what do husbands really feel about ther wives gaining weight?

Answer 1

real men dont care

Answer 2

Yes, I think they do. There are a few exceptions, like if he has gained weight since you two got married then I doubt it matters too much.
However, if he's the same weight as he was before, then I think he would care if his wife gained weight. He may say that it doesn't, but that's because he loves you and doesn't want to hurt you. You have to understand in this day of age, a man or anyone for that fact, really care about weight.
Losing weight is never easy, especially when you're a mother. I think that if you gained weight you should try to concentrate on proper proportion sizes. Don't snack. Also, you don't have to keep a log book of how many calories you take in each day but it defiently is an asset to have an idea of how many you're consuming. Half an hour of exercise daily isn't too hard to fit in either, you just have to make the time.

Answer 3

I really don't know however I do know that women go through a myriad of changes in their bodies especially if they have children and men have no clue the trauma that a woman experiences during childbearing years and there after realizing that she has put inches and pounds on in places she never could imagine and the struggle and frustration of trying to get it back off -if that is ever possible due to the high stress of everyday life trying to take care of everybody else and so often getting lost in the shuffle and not having time to take care of herself. Anyway more often than not I have found that men gain weight just as women do but expect a woman to accept his expanding waistband but at the same time maintain her size at the weight when they first met - How hypocritical is that? As if women want to be overweight and enjoy not being able to feel as sexy as they used to feel - Newsflash women are so self conscious about their weight sometimes it gets to a point of depression because we can't get back to where we would like to me - I think spouses should support one another in maintaining a healthy lifestyle and not just in lip service only but being willing to eat healthy and have a work out routine together even if it's just walking together 3 times a week. Men are not the only one's who want to look at their mate and desire them physically. Just make sure that's not the only attraction because if it is it won't last because as time and gravity dictates WE ALL will experience some sagging and dragging as we get older and there is nothing we can do about it so there better be something more solid holding the relationship together

Answer 4

Some husbands don't mind, some do. My husband is not happy with the weight I've gained, but he still loves me. I have a friend who just moved away to another apartment, and his wife is younger than me, and waaaay heavier, but he loves her that way. I think she should lose some weight just for health reasons, but I think he'd be upset if she did.

Answer 5

I've gained about 75lbs in the 10 years (and three kids) that we have been married. My husband says he didn't marry me because of how I look, but who I am. If he is a real man, he'll accept you no matter what and support whatever you choose to do with the weight gain.

Answer 6

I just asked my husband and he mumbled "I don't know". He's also a liar and he's gained about 20 pounds since we've been married.
I suspect men aren't crazy about their wives gaining weight, especially if it's more than 5 or 10 pounds.

Answer 7

The question is loaded. My husband would love for me to gain weight. but then again i only weigh 100lbs. But no one should gain to the point of possible health issues.

Answer 8

Depends on the man. When I met my hubby I was overweight, i lost that.. He begged me several times to stop losing he liked a
"womanly woman"... When I got pregnant I gained over 90lbs because i was on bedrest for 7 months. Now he just wants me to take it off slow and is worried about my health...

Answer 9

My husbands a stupid biatch, because he marry me for the way i look, i was skinny and i had big breast and the best part why he marry me was because i was a virgin, but after i we got marry and i got pregnant and gain like 40 pounds, he started acting like the biatch he is, and he don't even care about me anymore, and he's always checking out other biatches and flirting with them behind my back, and he never spends any tiime with me and our three kids, and he chooses his friends before us, and he don't even comfort me when i cry...the worst part, he be making rude comments about me....like for instance, if we go shopping, and i stop to look at a shirt, he'll be like, " thats not going to fit you, even if you lose weight." What a biatch huh? But now, that i have my little, i'm going to lose weight and get back to the way i used to look, so i can show him that i did it, and prove everyone wrong, and feel better about myself. He'll regret it, because then he's going to be a jealous biatch when guys start coming up to me again like they used to.

Answer 10

well its natural 2 gain weight as u get older but i think its both partners duty 2 look their best 4 each other dont get comfortable

Answer 11

no man in his right mind will public or even private admit ( to another women ) that he likes it when his womne gains weight, cut her hair shot and defeminizes herself, after all he feel in love with you fabulous figure, so why would any womne just let go as they get older.. it's symptamatic of no longer caring for personal appearances