2006-08-11 17:46:09 · 8 answers · asked by kimbolina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Uninterested? Is that even possible? Anyway...Why do you think they call them "Weekend Get aways" & 2nd Honeymoons? Just Make your plans, take him/her hostage & rock his/her world! Even if you hold him/her captive at home...that is why the world has "Babysitters",Candles, Wine & Sexy Wear!! Go get him/her! Now that is better then starting a spark...we are talking a bonfire!!
2006-08-11 20:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by lil redneck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are tired. So make date time when you're not tired. For us, the morning is wonderful. Both of us have rested, and can say goodmoring in a special way.
Also, light a candle no later than 8 p.m. to show your interest. Your spouse can light their candle to show their interest.
If your kids don't have a bed-time routine, then establish that, and then make sure they are in bed by 9:00.
9:30 to 10 is confirm the invitation time, help each other relax with a massage, or warm bath.
10:00 to 10:30 FIREWORKS
10:30 Lulla by and good night
2006-08-12 01:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to coordinate a day which both of you have off (if necessary), and make plans for a date. That means getting a babysitter (having the kids sleep over at the babysitter's place would be really good), and doing something that you can both enjoy (or you can swap turns). You may not have too much to talk about the first time, but once you get used to it, you'll start saying to yourself, "I should tell that to him/her on date night." Do it once a week, or more, but no less than once every two weeks. You'll have something to look forward to then!
2006-08-12 00:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal L ™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am soooo with you!! Been married 10 years and have three kids. We are lucky for some alone time maybe twice a month!! We have explored some toys and thing to try to make what little we get more fun. This weekend the kids are at the lake with the grandparents...we are too tired now, but saving up for the rest of the weekend!!
2006-08-12 00:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by monkeedee2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send the kids away with a babysitter for the night if you can. Then go get a drinking recipe book. One the tells you how to mix drinks and make them for each other be each others taste tester drink enought to get loose then flirt with each other and let one thing lead to another. Sounds like fun. I might just take my own advice. Hope this helps.
2006-08-12 00:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set time every month ask your in-laws to help or hire a sitter first go out dancing then come home and relax make sure the kids are gone for the evening and enjoy the quiet evening.
2006-08-12 01:07:17 · answer #6 · answered by LIZA P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Schedule dates once in a while, even some overnight ones too if you can. Remember that your first relationship is to your spouse. It gets easier when the kids get older.
2006-08-12 00:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by Ron D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy sex furniture from liberator.com i suggest the esse, yes pricey but they are nice. also if its a matter of getting things moving vibrating rings and warming gels are also nice. just make sure the kids are in bed you may get carried away.
2006-08-12 02:45:36 · answer #8 · answered by psyko.hunni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋