2006-08-11 02:56:55 · 25 answers · asked by Phantom of the Opera 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As an ordained minister,I ask the couple to "have complete love,total trust,and mutual respect " for each other,by committing adultery you fail at all of these.I made this mistake in my first marriage,guess who has still not forgiven me? I haven't! My ex and our daughter have both told me I am forgiven,and he and I are friends,but I know I hurt him,and I have to live with that the rest of my life.It is not a burden I'd wish on anyone!
2006-08-11 03:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by Maw 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You truly dont understand or you may have forgotten what you cited as your marriage vows the day you held your wife hands on that blessed ceremonial day.
Recall what are the promises you have given to one another and if one of the vows says" Thou may have flings with another woman once a while", I guess your wife will NOT have any grounds to kick your as* out. If no such vow is said during your marriage ceremonial, you better stick to what you have promised.
I am pretty sure you are MAN enough to stay true to your words.
2006-08-11 11:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by DiL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the world are you thinking?Being married means you only have a fling with your wife..not that marriage stops other men from cheating on their wives,but if you really love your wife then you would not have a fling with any other woman except her.Besides this little things can cause a divorce in marriage....one more thing..don't let your friends influence you badly on this issue.
2006-08-11 10:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by Moesha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's just that simple. You marry someone because you want to spend the rest of your life with them. You did not marry her and in your vows say you will be commiteed to her and have afew girlfriends or flings on the side. You should stick to your vows and don't jeopordize the great thing you have for a fling with someone. Marriage is about committment and compromise, that doesn't mean you compromise your marriage it means you compromise within the marriage.
2006-08-11 10:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just think about it would you want your wife to have a fling with another guy. Before doing something always put yourself in her shoes then decide.
2006-08-11 10:03:56 · answer #5 · answered by countrycajunlady 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have to say that is the most courageous question that I have seen on here. Given the fact that at least half of this forum is full of women that are married or in a committed relationship. Well, let's just hope that none of them find out who you are.....or who your wife is. You would be out on your @$$ faster than you could say sorry.
2006-08-11 10:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the main component of a marriage. Unless your wife is fully aware of your 'activity' then no, it isn't alright. And always remember...what's good for the goose is good for the gander. If you think it's OK to 'cheat' then it's OK for her too and you can't complain. Maybe you should check out the swinger type lifestyle. A warning for you though...it takes a hell of a strong relationship to do so.
2006-08-11 10:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, which is worse, having a fling when you are married, or asking stupid questions you already know the answer to.......loser.
2006-08-11 10:16:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Answer is: No.
Marriage is a commitment to be a partner to "one" other person. If you want to have extra-marital affairs, why did you bother getting married?
2006-08-11 10:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by nicolekadman 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, but that's not stopped a lot of people. Don't get caught, but if you do, be prepared for the consequences ranging from the silent treatment to a Bobbit special.
2006-08-11 10:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋