Family - September 2007

I'm considering hiring someone to drag him out by his hair and beat him to within an inch of his life...

My sister is mentally retarded and recieves money from the state. These guys come in (usually not retarded) and take advantage of her, taking her money...the last guy had 2 illegitimate kids and used my sisters money to pay their child support.

I'm tired of hearing about this, but live across the country and can't help directly. What are my options?

2007-09-13 06:19:29 · 22 answers · asked by xoxox 2

I really can't take my mum anymore. I mean i love her to bits but i am slowly loosing respect for her and she really stresses me out. First of all she is with a married man and has been for years and that has made me loose a bit of respect for her, because she knows it's wrong, this same guy also made her have a breakdown and she was put into a mental hospital for a week or so for post natal depression. I have recently got a new job as a legal secretary and i am earning a decent amount of money but she always expects me to give her a couple of hundred. I don't actually live with her anymore as the house we were living in was just to small so i'v moved in with my boyfriend and his family which is luvly because we get on really well and his house is much bigger and i pay my way there. I know she's been through a lot but shes also put me and my sisters through a lot especially me because im the oldest. I could honestly go on forever but it's best to stop there.

Sorry it's so long.

2007-09-13 06:19:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

He hasn't seen her in two years now, and owes over $10,000 in child support. He told my mother he was going to send me money but didn't b/c he got robbed recently, should I believe that? I know I shouldn't keep him from his child but I'm scared to have my daughter around him and his family if he's getting robbed and stuff. I'm afraid he might assult me again. I also don't want my mom involve in the pick up drop off arangements. By law her farther and me can't have contact with each other. WHAT CAN I DO SO ME AND MY DAUGHTER CAN FEEL SAFE AROUND HER DAD?

2007-09-13 06:14:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

when child was born he wasn't present to sign birth certificate he was given the form to fill out and mail in to add his name he hasn't done that,I listed him as the father for child support he won't go into the office to sign that he is the father,he claims he wanted a DNA Test done he didn't show up for that either

2007-09-13 05:57:22 · 10 answers · asked by linda c 1

my mom moved away in febuary and i havent talked to her since because she wont answer the phone and she hasnt tried to call me. i just turned 18 and graduated from high school this year. when she moved i had to go live with my grandmother. once i graduated i left her house and went back to the house where i was living with my mom, which is also her mothers house, but after being there for a week she told me that she wanted me to leave cause she couldnt take care of me, but im 18 so she doesnt need to take care of me, i just needed a roof over my head. i have a loving bf who let me move in with him but sometimes i feel like i did the wrong thing and shouldnt have moved in with him because now my dad doesnt want to talk to me. i miss my mom alot and i dont know why she moved away but i also hate her for doing it. i want to talk to her and figure things out but i dont know what to do. please help me. if anyone knows Carol McCarthy in Gibsonville North Carolina tell her that i love her

2007-09-13 05:50:41 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1

My friend invited my sister and I to go to the beach with them. I want to be really excited... but I feel bad my parents don't get to go. We havn't gone on vacation for so long! I never go anywhere and I get really creeped out when I have to leave home. I'm around my parents 24/7 because I'm homeschooled and everything. They keep saying "Go and have the time of your life!" But I'm sad to leave them at home and mom says she 'won't' be okay when I'm gone because there won't be any kids around. I asked them if they really wanted me to go and they said yes. But I still feel really bad that they never get to do anything and sissy and I get to go have fun when mom and dad are stuck at home. I want to go, but I feel guilty leaving them home! They always tell me I'll have so much fun that I'll forget about them... but that'd be way too hard to do. What do you guys think?

2007-09-13 05:04:19 · 5 answers · asked by T.J. H 2

my son went from dvd covers to now bringing in movies i know he is growing up but what do i do i am a single parent with other kids. i try not to blow up but man who wants to face the fact that their child is about to be sexually active. he is a 3.5 gpa child.but man i dont want anything to distract him from his education HELP!!!!!!!!

2007-09-13 04:59:03 · 9 answers · asked by champ 2

I'm thinking of my town, I wouldn't know if the person living next door is a pedaphile. You know of any? What's happened to them? They get bashed? What are the tell tale signs of one? None I'm guessing, but what would you do to a pedaphile? I'd put pics all around town announicing it to everyone and run them outta town!!!

2007-09-13 03:53:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Two years ago my ex-wife passed away. At the time my kids lived with her but now live with me. My wife now and the ex never got along. Anyway, here is my question. I have alot of old photos that are of my kids and their mother. My kids would like to have a picture or two to have around in their rooms. But my wife doesn't want them out in the open(I feel this way too). I thought that once they(the kids) were out on their own that they could have whatever pics they wanted. Is it wrong to do this? Very confused on this sometimes. Please help!!!!

2007-09-13 03:42:22 · 13 answers · asked by Scott R 2

since i was 13 years old, towards teenage, my parents, especially my mum guide me extremely strict.. she won't let me go out at night after 10pm.. the most serious is, she don't like girls mixing with me??? i really don't understand parent this aday... can anyone help me to solve this problem?? should i suffer this until the end of my life?? T_T huh..

2007-09-13 03:33:18 · 6 answers · asked by greenrock 1

I lost my mom this past February and I am not sure I can handle the holidays this year. It was bad enough, I lost her just before my 30th birthday, right after my daughter was born and right my mom just turned 48. I feel so sad all the time thinking about it. I cry all the time.. How do you deal with it? I don't know how to celebrate when all I am is sad.
You can say I do not have a father, he is Australia living with his family over there and has not come to USA since he left in 1996. I have two younger sisters and they are thinking the same way I am.

2007-09-13 03:30:11 · 7 answers · asked by livinlife 3

I have never been called rich but am I???

My mom has a BMW 5 series + a merchedes convertable thing

My dad has a BMW (but not as big as my moms) and range rover

They bought my grandpa a clk merchedes. My house is roughly 6500 sq feet on 5 acres. Everyone in my town lives like this.

Extras details. We have a movie theater and a pool. We go to italy every year and to our beach house every weekend.

My brother brought back pictures when he went to help with hurricane katrina for school. I saw how there living conditions are and now I feel unworthy of everything I have. Am I living a good life? By the way I no I have 0 money and my parents have the money.

2007-09-13 03:28:46 · 19 answers · asked by cami121312 2

Also, 1 family mbr lives in home, that is deeded to 4 family mbrs.Can this person make improvements to home, with out knowledge of other family mbrs AND then expect them to help pay for it? Person that lives in home (home is paid for) pays no Rent, just insurance and taxes. What are the "rights" of all parties? Can other 3 move in, IF they desired? If 1 mbr holds more interest in the home, does that person have more "say"?Thanks.

2007-09-13 03:24:08 · 2 answers · asked by musicnut 1

OK, I can understand my 4 year old crying when she wants something, but my wife does it too...Is it fair that she will cry if she is upset, or wants me to do something for her?

2007-09-13 03:16:13 · 8 answers · asked by photoguy1967 3

2007-09-13 03:11:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter will be nine in Nov., She is the most loving and caring little girl. She has a outstanding personality. She is in third grade and has many, many friends. What is troubling me is, she seems to care more about her friends, socializing, looking pretty, ect... She wants to talk on the phone all of the time. She is having trouble with reading, staying focused, rushes through everything. She doesnt listen to anything I say!!! She looks at me when I am talking, but when I ask her what I said, she cant remember. Also, when I ask her if she remembers what I told her a few days later, she will say I never said that to her. She is still switching her letters around in her writing. Example- dad(she will write bab) or love ( she will write lvoe) she does this often. I had deslexia when I was her age, but we had her tested and they say her vision is perfect. She was extremely hiper when she was younger, but now has settled down a lot. I am really worried!! What should I do?

2007-09-13 03:06:55 · 2 answers · asked by matty 2

I sent my cousin (she's 41) a few photos of us ages ago, and not once did she even have the decency to reply. Each time she sends/emails me photos of her, I eagerly thank and welcome them. Now my mum wants to send her a handmade card with photos of her when she was a child. I said to her,"But she hasn't even answered our photos yet from a year ago". Do you think my mum is being too nice, because I certainly wouldn't send her a card like that when she rarely appreciates/acknowledges my communication with her. Before you ask, YES, she did get my photos, as they were sent (as I always do when I post anything to her) via recorded delivery.

2007-09-13 02:59:02 · 12 answers · asked by Hello 2

my mum passed away just over a year ago leaving just, my dad, my 20 year old brother and myself together in the house.

This year im finishing school and i want to go travelling with my boyfriend, my brother also has a girlfriend and he is at university so isnt at home much. My eldest brother who is 26 comes over sometimes but he is also busy.

I dont want my dad to be at home by himself because thats unfair but i also want to do my own thing for a while. What can i do?

2007-09-13 02:57:19 · 4 answers · asked by kangaroo girl 3

i want to get her in bed and the problem is am not ableto perform well with other women cos i keep thinking about her ? pls help me . I want sex with her !!!! Anyone angry with this dont bother to reply . Genuine help needed ?

2007-09-13 02:55:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi im about to leave the country where i have stayed for 3 yrs in my partners hometown.We havent lived with his parents but i need to say goodbye as i am leaving to find emplyment months ahead of my partner, as i am going back to my home to the city.How do i say good bye ,like a gesture or something.i dont want to spend too much money !Any ideas ????

2007-09-13 02:55:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-13 02:52:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 25 years old having issues with my father. I dated a man for 10 months and broke up with him in May because he hit me. He had full custody of his 4 year old son. My father and stepmother got to know this child in the last three months that we dated. After we broke up, my father came to me asking what I thought about him continuing to see the child. I told him that it didn't make sense. However, my father disregarded my feelings and continued to see him. Now, 4 months later, this is tearing my family apart. My brother doesn't approve, either. My father knows that we do not approve but takes it to extremes (will not even call us when he has this child). In the past month this has become every day. This child is mean just like his father and continuously disrespects everyone. I currently have a new boyfriend who my father won't even try with. This child has a grandmother to provide care. Now I hear my father is going to try and get custody because my ex is in jail! what to do?

2007-09-13 02:42:21 · 6 answers · asked by AimeeH 1

2007-09-13 02:38:13 · 43 answers · asked by flowersinthewind 5

My ex-husband sends me conflicting messages. On the one hand, he keep saying rude, nasty things to me. Then, he says that he likes my picture and feels that I am still the "right" person for him. He also says that I need to "fix" myself and until I do, he does not want to speak to me. I am undependable and unstable in his eyes.

My parents do not want me to go back to him. Yet, they are pushing me out of the house. My mom is moody and rude and difficult to deal with. She makes an issue about minor things.
She wants my help, but then pushes me out of her house.

Maybe the problem is me as my ex-husband says and I need to fix myself because I think that I am the "queen" of everything. I do try to help out where possible.

I am going through a lot of stress due to my daughter moving here, new job, etc.

2007-09-13 02:03:25 · 15 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

Indian Parliament contemplates making of a legislation making it mandatory for men and women to provide for accommodation and food for their parents, biological and through adoption.
One Shri Tapan Pal writes in The Telegraph, a leading Calcutta based English daily, against the proposed legislation. The letter can be seen in


http://www.telegraphindia.com/1070913/asp/opinion/story_8307599.asp

Do you, or do not you, agree with him? Why?

2007-09-13 01:30:04 · 13 answers · asked by sexy grandmother 4

i am living with my husband's family. i am a professional and just waiting for my employment. my husband has to take the licensure exams. we have a baby. basically, we need our parent's support.

everybody here at home is in love with our baby. my mother in law is really a lot of help to all the burdens in baby caring.

thing is, i find myself jealous of her since when she's around, my baby ALWAYS wants to be picked up by my mother in law. and when the baby hears her voice, the baby gets so excited about it. also, i think my mother in law also announces it to the world that the baby is so fond of her.

i just feel bad since up to now i'm a full time mom, but my baby prefers her than me.

am i thinking the wrong thing? what should i do?

no rude comments please, or else...

2007-09-13 01:10:14 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I bought a house together with my mom, she put down 30,000 on the house and we got the mortgage (both parties provided something the other couldn't) in our names.When we bought the house she said if my bro(he's older)lost his place she wanted him to be able to come and live here for a while.He's lived with us since a month after we bought the house, and it's very stressful. My husband and I have 1 child and 1 on the way, my bro has 1 too.His son isn't supervised or corrected when he behave's bad, this rubs off on my child.Him and his son have both broke things and never fixed them in the house.I talked to my mom about all of this and told her my reasoning but I wanted my bro to move or I would.She refused to kick him out so now I am moving, but she is making me feel awful that she will loose her money since I can't afford a new place and the mortgage for here.at the same time i feel like i tried to wokr with her.

2007-09-13 00:18:26 · 3 answers · asked by Jenna24 2

Here's the thing... my bf's dad is in critical condition and inspite of it, he accompanied his mom to go on a tour. For me, it's really weird because they should be taking care of his dad in the hospital and even though his brothers and sisters are there taking turns to look after his dad, I think that the wife should always be there. His dad has been ill for 7 years but it's only now that he's been confined in the hospital and his condition is real bad. Though it's understandable that the wife is tired of taking care of the sick husband, I don't think that it's a valid reason to go on a vacation especially now. They'll be gone for a month and I want to give my bf a piece of my mind when he gets back. Do you think that I have the right to tell him what's on my mind or do you think that it's best to leave it alone?

2007-09-13 00:04:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-12 23:47:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of 2 years is very loving and affectionate, but when im on the telephone and he is at home with brother he 'sounds irritated ' takes mick speaks to me horribly same when im present. Is he showing off?

2007-09-12 23:44:19 · 14 answers · asked by Australia 1