I love someone very much. But he have nothing to give me other than love. I cannot see he can improve his life standard.. Someone love me very much and he can give me wealth and i believe i will never suffer from any financial problem. But I don't have a love feeling for him. NONE!! But when I see what happened to those couple with financial problem.. they were suffering.. and at last they break up!! But I also saw a couple which is very rich, but not happy.. And there are sucide case just because unhappily love story..?? I am in dilemma..
2006-08-11 17:46:22 · 19 answers · asked by btrc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Money is not everything, you have to ask yourself what makes you happy, love or money. As for myself i got the love of my life and although we are not super rich we do not worry about money at all, we have everything that we need. I can understand that a woman wants to be taken care of but if you go with a guy just because he has some dough then your a gold digger for sure. I myself would rather be happy in love with my partner, than in love with my partners money.
2006-08-11 18:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by sincity usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the age old question. Money cannot buy anything but material goods, and if you are not happy then none of those things matter. If you do not love someone, then you will never be happy, there is nothing that he can give you that will make up for there being no love in the relationship. And if you love someone, and they are not wealthy, its okay, because you dont have to have lots of money, if you are in love, then you will be happy. And happiness will be there in the long run, theres no saying that the money will. Money comes and goes, but love is always there. I dont think that you should give up the chance of true happiness. I think for most people, if you have love, and you are content with that, then even if you have nothing, its ok, because what fun is life when you have everything, but nobody to love? its not worth it. everyone, no matter how wealthy, has financial problems at one time or another, so dont risk it, its not worth the pain. money wont always be there, but love will. think about it long and hard, its up to you, and it depends on what type of person you are. if you are the tpe of person that wants to be prestigious, and have lots of money, and that is the most important thing to you, then maybe you wont be happy without being rich. but if you dont care about that, and you just want to be in love, and live a happy life, where you are satisfied just with the necessaties, then i think love is the way to go. good luck
2006-08-13 03:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE...
If you love someone, you will do anything to make her happy.
So if he really loves you, he should get his butt workin finding a job to support you. You don't need to be rich, as long as youre financially stable and happy. Being happy is also a choice, to see what's beyond. If you have a nice man but no money, it needs some brain and hardwork then you'll be fine. Not all successful couples in the world started wealthy. It takes both people to make things work out. But if you think the unwealthy guy is not someone who will do the effort then say goodbye.
2006-08-15 05:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by поцелуй 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd marry into money. I left a guy that was pretty well off (that I didn't love but respected and admired), for someone that I love sooooo much (but doesn't have 1/4 of the money). I'm miserable now because I love the broke guy but the broke guy doesn't love me anywhere near as much as the wealthy guy loved me. So now lacking love, lonely, and struggling financially. Think about this carefully. I wish you the very best of luck.
2006-08-12 03:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True Love is more valueable than money, there are much cases the people give away the wealth and go with the person who love her much. So Money not permanant it will come and go but love is not like this it is permanent. If you have more money but there is no one is there to love you the life not having any trill at all. There is one good saying also marry a person who love you more. this is what i heard.
2006-08-12 00:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by Well wisher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love or Money? Both are nice. Neither is enough. I propose that trust is the thing you need most to help a relationship be successful. Honesty is also important. First look inside. Do you trust the other person? Will you be honest with the other person. Then look to the other. Will they be honest with you? Can he/she trust you. Love fades. Money is a crutch. Relationships are built on honesty and trust.
2006-08-12 00:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by matyew_mattyew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the money, you can love again, but will you have a chance to be rich again. If you find you can't stand the rich guy divorce him, it will be easier since you don't love him, and take half his money when you leave. Then you can go looking for Love.
2006-08-12 01:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by Strike2? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first I was in the same situation with you, but we worked it out and lived in some weird places, but our hope kept us together and our love grew stronger because we were able to surpass alot of obstacles and there were times that it depended all on me and it was hard, but we made it. I hope this helps you a bit.
2006-08-12 01:18:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the movie Legends of the falls. i would choose love. money can go away very quickly and are you really sure that the rich guy is really rich?
2006-08-12 00:58:30 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is what we need. I think you can strive personally to make your finances better and love someone else for their heart and who they are. Imagine always wanting the love that money can't buy.
2006-08-12 00:50:52 · answer #10 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋