i wanna improve my sexual life which is almost nil....my husband ejaculates very fast?

Question

thus i m not able to enjoy my life a lot...we both love each other a lot but our sexual life is very boring...with no excitement...ho should i make it full of life...plz help

Answer 1

This batch of info will help him improve overall intimate functioning."

Take a multivitamin containing the following:
Calcium
Iron
Magnesium
Vitamin A
Vitamin C
Vitamin E
Vitamin B12

These vitamins will help give him the "fuel" he needs to perform.
The amino acid "L-arginine" will improve blood flow to all, ALL areas of the body. You can find these products at Walgreens, or your local pharmacy or vitamin shop. Remember, use common sense when taking theses products (I sound like a label warning).

Also, to improve size, try the jelqing method. Google: Jelq
That should help in that department.
To last longer, there are some control techniques he can use. Google: Ejaculation control.

With this package, he should be able to give what you want and need, and he will definitely enjoy it as well; it'll also boost his confidence tremendously. Good luck to you.

P.S. If you're into oral, have him eat pineapple. It should improve the taste of his love liquid, if you're into that.

Answer 2

Premature ejaculation can be caused by performance anxiety. It usually involves anxiety of one form or another. You can help teach your husband to get beyond his anxieties and last longer. No matter how you stimulate him, bring him close to climax and then stop stimulation. His cooperation in this by telling you when he is getting close is very helpful. Do this 3 or more times in succession without bringing him to climax. Notice the timing of each interval on how long it takes him to get close.

You can combine this with setting goals, and actually making a game out of it. Set a goal of 5 minutes to begin with, see if he can last that long before climax. Then extend the time on the next session. Develop a reward or punishment for his performance. To spice it up, you may want to ask him how he would feel about you tying him up before one of these sessions.

Above all, let him know how much you love him, and how proud you are that he gets so turned on by your attentions. Try not to make him feel less than a man or embarrassed for climaxing too quickly. It is something that can be remedied with love, patience and a bit of work together.

Answer 3

Tell the looser to take care of his businness before you dump him. I'm sorry but I think that men that don't care about satisfying their woman are selfish!!
First, of all with all the advances there is NO REASON why you should be going through this. There are alot of products for this and prescription medications.
Try, the following products:
RIZE2the occassion -pills that would make him have an erection for 1 or 2 days!!!!!
Weekend Prince - pill
these pills have natural ingredients that make a man sustain an erection. There are also vitamins that he could take every single day.
Also, if he doesn't want to take Viagra or Cialis he could ask the Dr. for depression pills, they work for premature ejaculation but not for lack of sex drive. (which should make you wonder why?)
Second, there is alot of cremes and sprays that work wonders!
Magic Stamina Spray
Stallion Spray
Indian Lotion
Chinesse Brush
Third, you can experiment with vibrators that you place on your clitoris so you could come 10 times before he penetrates.
Fourth, there are also rings that he could place in his penis to avoid premature ejaculation and to sustain the blood flow
Fifth, there is the PUMP, he could pump his penis for more blood flow and bigger size.
Sixth, there is the HALLOW Strap-on, he puts the strap on and he could penetrate you like that.
Seventh, get yourself another LOVER, jajajaja.

Answer 4

Ask your husband to focus on you first. Try introducing adult toys into the picture. He can play around with you using the toys before intercoursee. This way you receive some special treatment and both of you are happy. Or maybe try out some oral sex for you before the intercours starts. If he is really interested in pleasing you, then he should make every effort to do so before he is done. My husband and i started with toys about 4 years ago (married 15) and let me tell you WOW!

Answer 5

You can try to have sex more, then maybe he will not be so fast.

He could try masterbating a few hours before fooling around with you.

When I drink or take a vicodin or a quick little smoke of cannabis (not that I do this) I can go for a very long time. So much longer in fact that by the end my wife will be telling me she is too sore to continue and I have to finish myself.

Also, try toys. Have him go down on you with a nice vibrator and ********* and you will be in ecstasy!

Answer 6

It's important to know what turns you on and gives you pleasure, and communicate that to him. Most men need to rest about 15-20 minutes between sex, I mean before they can ejaculate again, so that should be plenty of time for him to work you over. I try all sorts of things with my husband, and he wants to make me happy so he'll try them. He says when I'm happy the sex for him is even better too. If you know what works for you, be firm about getting it to happen.

Answer 7

There are a few solutions to your problem. My hubby can hold it but not well but then it doesn't matter because I *** VERY quick so I am rarely not satisfied! That's not your issue. Here are some things you can try.

. If he can get another erection the second one will take longer to ***. Give him oral sex and let him shoot his first wad. Second one will enter you and take longer to explode.

. There are creams you can buy that will delay his orgasm. sideeffect is it numbs his penis some and will take of the joy from him.

. Have him please you first orally! Once you have came he can then enter you for his.

. Ask him to masturbate before sex. This refers back to earlier thought. The second erection will last longer

These are just a few ideas hope they help

Answer 8

Hes a shallow pr!ck. You deserve better. He IS cheating. All the signs are there. Demand the passwords and you will see. Why do you think he changed them? Bless you and your patience... I wouldve had to find a place for his body by now lol. Hes made it very clear he isnt going to try to make you feel loved in your relationship.. i.e. hes not going to stop contactin them, hes not giving you sex, and he looks at porn non-stop. Hes already had an affair and Im so so so sorry to say he is having one now. Look all the signs sweetie. You deserve wayyyyyy better than him.

Answer 9

i always felt like i was too "fast" also, so i tried to figure out different ways to make my wife happy. i actually enjoy making her climax before we ever have sex. it may sound selfish for him to you, but if he's willing it could be fun. try toys and other household items -- anything works. you both have to be open about this so your sex life can be awesome.

my wife and i are great now and we couldnt be happier. talking about it is the best thing you two can do... i hope this helps in some sort of way!

Answer 10

Have him masturbate himself 1 or 2 hours before you two have sex. This should help with the premature ejaculation. Sex is not just about intercourse. Tell him what you want him to do to you, chances are, he will do it.