See I was just curious my spouse spends alot of time chatting with other woman, and sometimes there is cybering involve. Sometimes he waits until the kids and I are in bed but, other times he just goes to another room. I was just wanting someones opnion on however this should be allowed to go.
2006-08-07 06:51:04 · 9 answers · asked by Amy S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well i do it ,, but i'm a guy . to me it's not cheating and i've only done it once with wife around . she said i don't want to tonight if you want it go cyber,,,so i did ,,,lol it didn't go over to well .
2006-08-07 06:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by Rooster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is my rule of thumb...
If he wants to chat, fine. But if it is something that he would NOT normally say to the face of a mutual female friend of ours, then it is not something he should be talking about with strangers.
If he is "taking matters into his own hands" while on the net...this is out of control.
Disconnect internet service until he realizes that he has the real thing right in front of him.
2006-08-07 06:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is considered cheating because he is breaking a commitment he made to you. By cybering he is giving a woman affection that belongs only yo you.
2006-08-07 06:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by JT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
emotional attachments are just as serious as sexual ones...
The next time he's on the computer with his woman --- go turn the power off..... and tell him you want his attention and affection just like he vowed when you and him got married ... The time you found out was long enough --- now go get your man back and work on repairing the damage to the marriage
2006-08-07 06:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KICK HIS A$$ If he cared about you or your feelings he would not be 'cybering' yes it is cheating if he is getting excitted or getting off dump his lame *** on the side of the road. if ur at home and willing to give it to him he is even more retarded
2006-08-07 07:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it cheating!!
Let me get this straight his wife and kids are home and he goes to the computer and talks to women about sex. And more likely guys pretending to be girls. Tell your husband to grow up and try giving his wife and kids the attention they deserve.
2006-08-07 07:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it could go either way, if he's not meeting the girls or touching them, it just depends on how you feel. Emotionally and mentally it is cheating. Again, how comfortable in your relationship are you?
2006-08-07 07:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by furbee_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is still cheating...He is cheating on you mentally...block is wed site, if the situation was reverse he would say you were cheating...Stop him now,before he get serious...
2006-08-07 07:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on you and if you think its causing ur marriage harm
2006-08-07 06:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋