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So this weekend I'm trying to plan something my fiance will appreciate... (we are both 21)... So I'm going to wake him up at his place and cook him breakfast in bed (you know, bacon, eggs, muffins, ect.). Then I have the day planned out since its going to rain so I was going to take him to a movie he wanted to see, dinner, and a few other places... I guess I'm wondering if guys really appreciate and like that sort of thing... I mean having their girl come over and make them breakfast to wake them up and having her plan out a day together or if its kind of annoying to them. I really love to pamper & take care of him, I'm just afraid he'll think its kind of dumb or won't appreciate it. Its just a part of who I am though, I love to take care of him & rub his back & pamper him... Is that weird??

2006-08-11 03:27:33 · 6 answers · asked by Domi 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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well if u didnt it for me i would feel loved cause u spent the time to plan it all out and everything....so yes he will enjoy it

2006-08-12 21:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by music man 2 · 0 0

Guys, in General, don't like a lot of fuss. It gets in the way of other things and can cause arguements. Unless you've done it before and he liked it, do not plan out the hole day. Just be spontaneous and relax a little. If things don't go to plan with your day you'll only end up getting stressed out and it will be no fun at all. The back rub thing sounds good as does the breakfast in bed. You could just stay in bed a little longer and bonk each others brains out. It would set the mood for a perfect day. I f you want to make him happy, do what he wants to do, not what you think he wants to do or what you think might be best for him. Just chill out man.

2006-08-11 11:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by lushlyfish 1 · 0 0

I'd guess he'd appreciate it, but maybe not as much as you are hoping.

I suspect you are (as most of us tend to do) giving him what _you'd_ like, which may not be what he'd like.

That said, I think he'll like it. My only advice is to make sure you're not too worn out at the end of the day to have sex or whatever stage you two are at. I've had a few birthdays where my wife decided to cook some huge elaborate meal and then went to sleep exhausted early. The meals were delicious, but I would have preferred mcdonalds, sex, and curling up to watch a movie.

2006-08-11 11:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0 0

Pamper him with what he would like,find out what he wants and work on those things that he would enjoy.

2006-08-11 11:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by jeff7241 2 · 0 0

How about STFU, drop to your knees, and open wide. Clearly there is not much upstairs for you to hold an adult conversation you racist christian devil. Oh wow, 21? You apparently have a lot of growing up to do.

2006-08-11 12:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by someDumbAmerican 4 · 0 1

so if he gives you any grief....i'm available!

2006-08-11 10:58:18 · answer #6 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0 0

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