If you wrote your husband a love letter(HE IS A PREACHER) and he did not read it! Then a day later he did?

Question

and thought it was to sexy! How would you feel? What would you do?

I will pray and fast! I need prayer? Please pray for me?

Answer 1

I WOULD PRAY FOR HIM, OBVIOUSLY HE DOESNT UNDERSTAND THAT GOD GAVE MAN TO WOMAN AND VICE VERSA,,GOD WANTS US TO LOVE OUR MATES....THERE SHOULD NO CONDEMNATION FOR YOU EXPRESSING YOUR LOVE TO HIM.........PRAY FOR WISDOM FOR YOUR HUSBAND,,,,,THE WORD OF GOD SAYS "THE PRAYER OF A RIGHTEOUS MAN (WOMAN) AVAILETH MUCH...GOD DOES REALLY LISTEN TO OUR PRAYERS AND RESPONDS IN HIS PERFECT TIME.........DONT DO IT ANYMORE FOR A WHILE AND JUST PRAY, GOD WILL SHOW HIM HE SHOULDNT FEEL LIKE THAT. AND P.S. THE DEVIL IS NOT OPERATING THRU YOU LIKE THAT OTHER PERSON JUST SAID,,,THATS A LIE FROM THE DEVIL STRAIGHT FROM THE PITS OF HELL.YOU ARE A THREAT TO THE KINGDOM, BECAUSE YOUR SUCH A PRAYER WARRIOR,,,DONT RECIEVE THAT LIE...STAY ON COURSE AND HONESTLY THIS IS REALLY NOT THE PLACE YOUR GONNA GET GOOD CHRISTIAN ADVICE , NOT EVERYONE IS GODLY AND WILL HAVE A GODLY OPINION..YOU SHOULD SEEK OUT YOUR LADIES GROUP,,,,CHECK OUT WWW.QUAIL.ORG AND TUNE INTO 20 MINUTE LADIES BIBLE SERMONS ON MARRIAGE..YOU SHOULD REALLY CHECK IT OUT ITS CALLED "LIGHT FOR TODAY" BY BEVERLY JUNEAU AND ALSO JOYCE MEYER MINISTRIES A GREAT PLACE FOR ENCOURAGING WOMEN WIFE TEACHINGS....TAKE CARE [e-mail] FOR MORE INFO...THESE SERMONS HELP ME FROM WANTING TO OBLITERATE MY HUSBAND SOMETIMES...DEVIL HATES MARRIAGES CAUSE THEY SPAWN MORE PRAYER WARRIORS FOR THE KINGDOM...SO BE AWARE YOUR MARRIAGE IS ALWAYS UNDER ATTACK....ALSO TAKE REMEMBER 2ND CORINTHIANS 10:13 ITS ALWAYS ABOUT SPIRITUAL WARFARE SISTER!

Answer 2

Well, it depends on what you wrote in the letter...

Second, if he finally read it, then maybe I would not be as upset anymore, because he did finally read it...unlike some other guys who don't read it all... So, don't be upset anymore about him not reading it...

The fact that he thought the letter was sexy, is a good sign and a good thing...unless the letter was not meant to be thought of as sexy...then you may need to give me more details on what you actually wrote to him. But, just know he obviously liked your letter, and seems to say so, by telling you he thinks it's sexy... I would be happy that he liked the letter and found it to be sexy...because if he keeps it somewhere safe, you can bet he may pull it out the letter again and reread it. Which is a good thing...so be happy.

Finally, I would ask him what he liked about the letter and why he found it sexy...Then ask him if he likes receiving these types of letter and maybe you can send him another one. Perhaps you can even get him to write you one.

P.S. Even if he is a preacher, he is obviously your husband and therefore must be having sex with you and so he has every right to think something is sexy without feeling religiously guilty. Furthermore, there are so many things out there that are sexy, just be happy your letter turned out to be sexy and not some hot chick with lingerie on in a magazine .

Answer 3

Marriage is a bond between two people and that bond is made due to love, understanding and scrificing. Of course there should be some romance and sex too for that is the spice of marriage, if you want it to last for long. I am sure your husband should understand these things better. There is no reason for you to feel guilty or afraid of what you did since there should be no secrets between a husband and a wife. What I suggest is that the two of you take some time off and spend some quality time with each other and during that period, try to speak to him and explain to him about your letter.

Make him to understand that the two of you should be sincre to each other about your feelings and thats what you have done. Afterall marriages are made up in heaven. Its not a sin what you have done so stop feeling guilty and try to make your husband undrstand about it too. Also pray to God that your husband will understand and ask God to keep the two of you together. All the Best!

Answer 4

Has his being a preacher made him forget that he's a man too? How could a love letter from his wife be too sexy? I know several preachers with several children, who I know get theirs from their wives.

What does he expect you to be, a virgin all of your married life? Assuming that you were a virgin when he married you, you should have consummated your marriage by now. Whatever you two do in your bedroom is between the two of you.

Ask your husband what he thinks is "too sexy", then talk about it. Probably your idea of sexy doesn't match his, but you need to discuss this privately.

Answer 5

Preachers and wives are under a magnifying glass with eye's of the congregation looking to them and are expected to be super human for some reason, above the temptations of the world? But arn't we mortal? which is stressful in all aspects of your lives. However; I believe your letter was not inappropriate, but possibly your husbands thought it was do too? possibly someone else could accidentally read it? don't know, I think you need to sit down, stare at him in the eye's and ask him..... I also sense a possible nerve was struck....but why...when you expressed you love so openly?

Not to get preachy but you know, "The Song of Solomon". King James Version, Chapter 4, wow... talk about love/sex letters...

Don't ever be ashamed to show or tell your husband how you feel, but I am sure he is buried in his work and you may have to be a bit understanding... but not stepped over.

Answer 6

A man who is in love with his wife should always respond favorably to a love letter from his wife, regardless of whether he's a preacher or an athiest.

Answer 7

Pray!

Answer 8

i don't know what you mean by too sexy how can you be too sexy towards your spouse that doesn't make sense to me as long as it is within your marriage i don't see the problem with being really sexual after all thats a part of marriage even in the bible.

Answer 9

Have him read Song of Solomon to YOU out of the Bible and explain it to you. I think it will change his mind on your love letter to him.

Answer 10

I wouldn't do anything, i'll just be happy that he liked it. and that he took the time to read it, at least yours did, my husband don't care about my letters anymore.