I've always been curious to know what it feels like to be with another woman, I am now married and don't know what to do. Any suggestions?
2006-08-11 02:47:18 · 22 answers · asked by lovely butterfly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is hard on a marriage but honesty is best policy. Talk to your husband. You will also have to take into consideration , disease , someone leaving the other and more than likely if he allows you to full fill you fantasy he will in return want to fulfill his by being with both of you . If you choose to be carefully of who you pick . I have had a girl tell me once she was with a couple in that way and fell in love with husband and purposely got pregnant . Be care-full.
2006-08-11 03:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by glennakay2004 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This getting kind of personal..but...my wife told me before we married she was bi, though not very experienced. My suggestion to you is to have a heart to heart talk with hubby about your natural curiosity. It is one of the leading fantasies for men to have a 3 some, however, they are rarely realized. Sometimes a fantasy is just that, and should remain so. On the other hand, if you are BOTH secure enough in your love, then he might be willing to allow you to explore without him being involved (so to speak) I am..and did. All I can say is...afterwords our own love life was never more exciting..and it was fantastic before. Make any sense?
2006-08-11 03:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Key word is you are now married!! Talk to your husband and let him know of your curiosity. You never know what if anything the two of you can come up with.
Call me old fashioned but stepping outside your marriage to explore your curiosity is still cheating if your husband isn't aware of it.
Sometimes ... curiosity is best left alone!!
Good luck!!
2006-08-11 02:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should explain the situation to your husband and let him know the truth. Most men when it comes to their wives experiementing with other women are pretty open to that. Then if you can find someone to partake in your little journey then you can find out if it is something that you are interested full time or as a hobby....
2006-08-11 02:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by Hotbox25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't jump the gun on asking hubby for the threesome. It may hit him the wrong way. I think it better to maybe start sharing fantasies with hubby so he does not feel threatened by the real deal. Men understand fantasies, we always may not understand you wanting someone else. If it's meant to happen it will.
2006-08-11 02:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try watching some MFF porn with your husband, then bounce the idea off of him. Honestly, I don't know if I'd go through with it or not if I were him. You should also think through it. While he _might_ go for watching you with another woman, he might only agree if you both have sex with her. Are you comfortable with that?
2006-08-11 04:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may just have to live with that feeling. If you explore it you will be cheating on your husband. I don't know if you think having sex with a woman is worth your marriage. That choice is up to you.
2006-08-11 02:54:27 · answer #7 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just a fantasy of yours maybe you should try opening this topic with your husband if he is the kinda man that you think will accept it if not i guess you will always have that thought in the back of your mind. because cheating on your husband is not the way to go...
2006-08-11 02:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So I understand that there's no flame left in your relationship/marriage? Too bad. But always the fault is on both sides. Try to repair it, don't think at women!
2006-08-11 03:04:08 · answer #9 · answered by marianaadrianaioja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... tough one.
To me, marriage is forever. (old fashioned idea these days)
So unless your husband is willing to bring someone else into the relationship, i'd say your curiosity should remain just that.
2006-08-11 02:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋