I showed him the page and now all he does is look at it. Should I have showed it to him or not? He even put in our favorites. Should I be mad or is it my fault for showing it to him? Hes been divorced for like 13 years. I think he's just curious. Should I also delete it from the favorites?
2006-08-07 06:06:10 · 9 answers · asked by crystal lee 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They dont have any children and she lives on the other side of the country and he doesnt have her phone number so no worries there.
2006-08-07 06:15:39 · update #1
You probably would have been better off not showing it to him. I'm sure a large part out of it is curiosity but at the point he puts it in your favorites and is looking at it all the time I'd be concerned that he has unresolved feelings for her. I suspect his next move will be to contact her.
2006-08-07 06:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 7⤊ 1⤋
well sweetie what were u doing showing it to him anyway
u should have a lot of other entertaining things to talk bout, not his ex-wife. do ya want him thinkin bout her? i bet u don't
so don't mention her again. "accidentally" delete the page, and soon, till he doesn't get used to it. u might also unplug the internet cable for a few days, make sure he forgets. play it safe ;)
and for those who think a page ain't important, imagine this: he looks and looks at the page. he sees a picture in which the ex looks real nice. he remembers all the good times they had 2gether. he picks up the phone and calls her "just to see how's she's doing"
.... and this is how it all begins....
2006-08-07 13:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by lady xanax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's stupid enough to put it in favorites that says alot. Plus not to even look at it when you wouldn't know. Curiosity is one thing but this is all odd. If he is that curious he is one step away from emailing her if he hasn't already. You as his fiancee should be on his mind most of all. Sounds as if he isn't ready for the big step even if he is doing nothing wrong.
2006-08-07 14:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by jackson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would be concerned as you. If this makes you feel better, I would probably be really upset and angry, since I'm the jealous type.( And thankfully, so is my Fiance. We both don't have any contact with our exes.) Maybe you should confront him and ask him why he would do that. AND tell him how you feel about it too. That's the best way to do things. Don't get angry right away, just tell him how it makes you feel.
2006-08-07 13:19:53 · answer #4 · answered by mellybee4321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not delete it from his favorites. You don't want to be to pushy and make these choices for him. You did say his ex. Well there is a reason for that and he is with you now. You should have nothing to worry about. Don't stress yourself out over this.
2006-08-07 13:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by Wilma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him why he put it on the favorites list. Tell him that it's bothering you a bit why he is so curious. I would not just delete it. Your not a child. He would probably find it again any way. Ask him why all the interest. Nip this in the butt asap.
2006-08-07 13:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by mackey208 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just leave it alone she will always have a place in his heart.If they have kids together more so.I know I have an exwife too.And we have kids.He is with you but dont take that away.He may need it.
2006-08-07 13:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on what you are using your 360 for. a lot of people use it for social networking ie: dating, sex, etc.
2006-08-07 13:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats your fault. he is probably emailing her now
2006-08-07 13:42:27 · answer #9 · answered by HUSTLER 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋