since i was 13 years old, towards teenage, my parents, especially my mum guide me extremely strict.. she won't let me go out at night after 10pm.. the most serious is, she don't like girls mixing with me??? i really don't understand parent this aday... can anyone help me to solve this problem?? should i suffer this until the end of my life?? T_T huh..
2007-09-13 03:33:18 · 6 answers · asked by greenrock 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You don't say how old you are now. However a 13yr old should be in bed after 10pm as school is supposed to be your primary focus. Sounds like your parents were doing you a favor by trying to raise you right.
My guess is that your mother is trying to help you not be a burden on society by helping you not get trapped into an unwanted pregnancy or worse, a life shortening sexually transmitted disease. You should be thanking her instead of complaining.
Your question is filled with poor grammar, bad sentence structure and poor spelling. Not to mention your tendency to be grandiose. Your parents control will end for you when you become a man who is capable of supporting himself or they die, whichever comes first.
2007-09-13 03:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not understand this. But your parents are protecting you from things that could happen. One day you'll look back and be glad your parents where strict. A 13 yr old has no business going out after 10pm. And your mom probably thought the girls where after one thing and one thing only. And didn't want you to mess your life up at an early age by having a child on your hands. No you shouldn't suffer. Theres nothing to suffer over. Be thankful your parents cared enough to protect you from doing things that you shouldn't be doing.
2007-09-13 04:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by marieandsameverett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want to hear this. But your mother treats you this way because she cares! I would have gave anything for my mom or dad to care even a little bit. I was allowed to do whatever I wanted whenever I wanted since the age of about 12. My mom told me she would treat me as an adult as long as I acted like one. I feel like I was forced to grow up way too soon. At the time that's what I wanted, but looking back I would rather have had strict parents any day than parents that didn't give a *amn about me or what happened to me. Please try to think about it and understand that she loves you and the worlds a cruel place. She just wants to protect you. When you are older you will understand.
2007-09-13 04:14:51 · answer #3 · answered by Lil'MissThang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it seems your mother is strict, (I know my was) but they just want whats best for you, and to keep you out of harms way. It depends how old are you know, because if you over 18yrs old then yes it seems a bit extreme but if you are still a minor then you must obey the rules in her household. She seems not to strict because I can't understand why you would want to be out after 10:00pm at the age of 13. And know you will not suffer for the rest of your life, because when you become adult you can move out and do what you want.
2007-09-13 03:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by Brezzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'White get dressed' by way of Kenny Marks About a father who left his spouse and daughter earlier than she ever went to institution and indicates up on her marriage ceremony day in need of to make up for the entire misplaced parties in her lifestyles.
2016-09-05 12:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
last line(hood, ha)
maybe you don't need to be out there, if cares he'll see you in the day as well as the night.
booty calls are not for good, girls.
2007-09-13 03:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by 2sexxxy32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋