After sex w/my husband I'm not satisfied, but I am during &it makes him upset. What 2do?(2 in 1 '?')(Revised)

Question

My husband & I are a very sexually active couple (at least 1x or more a day & we've been together for almost a yr) & although I'll be satisfied during sexual intercourse, afterwards (a few minutes or even a few hours) I find myself wanting more, but he'll be spent. We try all different things & rarely the same position 2x/wk (only 3 positions are ever the same). He's the sweetest & most caring man in the world but I fear I may be a nympho (like most of the females in my family...) I'd only been w/ a few people before him but they hadn't broken my hymen nor given me an orgasim (he gives me MANY during sex) Also, I haven't the <3 to tell him that he's never given me an orgasim while going down on me. Is there anyway that I can get off while he goes down on me? Since he loves to so much? Being w/ another is OUT OF THE QUESTION!! (Yes, he has a tongue ring & <3 2 watch me play. No, I wasn't abused sexually as a child. I could go w/o sex w/ him & could cuddle instead. I just want to know y)

Answer 1

well try this b4 sex have lots of foreplay say for about 15 or 20 mins
then go the it and then also after you guys comes have some more foreplay that should help you guys
try it and let us know

Answer 2

i think first u need to forget u having sex with ur husband rather take it as a love making process. it doesnot matter how many orgasm u reach during sexual process but it does matter u feel satisfied or not. u urself answered ur question by saying that cuddle is enough. thats what is required. u need to understand the vibes of ur husband and act accordingly. u not a nympho otherwise u must have had other men apart from hubby. urs a psychological problem rather than physical. u need to relaxed and do all the sexual acts which make u relax. never force urself upon ur hubby and dont let him do it also. dont ever think of other things or problems during sex, it would improve.

Answer 3

Need more data! You stated in your question that, "I may be a nympho like most of the females in my family". Suggest that you go see a doctor and talk to him about this family tree problem. There might be something that he can do for you. For him, you might try Viagra.. You have been married not quite a year now, it takes a long time it get bodies to work together. Try counseling to get you through this small problem..
After reading the answers to your question I see allot of good suggestions for you to look into.. Good Luck..

Answer 4

I am a chick and I think mabe you should take it on the other side girl mabe you don't know that that's what you wanted all along I did'nt know but after 4 yrs together I kind of was getting bored no matter the position now we moved on to a lot more dirty talk and dirty play and definately dirty toys you will be more fullfilled and less frustrated...good luck it is ok to be a nymph you have to accept your sexual nature and needs mabe you have a lot of scorpio in your chart of and use a dropper to put lub in your self if you going to play pony.That's just my experiance...

Answer 5

Guys can't root like girfl, Once we come were tired and have no desire for sex for about 6 to 12 hours.

Answer 6

Tell him not to *** for a few hours bcs u ll need more later, he doesn't need to come to enjoy sex anyway.

Alternatively give him some viagra.

Answer 7

Sex is MENTAL and physical. You're probably depending too much on the physical part of it. Masturbate and learn what makes you c.u.m and guide him through that process. Also, learn from what you experienced mentally while masturbating and see if you can replicate that.

Answer 8

By a sex toy for yourself. If you want more than he can give, maybe you should take matters into your own hands.

Dildo's exist for a reason.

Answer 9

before sex he needs to go down on you and make sure u c u m. then u will be satisfied for sure.

Answer 10

Cold shower!