Does size matter?

Question

We always say that its not the size of a tool, but how you use it. Women, doesn't it take longer if the tool is too small? Men, don't you have to work harder and longer when it isn't a good fit? Be honest. Sex is a large part of a marriage. I know people who are not happily married, and this is a big deal for them.

Answer 1

Unless it is extremely large or extremely small, size really doesn't matter.

Most of erotic experience is mental.

Then, when you get to the physical portion, your whole body is an erogenous zone. The things that can be done with the hands, the lips and the tongue shouldn't be confined to one small area on your partner's body. If done right, the woman will have already orgasmed at least once before the penis gets involved. At that point, of heightened sensitivity, don't be surprised if she orgasms again when the head of the penis barely touches the vagina. At that point, size of the penis hasn't even come into play and she's a happy woman.

And in my opinion, a man with a smaller penis has an advantage over a man with a larger one because he is more likely to get better and more frequent oral sex.

Answer 2

Size is not as important as a lot of other things. There are ways that you can work around it. If the rest of the package is wonderful then it is worth the extra time and effort it may take in this one area. Marriage is about a whole lot more than sex. If it were only sex men would all marry prostitutes. Having said all that my husband is fairly well endowed.

Answer 3

I've never had any experience with this kind of thing, only been with my husband, and he's a perfect fit.

But I read alot about human brains and bodies, all the latest scientific news, etc., and a recent study showed that the "love hormone" is released in a women's brain when her vaginal walls are stretched - the more it's stretched, the more hormone is released, causing feelings of connection and affection. So it appears that girth matters more than length, when it comes to giving a woman that "afterglow." Sorry this is all I had to contribute :-)

Answer 4

I think it does, just women are trying to be nice to their partner as men are obsessed with size To me it realy doesnt make a damn, no matter what you do or have it will be wrong anyways...
And with the motion in the ocean thing ummm if you are close to shore that might be fine but when you hit 200 feet of water ........It may be depending on how many motions have been in that ocean beforehand...lol

Answer 5

Hmmm. Well, My hubby is actually pretty big and I have to admit it's much better because he is large. But, even if it was small we would have great sex just cause we've always had great sex. So no, I don't necessarily think big is important, as long as your happy!

Answer 6

Thickness is better than length, i.e. like 6" or more around. Bigger ones make me scream with pleasure every time. Although the drawback to being really thick is that the girl gets sore faster.

Answer 7

The average is penis is less than 5 inches long (don't let Justin Slayer, the Black Pipe Layer, fool you) ... The average vagine is the size of a flattened tube of toothpaste ... there's more than one way to climax than penis inserting into a vagina

Answer 8

The only time size really matters is when he is to big or she is to little, then its just not going to happen...how you use it and how long you use it makes the difference.

Answer 9

My ex was bigger than average and didn't know how to use that thing to save his life. My new man is "blessed" but he don't even need one.....he has an imagination and knows what he's doing. So size to me does not matter.

Answer 10

It does matter because you don't want to be with someone who isn't the right size to keep you happy in the bedroom.