2

November will be our 4 yr anniversary. Why is it taking him so long to get married? We have already talked about marriage and we are both committed to the fact that we were made for each other and we ARE getting married some day...but when is it too long? Will we ever get married? He says he wants children and so do I. I have 3 from a previous marriage and he loves them to death. He is 40. I am 27. He has never been married nor has any children of his own. His mother moved in with him 20yrs ago when her husband (not bf father) died. Please help.

2006-08-07 07:11:30 · 5 answers · asked by sapphiresunstar 3

2006-08-07 07:10:46 · 11 answers · asked by Steven's Girl♥ 5

Pls say what state u r from.

I'm trying to make a connection between geographical region and local culture and premarital sex.

2006-08-07 07:08:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a diference in a child raised by parents led by God and children raisedi by daycare workers who just want a paycheck.

2006-08-07 07:06:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

It was said during a disagreement.

2006-08-07 07:01:34 · 25 answers · asked by suburbsformeandme 1

I am a very uptight person always worrying about something, i cant seem to relax or have fun and its causing serious problems in my marriage. I feel guilty if he tells me to go out so i dont but then when he does i get jelous, when he trys to get me to have a bit of fun or go out i often drive and about 1am get very tired and then want to go home, but if im not driving then i do have a good drink and relax. We have 2 kids and my hubby is a night owl whereas i am more a morning person. I cant even go to the shop without worrying about how long i am and always rush to get home. Then when he does go out i sometimes cause an argument as he can go out all night and doesnt come home till the nxt day, i trust him completely but he says i make him feel guilty going out so when he does go out he makes the most of it......i really dont know what to do, we love each other but it really is causing big problems, if the house is a mess i constantly worry about getting it tidy- what do i do??

2006-08-07 06:57:57 · 17 answers · asked by ericola 1

We been married 28 years and I find myself a lot hornier than her. I want to try new things to spice it up. I've talked to her about it but she avoids the questions.

2006-08-07 06:56:52 · 22 answers · asked by dwnaz1 2

My daughter's stepfather saw my 12 year old walking with my neighbor's 9 year old girl to the store that's only a block away. He told her that she is not to walk to the store ever again. I thought this was kinda dumb. My daughter lives with her mother and stepfather and visits me 2 weekends a month. I live in a trailer park but it's not that bad of a neighborhood. Does he have the right to tell my daughter that she can't walk to the store. My wife called me and asked that I not let her walk to the store anymore. Why can't I let her do what she wants to do?

2006-08-07 06:51:12 · 27 answers · asked by TK 2

See I was just curious my spouse spends alot of time chatting with other woman, and sometimes there is cybering involve. Sometimes he waits until the kids and I are in bed but, other times he just goes to another room. I was just wanting someones opnion on however this should be allowed to go.

2006-08-07 06:51:04 · 9 answers · asked by Amy S 1

i know him for along time n we become friends, i just love him like a brother but he wants me to love him more than a bro n he's older than me but perfect while i'm still a teen n i don't want to tell him that forget all about that rudly, so plz help me

2006-08-07 06:43:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-07 06:43:09 · 19 answers · asked by Wally 2

My mom and dad were married and he made four childern outside the family while still married to mom and by two different woman.

2006-08-07 06:43:01 · 19 answers · asked by Lina 2

My husband and I recently went through an outs. We talked things over and decided our love was too strong to lose. He and I want to start fresh. Do you think it would be a good idea to renew our vows? He wants to ask me to marry him all over again. This would include him buying an engagement ring and a new wedding band. What do you guys think about it? Should we do this and use new rings as an official restart or should we renew with our original rings? Thanks for your help all!

2006-08-07 06:41:37 · 14 answers · asked by babyblu 1

2006-08-07 06:39:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I and my husband have been thinking about getting a divoice. I however am in the process of selling my home that I had before our marrige, I really need to sell my home now but my fear is because we live in a community property state and because he has expressed that he thinks he should be paid for the monies he has put towards the mortgage payments throughout our almost 4 yr marraige he feels I owe him in the event I sell the house and if we divoice- I really am not in agreement with this.

2006-08-07 06:38:00 · 9 answers · asked by june c 1

I love my husband dearly. He's a complicated man. He doesn't like too much. The only thing he really likes is sports. He doesn't like parties. I want to do something special for him. Does anyone have any unique ideas that I can celebrate our 1 year wedding anniversary. NOTE: we have been together for 13 years.

2006-08-07 06:35:14 · 8 answers · asked by Ariana W 2

I have a friend going thru a crisis. She feels he is cheating.. I most def feel he is. she just needs proof , He is a lieing cheat, who doesn't care who he steps on to get what he wants. Any suggestions would be helpful to her... Thanks in advance

2006-08-07 06:30:00 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know it may seem silly, but sometimes I am really thankful for all the wonderful people here that share their knowledge and experiences here on Answers. Yes, sometimes it may be a silly question or whatever, but sometimes you can ask something that really weighs heavily on your heart and mind, something you would ask a good friend, and it seems like you have hundreds of good friends willing to listen and lend some sound advice. Anyone else feel that way? I know I will get some meanies with an attitude ax to grind, but thanks to all the genuine people out there that take the time to share their hearts, minds, and knowledge. You have made a difference in someones day!

2006-08-07 06:22:54 · 11 answers · asked by Sunshine 4

my wife asks me to make a private room for her which she can spend her time alone in that room, doing what she likes (reading, meditate or i don't know...). It is for her privacy, she said. I don't agree with her. Please advise....

2006-08-07 06:20:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-07 06:18:55 · 8 answers · asked by prettybina1977 1

I have a very good marriage with the exception of one issue...sex. We average 2-4 times a week and my husband thinks that is depriving him. I have a feeling most men will say "hell yah", but seriosly, there is so much more to it than that. I am a stay at home mom, i also babysit, I'm surrounded by the constant demands of little people all day, which at the end of the day, doesnt exactly make me feel 'sexy'. Plus I'm tired. Since summer is here and the kids are out school, my husband doesnt believe in making the kids go to bed at 8 or 9 so that we can be alone. He'll let them stay up til 10, 11, and even 12, and by then I'm beat and all I want to do is sleep. Is there something wrong with me? Should I feel obligated to have sex on demand, even when I'm not into it? I would think most men would want their partner to be into it, and not just do it to pacify the man. I love my husband and want to satisfy him, but I hardly think that 2-4 times a week is depriving him. Help!

2006-08-07 06:12:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I showed him the page and now all he does is look at it. Should I have showed it to him or not? He even put in our favorites. Should I be mad or is it my fault for showing it to him? Hes been divorced for like 13 years. I think he's just curious. Should I also delete it from the favorites?

2006-08-07 06:06:10 · 9 answers · asked by crystal lee 5

2006-08-07 06:03:19 · 20 answers · asked by nanita 1

married 4 years, neither of us can say were in love anymore

2006-08-07 06:02:47 · 29 answers · asked by yeah well 5

My husband has never been a drinker. Even when we go out he normally doesn't even drink. But I recently bought him a 6 pack of this beer he had said that he liked. He laughed and told me that it would take him forever to go through that since he would hardly ever drink it. However the complete opposite happened. It was gone in 6 days, one a night. And for the past 2 weeks he has bought another 6 pack when we go to the grocery store. Now he is drinking one a night sometimes 2. Yesterday something made him mad and he's been pissed ever since. He even almost got into a fight at the grocery store. He has anger issues as it is, but now he's being rude to me. What should I do? I want to pour out the new pack of beer he just bought, because I think that's what doing it to him.

2006-08-07 05:59:13 · 11 answers · asked by angel32984 3

I recently was chatting with men over the internet and it led to some infidelaties.My husband found out needless to say.We are still together but there is this huge wall between us now.We have talked about what happened and why it happened but he just can't seem to get past what I've done. I'm in counseling but he won't go.What can I do to try and break down this wall?

2006-08-07 05:56:10 · 7 answers · asked by crazy puppy 1

on my finger for my insulin blood test. Does anyone know of a test that doesn't pierce the skin? My wife says one doesn't exist? I say it does. Can you settle our argument?

2006-08-07 05:52:19 · 10 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

when people confess there secrets, and dirty landry, I mean I just laugh , I really don't watch soaps but somtimes I think that thses people are the soaps ,, what do you think???

2006-08-07 05:51:20 · 4 answers · asked by E.M. 4