Family - September 2007

She is a total wich and she is hungry for control of him and I

2007-09-12 03:38:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 18 almost 19 and i have no life at all and my mom refuese to let me go to parties and all that shiznit! Any one got anything i can do?

2007-09-12 03:22:13 · 12 answers · asked by caucasiongirlnativeworld 1

I got in touch with my father 2 yrs ago. he use to call me every sunday. one sunday he called and asked what i was doing. i told him my friend was over my house and left. in what i would call an intimate tone(he lowered his voice) he asked me if it was my boyfriend. it made me feel uncomfortable. fast foward to my graduation night . wer were riding around in his rental car. he's asking me all these questions. he asked me if i had a boyfriend. i replied no and he asked if i was gay. he asked me the same question on the phone a month before. i got hte same feeling of uneasiness. it just did not feel like something that should be coming from a father. we wnt to the mall and he took me to victoria's secret. me him and my mom (who are not together) were in the store while i was looking at bras. my mother was telling me to pick a bigger size because the one i picked she thought was too small. he's gonna ask me what bra size do i wear? i ignored him. i bought a cd. a sexual song was playing

2007-09-12 03:16:19 · 49 answers · asked by ch@L@nt 1

My mother was in a huge fight with my wife and I, and hung up on my wife after saying "I'm done with you guys." We didn't talk to her for a month, and she didn't show up at my son's baptism. After getting his 3-month pictures taken, I sent them to various family members, but not her. She called me yesterday asking where her pictures were and when I told her why we didn't send them, she hung up on me again. Were we in the wrong?

2007-09-12 02:35:45 · 8 answers · asked by David 2

My boyfriend and I started as best friends and now we are very close. We have decided that we'll marry when we grow up, and I strongly prefer to live alone with him.

However, my mother has always stressed that she wants to live with me forever, and I know very well that it is because she feels she has nobody else in the world and she loves me very much.

Unfortunately, I don't like that because of her occasional psychologically unstable behaviour that I am extremely sensitive to. Also, I am very sad that she has always invaded my privacy throughout my teenage life and always made me depressed. I have tried my best, patiently, to encourage her to give me more privacy but there seems to be a limit to it. I feel sorry for my mother, but still, I want to be free.

I have contemplated about the problem in search for solutions, but to no avail, especially since I don't know how the situation will be like in the future.

I want to live with him only. What can I do?

2007-09-12 02:25:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 16 yr old friend living with me cause her parents are not suitable .. where can I get assistance for the things she needs

2007-09-12 02:01:39 · 6 answers · asked by gramba 1

my son used to go out with a girl but ended it a couple of weeks ago this girl has been stalking him and telling everyone that she is pregnant by him . she also been scarring other girls not to talk to him . but another girl didnt take any notice of her and was chatting to my son and some of his mates the ex girlfreind tried to beat her up but ended up getting hurt . the police was called and the exs father asked if my son will give a statement to the police i have tod him no because the other girls family could do my son alot of harm can the police force him to make a statement .

2007-09-12 00:52:32 · 9 answers · asked by K H 3

What should a mother do when she is indirectly forced to leave the house by the daughter-in-law through her henpecked husband (Mother's Son). The house was bought by the father and was transferred in the son's name out of pure love to son.

2007-09-12 00:32:40 · 15 answers · asked by Olvin 2

Her latest lecture regarded how I bring up my daughter, in a roundabout way. These arguments are always based on her warped interpretation of Christianity.

Our bodies are temples, and anyone who defiles a temple will be destroyed, eternal damnation, hellfire, I have played a part in the defiling of someone else's temple, I gave permission, I went with her, I have damned my daughter to hell unless she repents, and unless both she and I repent then I don't even stand a chance of gaining forgiveness.

So what is this heinous evil I have committed - I took my daughter, at her request, to get her ears pierced.

2007-09-12 00:25:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't understand why men give much more affection to their daughters and are much more tougher to their sons. My hubby is the kind of tough, unemotional, cold man, but I love him and I know he has a great heart! We've a 3 year old boy (so sweet and cute!) and one time, while my husband was sitting in the couch, my son jumped on him and tried to hug his father. My h/b put him away, saying that «men don't hug other men». He's crazy! I think it's perfectly normal and beatiful to see a father hugging his son. He never cried in front of me and he doesn't say «I love you». The deal is that he does his tasks, is very intelligent and helps with house chores, but it's also a pack of ice. Am I maried to a feelingless man?

Thanks a bunch in advance.

2007-09-11 18:18:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf & have been together since high school for 4 years on and off. At the beginning I would hear that his mom would say stuff about me behind my back & when I would leave the room, scream about how much she hates me. I felt that it was ridiculous that she was talking about me considering she was like 30 years older than me, but whatever. When we take breaks she says its about time its over & that its time for him to move on. I think that its very rude of her that she talks about me to everyone, especially since they tell me! I am not saying I have never said anything bad about her but i just hate being around his parents, mainly her. She thinks that she knows everything and it always wrong. She just drives me crazy about everything and how FAKE she is towards me. He wants to marry me someday & I just don't know if I can handle it. I know that it would take a lot for me to like her and I hold grudges forever! My friends thought I was exaggerating about her but after met, they agree

2007-09-11 17:46:17 · 10 answers · asked by Liana 2

Is this normal? How do you deal with it? Sometimes I can't catch my breath thinking about it.

2007-09-11 17:39:49 · 11 answers · asked by Corona 5

I was born in 1992 Macedonia. But that was called Yugoslavia before that technically macedonia became independent in september that same year. So am i born in yugoslavia or macedonia?

2007-09-11 16:54:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 17 years old. I live with my mom and sister. My parents recently got a divorce and i suffered from being in the middle of it. I don't have a relationship with my father anymore and my mother moved me away from my friends and loved ones to a city where i know no one and it is my last year of high school. Since I am 17 I am legally allowed to move out at this point and I am miserable living here. My mother doesn't do much real mothering she's just kind of there to complain to me sometimes, but other than that I'm pretty much independent. My boyfriend is 20 [yes my mother knows he is 20] and I have been with him for two years. He has two jobs and makes good money and offered to let me live with him. Would that be ridiculous of me?

2007-09-11 16:41:34 · 45 answers · asked by thespacebetween727 1

My childrens biological father was recently relised from prison. I gave birth to my twin daughters while he was in prison and he is not on the birth certificet. The children have my last name, and live with me. The only thing that he has is a paternity test stating he is the biological father.

They have never met their father. I have been supporting them and we do not have a child support agreement as of this moment. We do have a court date in Oct for child support to be set up.

What I am wondering is does he have any custody toward the children? Can he come and snatch them up from day care if he finds out where they are and I can do nothing about it? Do I need to go and file for custody for my children and state what visitation I want him to have if any? I live in california.

2007-09-11 16:28:21 · 12 answers · asked by kila537 4

And I've been thinking a lot about college and graduation lately, and it made me think of other future events that will most likely happen in my life (Weddings, Funerals, etc). I'm just starting to wonder if I should invite my father to these occasions. He left my mom, brother and myself when I was about three and I haven't talked to him in years, but he's still my father. He partially pays for the insurance of my brother and I, and my grandparents on his side always send us cards for birthdays and such filled with small notes saying how they miss us, so I almost feel obligated to invite him. But DAD left US, so I barely even feel like his daughter... it's a confusing situation... what do you think?

2007-09-11 16:02:43 · 13 answers · asked by caitrin2009 2

I mean I kinda need her help in understanding what to do and she said I could tell her if we were but a couple of months ao she was like no no no. I don't know I mean people on here arent very helpful and none of my friends are really avalible right now to talk to about this kinda stuff. I mean, it could go eitehr ways as far as a conversation goes but well what do you think I should do?

2007-09-11 15:42:14 · 7 answers · asked by R ♥ I ♥ P ♥ Casey Calvert 3

Hes 16 and I really do not enjoy being around him...his parents live overseas but they spoiled him and babied him bad....he acts like everything is his God given right even though my husband works his *** off to raise him over here and pay everything ...he appreciates nothing and has the audacity to ask for more...gets an attitude when he doesnt get his way and has had the nerve to run away..for a day then he came back but still....i complain about him to my husband but dont want to tell him that i dont like him because it'll hurt him..i dont want him to feel like its either me or his brother..i would never do that to him
OH....and when my hubby calls his mother to tell him about all the misbehavior she gets mad at my husband!! she blames him or says to stop making excuses and just admit he doesnt want to take care of him..UNBELEIVABLE!!! we talked about sending him bck but my husband never really goes through with it and now it turns out that he might move in with us... :(

2007-09-11 15:15:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so today, me and my mom got into this huge argument about something I don't even remember what it was about. So I got mad and put a sign on my door that said "This family sucks", because that's what people do when they're mad, so my mom comes along and adds on "I agree, so go find a new one." What should I do? My mom is crazy mad at me, like she won't look at me or anything, but I love her and my dad and my pets and my bro and sis, so I don't want to leave. This is the first time my mom and I have gotten into a fight. I'm thirteen, and I'm pretty sure none of my friends have enough money to take me in with them, so I have no idea what to do.

2007-09-11 14:40:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

you know the kind of kid who argues back with the parent and hits the parent and falls out all over the floor. what do you think the solution is to this problem?

2007-09-11 14:04:28 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

Say my Mom died. My Father is nowhere to be found. I'm 19 and my little brother is 7. If my Mom dies would I be responsible to take care of my brother? How does that work?

2007-09-11 13:53:33 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 30 and still struggle with this one.

2007-09-11 13:51:27 · 25 answers · asked by what's the point 4

I allowed my son to go with his father for Christmas and when my son came back he told me that Santa Clause hadn't left any presents for him. My son was 4 at the time. I have another son who also goes with his dad and his family and he came back with gifts. When I asked my son's father why he did this to him he said it was to hurt me because I wouldn't give him any money back from the child support I get. Earlier that month he had been complaining to me about how he didnt have any money for Christmas. How broke he was but when I dropped my son off I saw the Christmas tree and all the decorations at his house. My son came back home excited from the visits because he said Santa had been to his daddy's house because he saw a lot of gifts. Earlier I had commented to his father about a drumset my son wanted and he buys a drumset for his other son. My son had nothing. I played it off to my son like it was no big deal. His father later said that I told him not to get him anything.

2007-09-11 13:46:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

The mother of the bride was saying to me "Do this type of picture this way "AND that way! Turn my daughter this way! Have her here.....there....over there.....Put the lights here in her face!! So!!!! I said "Excuse me Mrs Jones.....When you go to the dentist do you tell the dentist how to do his/her work"? She said "NO"....I said "Then why are you trying to tell me how to do my job"? She hushed up and I did nice work from that point on. What's with these people? My wife said I should have kept my mouth shut. I say I should have and "WILL" say Enough! when I've had enough.

2007-09-11 13:23:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my cousin are really close friends she’s almost like my sister. We are 2 1/2 years apart I'm 17 and she will be 15 soon. It seems like we are drifting from each other now that I am in college and she is a freshman in high school. She try’s to act like something she isn’t and she is so desperate for love and to have a baby. I ask her to hang out and she ditches me for her only friend and then ditches my brothers birthday party because she just wanted to stay home which she does all the time. My uncle has been depressed for 7 years making my cousin like that. She never listens to anything I talk about or my problems but then she expects me to listen to hers. I am going CRAZY with her. Should I send her an e-mail we haven’t talked in days. I am so tired of only me holding are friendship together.

2007-09-11 13:22:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

so we let them live in our house (their parents) and we make them pay rent. we are doing this to help them learn how to take care of themselfs. both of the boys work full time and are saving money to get their own place but just have not made it yet. they work well with the money they make and are good children and work around the house.

the question is how long should i let them stay or am i a bad mom for charging them rent and not just let them save all the money to get out on their own. but remember before u answer any child has to be feed and kept cool or warm, a roof over the head and this all cost me money if i dont make them pay rent so what u think.

2007-09-11 12:59:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 15 & my favorite teacher is the choir one. she is really funny & nice. so after class, i told her she was my favorite. she was smiling & laughing. she told me thank you. then i went back one hour later & told her the same thing. she was in a bad mood. i said "hey your my favorite teacher." she said "yeah, right. you will see later." what does that mean? she sounded crabby & she was yelling at me. i just said bye & left. does she hate me? what does "ya right. you will see later" mean? she always makes me sit out of class when were singing becuz i have a bad voice. what does she mean? why was she nice then mean

2007-09-11 12:58:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont get how parents can do this. Im giving myself as an example. I have been dating my bf for 2 years. Im prob going to end up marrying this guy. He is a good guy, is educated, works, treats me right. My parents just don't like him-its that simple. He's not even allowed over my house. (i still live with my parents but im moving out soon, my bf and i are in mid 20's.)
Anyway, i have been threatened that if i marry him, they will disown me completely. I have known another girl that her parents completely disowned her because she married the man she loves. I don't get it-there is so many worse things in this world that can happen -someone can get sick, someone can get in an accident, ect... and its like your not talking to me because of this?? Life is too short, i dont get why some parents disown or even threaten to disown their kids, especially if they were always good kids and want to make their own decsisions. I thought parents were suppose to love their kids unconditionally....

2007-09-11 12:00:14 · 4 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1

I was babysitting my brother on sunday I went to change his pamper. He was fighting me all the way not listening to me I let him stay In It. My mom came home six hours later went to change him he got a real bad rash. Now I'm grounded cant go out next weekend. I suggested to my mom maybe babysitting wasn't for me she feels I did It on purpose to get out of babysitting. I wanted to change him but he was running away from me. He didnt want to stand still its only a rash no big deal. I get rashes all the time I survived. I was doing her a favor by watching him. He was sitting in a dirty diaper. GOD It's not the end of the world she should be grateful.She's ungrateful mother that has nothing better to do but ***** at me!

2007-09-11 11:08:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here is the thing she works and does pay 100 dollars a month in rent, but she goes out drinking and stays gone all night and also goes and spends the weekend with her male friend. Now I have a 15 year old daughter at home as well and I thought that no matter how old you were that the rules still applied??? It really really bothers me that she is staying out all night and spending the nights with her boyfriend while living in my home. Tell me how I go about telling her that if she is going to live here she can not do those things?

2007-09-11 11:03:59 · 9 answers · asked by Sheila C 2