i know him for along time n we become friends, i just love him like a brother but he wants me to love him more than a bro n he's older than me but perfect while i'm still a teen n i don't want to tell him that forget all about that rudly, so plz help me
2006-08-07 06:43:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just tell him straight up in a polit hey i like you but not in that way kinda way. good luck hun the truth is better then a lie. and please dont hurt him he will more then likey respect you for telling him the truth.
2006-08-07 06:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess you could tell him you think the world of him but are not ready for the marriage rack...er ...track. You are still a teen and too young anyway ...and need to date more young men or have more nites out with the girls. Being.too young anyway that is only fair to you.
You didn't say how much older he was...there could very possibly be more to add here if we had that information.
Just speak from your heart. Good luck.
2006-08-13 14:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he needs is someone else to focus on. Set him up on a date with one of your friends that finds him attractive, double date if you have to with someone you get along with. I'd let her know ahead of time the situation your in so she won't think he was rude to her if he paid more attention to you. Seeing you happy with someone else might flip a light on and he'll get the point without you having to say anything. Be nice, don't flaunt, just be yourself and have a good time.
2006-08-14 18:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him skrait up hey i dont lik u so leave u alone i luv u but i luv u like a bro we can still b friends but ima teen im not ready 4 a relationship yet
2006-08-14 05:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your not ready for a serious relationship, tell him you don't mind hanging out from time to time but your education is more important right now and you need to focus on that.
2006-08-07 06:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I get the just of what you are asking. The best thing to do is move on with your life. Let him see that you are dating other ppl.(if your aloud to date!?!) and treat him like you would treat any other girl friend, letting him know who you think is cute and see if he won't hook you up with some of his guy friends. If he doesn't get the hint on that well then hon your just going to have to be up front and let him know what your feelings truely are. Good luck.
2006-08-07 06:53:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Let him down easy. If I am with a guy knowing that he has more feelings for me than I for him I will end it. It is not fair to you or him. You need to be a little selfish and understand that you need to worry about yourself-nobody else will.
2006-08-07 07:10:47 · answer #7 · answered by Amy Renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing u will do is to tell the truth about ur feelings to him u must not lying.but mke it slowly slowly then is not painful and hurt in his part.is not easy coz he loves u too much and his willing to marry u.the problem we cannot teach our heart to whom we love.actually ur blessed coz there is one man who loves u and willing to give his life but u dont love him.just only make it easy and as soon as possible before is too late for u.
2006-08-07 07:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by cute sam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth the sooner the better or you may find yourself with a much bigger problem i would sit down with him and tell him "your like a brother to me and a good friend and you like guys more your age.
2006-08-14 16:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing to do is be honest with him. Sit him down and honestly tell him how you fell about him. Yes, it will hurt him...but he will understand if your honest with him instead of constantly lying to him about how you feel.
2006-08-15 03:44:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋