2006-08-11 19:08:53 · 17 answers · asked by zen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
insecure in what sense do u feel he is having an affair pls give some more details
2006-08-11 19:24:02 · answer #1 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have u been married? Any kids?
Is ur husband always comes home late midnight?
Does he always have secretive phone calls?
Does he always giving u answers like, having meetings, appointments , friends gathering?
Or even weekends he's still away from his house?
If u tell me that all these make u insecure, then u've 2 have a change in urself.
Try 2 b back the times u 2 meet, get in luv, & have back the interests.
Just add 1 more thing. Care & concern more.
Asking him that whether u can join in his activities - in soft & tenderly ways.
Start with ur 1st move 1st.
Hope u can provide more informations
Good luck 4 the time being.
2006-08-11 23:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by cancerlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is meant by not doing well? expectations after a love marriage is usually at an unreal high but dear sister please understand three things 1.after tasting the forbidden fruit the thrill usually goes especially if society is not there for supporting your relation.2.male biology is for tasting the new but it usually takes some more time than in your case so keep on applying your oils well and keep trying to hold fast.3. if insecurity is physical throw away the task and find your own life instead if the insecurity is in relation to his'other' activities try try try and correct him with love best of luck . do you live in india?
2006-08-11 19:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the answers begin why! and Mine too, WHY insecured! Maybe you dont keep his attraction on you! Maybe you are not exciting him. maybe you dont act as a WIFE! Maybe he falled in love with another. But this is not the place to find a solution, You share your problem here with unknown people instead you should do it under the roof of your home with your husband first??
If this is a LOVE marriage you should share everything with him!
2006-08-11 19:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you insecure? Is there a reason, or do you have a low self worth to begin with? If your husband is giving you a good reason to doubt him in any way, then act on that feeling. But if it's just you, then you need to work on building up your self image. Sorry, w/o more details it's hard to help.
2006-08-11 19:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
expensive Sonal, i think that it replaced into no longer love yet a trifling attraction. no longer necessary that the attraction desires to be bodily or sexually, it will be even that, u commence loving some one because he's being concerned you.!! yet did you bypass checked no matter if you've issues in effortless or will you be really satisfied ? Now ignore the previous !! So now you want to appreciate is that communique is the backbone of each relationship. If it breaks, relationship breaks. particularly you're gifted with a small infant boy, so for his destiny you want to come back at the same time, percentage some factors, attempt to confer with one yet another and an extra effective ingredient, keep calm. men a at the same time as don't love that you recognize human beings intervene of their existence so that you want to have "Sakshi -bhav" and also "Sahan-shilta" do not get indignant or panic if he tries to scold you out. try giving as a lot as love you could provide to him, do not ignore husband is the picture of a baby, some situations indignant, grotesque, undesirable yet nonetheless probability free and nonetheless loving. So do not let bypass the heady scent contained in the relation and in the destiny for confident you'd be a reliable couple. and do not loose desire do not get depressed , each morning you have to be counted on your self as well as in divine. would god bless you all.
2016-11-24 21:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you make the other person more secure that you are not going anywhere then the other person starts taking you for granted. Ya right you need to change that attitude. Am not telling you to do anything dirty but can make him feel insecure. Trust me men realise it fast.
2006-08-11 20:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by sahniankur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult to answer when one does not understand the question. What are you insecure about? What is a "love Marriage?" Why is it not doing well? elaborate.
2006-08-11 19:18:58 · answer #8 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why r u feeling insecured? Try to find out from urself that is there any valid reason or its just ur intuition? if there is any strong reason then sought it out but if its only intuition then its only u who can help urself. show trust and maximum attension to ur husband, pamper him a lot and top of everything maintain urself and see ur husband just going round and round ur axis.
2006-08-11 21:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by drritisnigdha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the love you had before marriage. Develop the real love now.
2006-08-11 19:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by NATIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋