he will be cheating on his girlfriend with his wife, isn't that an oxymoron. Should I say forget it or go for it, we always had awesome sex. never a disappointment.
2006-08-11 06:52:12 · 60 answers · asked by GOOCHER13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, it's stupid. He's laughing and telling his buddies what a fool you are. It's not hard to find good sex if thats all your looking for. Have it with someone that will at very least respect you the morning after.
2006-08-11 07:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by Lancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, Hubby has a girlfriend, is that why you are getting divorced? Who was it that wanted him to leave, Him or you, or HER?
If the sex was that good, make him use a condom, but go for it, enjoy the irony that now he's cheating on her!
If the only reason you are getting a divorce is that he wants someone else from time to time. Maybe you should rethink where you are and study up some on polyamorous relationships.
2006-08-11 07:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say your stupid, but I understand what your going thru cuz I did the same thing when I was going thru my divorce, I eventually realized that what if the girlfrnd had something and she gave it to me, do you really think he would feel bad? I don't! I think if you have sex with him you are letting him use you cuz he goes back to her doesn't he? I would tell him either you want to be with me or not cuz no matter how good the sex is us women take it to heart and think there might still be a chance, hope this helps!
2006-08-11 07:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by dnicebnice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation is reversed from what mine replaced into. After about 6 months, i found a guy who were in my existence for a lot of it yet under no circumstances regarded at him that way. Then in the destiny I had. My ex went by ability of the roof and nonetheless tried to regulate me and tell me what i could and couldn't do. I had 2 little ones with my ex so it replaced right into slightly more effective frustrating. yet now my ex, myself, and my husband are civil to at least one yet another and could actual like various different in some senses. i imagine that it hurts more effective because someone has what you do not. yet imagine in the previous you react, confirm if that's jealousy because you do not have all and distinctive or because you nonetheless love him. per chance he's merely frightened of being on my own, or you're. keep in recommendations, there's a reason you're turning out to be a divorce. be grateful for what you had at the same time, yet your existence remains yours and it may nonetheless be stunning!! reliable success to you.
2016-11-24 20:22:57 · answer #4 · answered by fast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you should really focus on the outcome instead of how things are now. I am pretty sure that if he was still your husband that you would not want him to do that to you. I hope you rally think long and hard before getting back into the bed with him, not only are you risking his new relationship but you are risking your options to meet new men that want to be around you and care about you or have awesome sex.But you need to realize that it will never happen if you continue to sleep with someone who does not really care about you anymore.
2006-08-11 07:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by Fantasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are crazy. You are letting him take complete advantage of you. You are having sex with a man who doesn't want a relationship with you. He is having one with someone else. Also you are being cruel to her. Women need to look out for eachother not let men do stupid things like this. Think about how he would say this to his friends. "I get to date this hot new chick and still bang the ex ha ha ha" If you have any self respect you will tell this guy off and move on.
2006-08-11 06:56:48 · answer #6 · answered by ushabug 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oxymoron?
How about if I advise you to stop sleeping with him? The other women could be "positive", you know what that means. I Think if he wanted to sleep with you he should have stayed with you.
Oxymoron?
I've been Separated from my wife for 2 years and we both have someone else and we have sex regularly.
Oxy....................?
2006-08-11 07:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUH! Why would you want to have sex with the man who left you and has another woman? Think of the diseases you could get from him. You don't know where this other woman has been or if she has anything contagious.
Using "ex sex" is one way to keep the strings tied to each of you. You need to let go completely. We have all been through the situation where our supply of sex has been cut off and we find ways to deal with it. Don't hang on to the ex for this, it only makes things worse in the end.
2006-08-11 06:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
then why are u getting divorced? obviously you still want each other and shud have tried counselling for whatever problem u were having..this situation is so screwed up i dunno how u cud make it worse..oh yeah u cud sleep with ur husband! great idea! did u ever think of diseases and stuff like that..pregnancy?? i mean come on if u wanted to get rid of him in the first place and u go back to him for sex hes gonna have total control of u and probably be laughing at u behind ur back.
2006-08-11 07:03:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are stupid for still sleeping with him. But you are probably lonely and when you are lonely you do dumb things. He is cheating on his girlfriend with you, so you are no better than him. He is just using you. The problem with us woman is that we confuse sex with love. And if it is sex you just want, there is always someone that is bigger and better and SINGLE!
2006-08-11 07:10:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋