2006-08-07 20:59:21 · 16 answers · asked by princess ysa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Love can be nurtured in a person if he/she gives it a chance. Why did he marry her when he doesn't love her at all. I know that some girls out there feel more secure with a married man because they tend to be more compassionate and understands a woman's needs but it's not a right thing to do. That man has got a family of his own, a responsibility that he had undertaken when he agreed to marry her. Loving her or not, the responsibility still exist. His wife is a lady and so are you, think about it. If he could neglect his wife, who is his responsibility to protect and love, there's no telling if he will do the same to you later.
2006-08-07 21:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by Dina_Effiana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you have felt if your father behaved this way with your mother, or if your husband does this to you, or if your son-in-law would do this to your daughter.
Or what if your best friend's husband behaved as your lover does?
Also, would you like it if your daughter were "another woman".
Try to put yourself in someone else's shoes and you will see that the answer to your question is unmistakably YES...it is wrong.
If women would stop doing this to other women all over the world, the men in the world would not be able to cheat on the women in their lives and would actually have to work on their existing relationships or end them once and for all if they really are unhappy and can't work things out.
There is one other possibility that no one here has suggested. Are you even sure that he is married? Maybe that's just a lie so that he doesn't have to commit to you?
Either way, this is NOT a healthy relationship by any means. Not for anyone involved, especially you.
2006-08-07 21:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by mm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it's wrong even if he doesnt love his wife, it's like u steel something that doesnt belong to u. and about that he loves u...what makes u that sure, i think he's just enjoying his time with u and if he really loves u and he's not feeling comfortable with his wife, then why does he stuck at her, why not leaving her and marry you...hey girl wake up...this is totally wrong and u will regret one day.
2006-08-07 21:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by ^Butterfly^ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't love her why did he marry her... if he doesn't love her now why doesn't he leave her? Could it be because he has the best of both worlds... a loyal wife and a lover... he's using you!
2006-08-07 21:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by dosey-rosey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope when you get married some young stupid girl has a relationship with your husband HM even better when your pregnant with your first child you sl**
2006-08-07 21:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he never loved his wife, how come he's fking both of you and has not left the wife yet. Are you that stupid to see?
2006-08-07 21:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by Max 77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes It's wrong, his relationship and weather he loves his wife or not is his problem not yours, he's obviously not happy and he's most likely using you just for sex.
2006-08-07 23:47:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves u n not his wife then ask him to get a divorce n get back to u..he might b lying to u abt his feelings for his wife..
2006-08-07 21:04:24 · answer #8 · answered by devangel1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-08-07 21:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes - wait til a guy is divorced, or find a single guy
2006-08-08 01:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋