how come women stop giving it up when they marry u?

Question

its all good b-4 ur married then its over... why?

Answer 1

Because their husband's stop romancing them and flirting with them and pursuing them the way the did before they were married. Women like to be wanted and desired.

Answer 2

That's not true. Although my husband would probably agree with you. But I will tell you what I told him. First off, when you aren't married and you are just boyfriend & girlfriend your responsibilities are not the same as when you get married. You are more free to do whatever you want whenever you want. Not that sex isn't a priority, but your priorities change once you get married. If you have children, nine times out of ten the wife or husband may be too tired to have sex. If you both work like dogs to pay your bills and maintain your home, again, to tired to have sex. And I guess it depends on the couple. There are times when I can't move a muscle to have sex, but if my husband has some energy and he wants some, then I tell him to go for it !LOL

Answer 3

Hey, men say they get bored with woman so that is why they cheat so maybe women get bored all the same. It is really just a matter of taking each other forgranted after marriage. Talk about the sex and what you would like with each other. It really makes it exciting to create scenarios or things that have happened in real life. Just make each other feel secure that neither of you are going anywhere and you are not going to judge the other person for something you may have done that society might frown upon. Make sure you wife is getting a good climax, then she will want sex all the time and there is a reason for her doing it. It takes both of you to keep it exciting.

Answer 4

That is the dumbest thing i have ever heard. It is an excuse. I have been married for 3 years and we still do it 4-5 times a week. and we have 3 kids 2 of wich are babies..and he works 10 hours a day..there is always time for love making!! But it does take some effort.

Answer 5

Sometimes when you get married you take on larger responsibilities, or new stresses. Maybe she just has things on her mind. Did kids come into play? Ask her what happened. Is it possible that you changed too? Are you different in any way since the marriage? hhhmmmmmnnnnnn????

Answer 6

Because they got the prize now they don't need to compete anymore... just kidding, but I really think some women do think like that, "I have him, now I can stop doing all the good stuff cause he ain't going no where". Which is really WRONG and then they wonder why their husbands are unhappy and cheat on them.

Answer 7

This isn't true. Some men do the same. People just have differing sex drives from their spouses many times. Do a question search here and you will see that there are as many women suffering in marital horniness as men. Believe that.

Answer 8

Easy, you stopped making them feel beautiful, sensual, and sexy.

Put yourself in her shoes. Say, for example, that you stayed home with the kids all day, cleaned the house, took care of bills and scheduling etc, then your wife came home, ***** ed about her day at work and so on.

Now finally at the end of the day, she looks at you and says, 'So are we going to have sex or what?'

You'd turn her down too. Or fake a headache, or say you were tired.

Answer 9

It's not over for me. Simply because I work around the house as well. I make sure my wife doesn't have to lift a finger when she gets home, unless she cooks. However, she loves to cook. I also make sure to show her that I love her and appreciate everything she does. She does the same for me. There's never a disinterest in our love life.

Answer 10

i have the opposite problem, don't assume all women are the same, i can ask the same thing about men. my guy and i had a exceptional sex life(for 8 years) untell the liscence got singed an now. cant get him to stop working long enough to just f k.