What would you do if your spouse lied time and time again about stuff they did on the internet and then after prying it out of them you found out that it was cybersex and they said that they were sorry and would even get rid of the internet would you stay with them?
2006-08-07 20:18:35 · 6 answers · asked by J E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
everyone thinks this is a man doing this it is a woman
2006-08-07 20:30:22 · update #1
who are you!
my husband has been doing this for years
i check history and there are all these sex sites and he says he doesnt know how they got there
goes on game sites and has women on his friends list. some of them young. i mean 19. hes 35
unlike you, my heads been buried in the sand
people think he probably has a g/f
GET OUT NOW AND NEVER LOOK BACK
Your husbands like mine a *@# as
i dont have the guts but if you do, go !!
You are worth so much more
what are you people nutz
maybe you should do this. maybe he needs this
what the *#@@!
YOU HAVE A PERSON AT HOME GO GET IT THERE
no excuses
2006-08-07 20:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by jillsaves613 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just fulfilling desires that the 2 of you have not discussed. Talk about role playing, it might help your relationship
become stronger. And if she is only doing this online I don't think it is all that bad. If you get rid of the internet, or her she could go out and do something real. Maybe she lies because
she is embarrassed.
2006-08-07 20:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by chrissm2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the temptation in your own home. but do not expect that he is just going to give it up. it is an addiction just like drugs in most cases. he might have to seek help. you have to decide the rest, about staying or not. if you feel that the marriage is a throw away then do so, if you think it is worth fighting for, then do so. God bless
2006-08-07 20:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care what my husband does online as long as he comes home to me. Now that said as long as it's some online fantasy I got no problem but If I ever find him meeting some real person he's history. So does he know this bothers you? That would be he real problem is if you told him it is hurtful and he still does it. Let him know how it makes you feel and talk about it.
2006-08-07 20:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by jenajet77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will find another place where internet is available.
No, I would not stay with him. It becomes an illness after some time.
2006-08-07 20:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by Peach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know cybersex.
2006-08-07 20:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by patrick w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋