I want it at least once a day. But I'm lucky if I get it once every week. I have a toy but it is not as good. I want the real thing. what do I do to get it more?
2006-08-11 03:10:46 · 44 answers · asked by louisiana_red_rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have talked to him he says he is to tierd to do it more that that. I have tryed a vibrator. It's just not as good. It leaves me wanting more.
2006-08-11 03:16:57 · update #1
24, We have been together for 8 years, Yes I was sexualy active before we got together and not just with him, His appetite has changed, No strees, No problems when we have sex? Not control me.
2006-08-11 03:40:19 · update #2
Make him want it.. there's easy ways to do that.. do little things for him so he can't claim to be tired.. dress sexy.. try something you know he likes in bed.. I dunno.. if doing a dirty dance in a neglige doesn't do it.. I don't have an answer for ya.
2006-08-11 03:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by Imani 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't give details like , how old you are, how long you've been married.....Were you sexually active before you were married? Has his appetite always been like this or has it changed? Is he under alot of stress? Does he have any problems when you do have sex? Is he trying to control you?
It's odd that a man doesn't want sex more than this, but it's not unheard of. There may be something from his past that is manifesting itself this way. If you suspect this, suggest he seek counselling.
If it's just that he doesn't require sex any more than this, explain to him that you do. And if he loves you, he will seek to find ways to please you, even if is isn't through intercourse.
If not, then you have some decisions to make.
2006-08-11 03:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are having some serious problem. I do not think you can get an answer on this page. The best thing for both of you is to go to the doc.
2006-08-11 12:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vibrator
2006-08-11 03:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by The::Mega 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Guy's suck get use' to your toy i'm a hot little mama been liveing with someone for 4 years i'm luckey if i get it 1's a month or tell him how u feel,if he dont give a ****,leave him and just date theres alot of horney basterd's out there,don't foget 2 use a condom .
2006-08-11 03:18:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too am in this quandary.., albeit , I am the man.
For me, some of the problem stems ,primarily,from job related STRESS !!!! MY wants and focus are so tunnel visioned that by the time my sweetheart and I are together, in the evenings,I have trouble " GEARING DOWN ".
Plus ,it does not help that physically I am in the realm of middle-age.
2006-08-11 03:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by bigbill4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, talk to your man inform him that you love being with him and him alone and that sex is special to you. He will understand I assure you. Just tell him thats all I can say, don't wait to long b/c then you might get a urge and cheat or something b/c you've been needing some for so long...
2006-08-11 03:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could ask him to help you with your toy. He doesn't have to exert alot of energy and it just may get him hot too. A couple that plays together stays together.
2006-08-11 03:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a man and have the opposite problem. Want to get together and solve both?
2006-08-11 03:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by deep5223 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jump him at night or early in the morning before he wakes. Nothing starts the day quite like it!
2006-08-11 03:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, my wife is just the opposite. I need it atleast 3-4 times a week, but I only get it about twice a month. waaaa boohooooooo
2006-08-11 03:15:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋