My Mom has cheated on my Dad so, many times. How do I tell her that she's wrong without her getting mad at me?

Answer 1

I would not care if she got mad. I would just tell her exactly how I feel because truth be told, she is wrong.

Answer 2

Well, you've got a right to be mad and express that, but do so respectfully. She's damaged YOU as well as her marriage. She's going to be mad because people don't like to be checked. She subjected you to knowledge that she is an unfaithful woman, now she has to be accountable. Talking to her might help you understand how she could have done it and prevent you from picking up her bad habits or choosing to do the same. She'll get over your anger. Don't hold it all inside. You've got something both to learn and teach in talking with her. Bless your heart.

Answer 3

Sit her down and explain to her what her cheating is doing to your family and how she is hurting herself, you and your dad. Don't hold back because it is not fair to you or your father. She has to realize that wedding vows are not to be taken lightly. She took him for better or worse. If she gets mad, so what. She has to understand what she is doing is wrong and it hurts a lot of people. You have to think about yourself and your father. It would help if you sought some counseling because this can take a toll on your health.

Answer 4

Your mother has a problem and its not sex somethings missing in the relationship and she needs to find out why shes doing it. I would go to her and say mom I love you but why are you doing this to dad? Maybe she can admit to a problem get help and rekindle her marriage and work it all out but she has to admit she needs help and follow thru with it all expecially it she still loves your dad. Its possible she fell out of love with him but still he needs to know the truth and not cheated on honesty works the best rather then doing something behind the one that cares about yous back.

Answer 5

Just TELL HER. Realize this....If she is going to get angry with you, it's because she KNOWS she's WRONG and instead of owning her own responsiblity for her own actions, she'll try to avoid being responsible by getting angry with you.
TELL HER THAT YOU WON'T ACCEPT HER PLACING ANY BLAME FOR HER ACTIONS ON YOU and that she needs to GROW UP!
Just put it out like it is.... YOU AREN'T the one who's in the wrong here and it's not your fault nor your problem if she chooses to get mad at you.... Stand your ground....

Those who are telling you that it isn't your business are wrong. This situation obviously effects the family because it is not just your parents involved....there is a third adult.... Not cool....

Answer 6

When you love someone there are times you have to face the difficult issues and this is one of those times. This is one time you MUST NOT think of your feelings and instead think about what your mother is doing to your father and their marriage. She is breaking the most important vow anyone will ever make. Your mother must be confronted by you because it is a matter of conscience and morality.

Answer 7

you are not . she will be mad at you , cause its the truth and some times it is hard to hear the truth .. but the sooner she hears it the soon she will get real with it and then she can decide what she is going to do .. she needs to think about the std's she could get or even AIDS , from your dad messing around . it is not fair to her at all.. tell her

Answer 8

Why would she be mad at you? It should be the other way around. You should let her know how you feel. Don't keep things to yourself becuase it will hurt you in the future.

Answer 9

One word of advise hon, STAY OUT OF IT! Your mother's relationship with your father is her affair. Your father probably already knows so it's his issue not yours. For all you know he may want her to play with other men, parents are sexual creatures too ya know and in some cases they are more kinky than their children will ever know.

Answer 10

She know she is wrong, sweet girl.