Actually i need the correct answere, my new lover not married whether he lookafter me or not? i love him very?

Question

im married, husband drinking and fighting and hiting me. i need love and care. i suffered for 15 years. Now i got a new lover he is unmarried. he told me he will look after me. actually he gives love and care. so, he said he nevr married another woman. he need me and also he asked me to come with him to go abroad. So, what shall i do. i have two children. my new lover told me he will look after my kids too. I cant get a decision. both of us love each other. sometime when someone look at me even he does not like. he said nobody look at me without him. Even he doesnt like if i sleep with my husband i mean not sex. So, i have no idea. me2 love him very much. important thing is he is younger than me. Plz tell me wht should i do?

Answer 1

Stop looking for someone else to save you from your abusive marriage...it's your job to SAVE YOURSELF! It's not your new lover's job to rescue you from this...it is yours. Get out of that marriage first, THEN start a relationship with this new man. If you are going to act like a perpetual victim, you will remain a victim and the abuse will keep repeating in your life.

Answer 2

Choose...

Option 1: Life with abusive husband
Option 2: Life without abusive husband

MY father beat my mother. I don't like him. She left him when I was 10. I rather my life without him than with him.

Answer 3

u sure talk like u favor the new guy more so it means u like this guy more than ur messed up husband. if he is financially stable then yes, go with him and take ur kids and just for kicks, get a restraining order on ur husband.

Answer 4

It's up to you what you want to do with the new man... BUT, please do get out of the marriage especially if it is abusive!! You don't deserve it, no woman does!!!