I want to move to Georgia and DH wants to stay in the area. If I applied for a job in GA and got it, do you think he will leave with me or stay?
BTW - He's very set in his ways, but I'm miserable b/c it's always his way or no way.
2006-08-11 17:18:29 · 6 answers · asked by hrmom02 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you married to DH? How committed are you two? Why are you involved with someone who has to have everything his way or no way? A man who loves a woman will do anything for her to be happy, thus he will be happy because you are happy. When you tell DH that you are miserable, what does he say? A relationship/marriage is a compromise, it is a barter system - you have to give up something to get something - you have to do somethings sometime for the other person that you do not want to do. But you do these things to PLEASE the other person because you care for them. It seems that you are saying DH is selfish. APPLY for the job in GA. If you are not married I would not continue this relationship with DH. If you get the job in GA - if it is what you really (pay, benefits, etc) Pack and leave DH. There is one thing I have learned in life MEN will always be where you are going.
2006-08-11 17:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is that so many people put their wants and needs as the very lowest of priorities? You have an obligation to yourself to seek out happiness, because in order to have a satisfying relationship, you have to be satisfied with yourself first. If you're miserable in your relationship, then you're obviously missing something, or the guy is a stinker - which may be the case, from the sound of it. Relationships have to have some give-and-take, and if he's always taking, then you're better off without him. I say apply for the job, and leave his butt behind if you get it. After all, even if you can convince him to go, he'll probably make your life miserable once you all got there, and you'll never hear the end of "Well, I moved here to Georgia for YOU, so why can't you do *insert favor here* for me?"
Good luck!
2006-08-12 00:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by CrazyOphelia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd leave him. If you aren't in a committed relationship, it's no problem. But if you are, it's very selfish for him to think that you should adjust to HIS life b/c HE is the man.
2006-08-12 00:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your miserable then i say go for it and apply at least. if you get the job and feel that its still what you want then i say go for that too!
2006-08-12 00:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go where the work is sweetie,you will never be happy living your life for someone else.
2006-08-12 00:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by curious_john 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him and go where the work is
2006-08-12 00:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by jyd9999 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋