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Get to it. When married I worked 80 to 100 hours a week. come home house dirty no food on the table no relations. 2 years of this I cheat which is wrong. I fess up because I want it to work for my little girls sake. year after year the hours decrease the house is a little cleaner still no food on the table. Now I have mental and physical stress work. I still come home and cook. Only one child at home. So one comment was a day at home with the children will stress and keep her from fealing good and she may not want to be intament. Well my question is I work I cook so why should I come home and work the rest of my day so she may feel better and want to have sex. What about the stressful day I had. I would much rather stay at home with my kids than work.. So If I tell her I love her, cook, rub her feet, bring home the income, and still want to have sex with her after staying up for 24 hours what is wrong

2006-08-11 17:31:46 · 4 answers · asked by ajh8675309v2 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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your wife sounds depressed get her to a conselor and because you cheated you should go to because you have probably hurt her in ways you don't understand so for her to heal you should be there i am willing to bet you hurt her some other ways before the cheating to cheaters are careless of other peoples feelings. She sound like she is dirty out of resentment towards you because she knows just how much you like it clean and thats one of her only ways to get even with you along with comments ect. If you really want it to work you really need christain counseling because you have done a lot of damage to each other and there has to be a lot of forgiveness this will be so hard i would say forgive from a far it will be easier but because you have girls try to forgive each other even if you have to do it over and over when you look at each other and remeber what you have done to each other which happens when you still live together Forgiveness will be harder a daily battle but it's worth trying for your girls they deserve two mature parents willing to fight for them but if your not truly sorry let it go you'll only hurt everybody worst later only you know that Pray alot.

2006-08-11 17:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Dude, your wife is playing you. She's being selfish. Have a heart to heart talk and tell her to do her part in sharing housework and cooking. You can't work all week and then take care of the kid and chores. You're a slave! This marriage needs some work and start with a clean slate: State what you expect. If it doesn't happen, hey, why do you need her afterall?

2006-08-12 00:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0 0

i hear alot about what you do and she doesn't but what does she do???? i dont know the whole situation for all i know she can be at home handicap or taking care of a speical need kid, or cooking food all day for the homeless.. i dont kow the situation... she can be playing you are maybe her wanting to have sex with you isnt that important after knowing you had sex with somone else, that can be a major turn off...you two need to sit downand talk about it. but from the things you have said it sound alot about you you you....a bit selfish, but again i dont know the whole situation.....best of luck and god bless\

2006-08-12 00:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by LoTs2ShArE 2 · 0 0

back off ten yards and punt

2006-08-12 00:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by jyd9999 6 · 0 0

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