Most guys would punch me in the face for complaining about this...but I'm not really complaining really...I'm just puzzled. My gf and I use to have a great sex life together. Well, she's been stressed out with family issues, and our sex life just consists of making out and her wanting to give me oral. I'm sorry, but I've never been just a "TAKER"....in fact I've been labeled the "nice guy". My gf is beautiful and I love her and want to please her damn it! She always responds with "i just want to make you happy", and I always think I can change her mind when it's happening, but she comes up with excuses...tired...forgot to do something, or call somebody. Yes, I know.....some if not most of you guys are going to call me a dumb a**, but you are the majority who makes real guys look like d***ks. Anyways, I just feel bad.......I don't ask her to do it either. I just want her to be satisfied too. I've tried being romantic....talking about what's bugging her...but she avoids it....
2006-08-11 03:26:40 · 1 answers · asked by trevorlsu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are plenty of people here (male and female) whose partner's don't want to do _anything_ with them.
Take the oral and go with it. If she gets into it, and wants more, do what you can, but if not, just enjoy it, and enjoy the time together, and let her know you appreciate it. The last thing she needs is more pressure that she's not satisfying you, etc. If you can be satisfied, and both enjoy the intimacy, she's getting what she 'needs' (i.e. not much sexually) and knows you are too ... you're doing better then a lot of people.
2006-08-11 04:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋