Family - May 2007

im only 15

2007-05-06 14:46:21 · 5 answers · asked by Scott 1

Okay, One of my older sisters is getting married. She is 35 years old and I am 31. She is actually getting married in the same place that I did. My son is 7 and has autism. One day when my sister and her fiancé’ were at my parents house, I was there also. When I left the room he told my parents that it was not going to be a good idea for my son to came to their wedding. He said that he would not be invited to come and I needed to figure out what I was going to do with him. First of all I know that it is their wedding and they can invite anyone they want to. However my son is immediate family and he would be hurt by this. He would be excluded from pictures and everything. All my other nieces and nephews are invited to come. Also the way my sisters fiancé is around my son is strange. He yells at my son and acts very uncomfortable around him. My son is very affectionate and has tried to hug and kiss this guy but he acts so strange about it. I can understand to a point and have tried to understand this behavior but it is just cruel. I have to put up with a lot on a daily basis. Having a child who does not “fit into society” (I hate that kind of talk) is so hard. He will miss out on a lot of stuff that other kids will get to do. I am so upset about this and it ended causing me to get into an argument with my sister. First they lied and said that nothing like that was said to my parents, but my mom and dad are not liars. Secondly I felt like he should have came to me and said this. I am the mother. The way it was done behind my back was so disrespectful. I was there in the house. He could have had this conversation with me. I felt like that was a wimpy way of doing it. Anyway I told my sister that if my son was not invited then I was not coming. There are also other issues going on with my sister as well that I have no room to put in here. Anyway she sent me hateful e-mails cussing me out and calling me names. My whole family says that I need to patch things up with her but I feel like I need to stand up for my son. He does not deserve this. Should I stick to my guns and not go to her wedding

2007-05-06 13:28:00 · 22 answers · asked by renee125 2

read all past questions first all of them. today they woke me up and said i was registaed as a new girl at my school and that i was going as one tommorow. they i had to drink and gargle more things and now i have a girl voice. they did my hair and makeup and then took me out to a ice rink and made me wear a skater dress and skates. then they held my hands and draged me to the oppoiste side of the rink and i don't know how to skate later people walked onto the ice and it was a figure skating lesson for six year old it was five hours wrong and afterwards they made me play more tennis and they said the transformation is coking along nicely how am i going to survive 9 more days

2007-05-06 13:22:09 · 7 answers · asked by cubegod666 1

I asked my hubby if I could do in home day care and he said no because of our hot tub and our pool ! I really want to because I love kids and I could make a little extra money will being a stay at home mom!Should I do it any way?

2007-05-06 12:59:50 · 20 answers · asked by Christine M 2

2007-05-06 12:55:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom walked out on me n my brother a month ago leaving my dad 2 take care of us.She left a debt in her credit account and my dad had to pay for it and she hadn't called me n my brother 2 check up on us. She use to verbally abuse me alot and physically abuse me a lil but that was all her bipolar talking when she didn't take her pill.
But she went to my brothers Tae Kwon Do ceromony and brought him a art case and she got me a make up bag. Should I send her something for mothers day -plz don't say "its up 2 u" just tell me what u would do.

2007-05-06 12:26:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom and her dad (my grandad) fall out alot.. and this time it was a big argument.. and my dad told me i could never talk to my grandad or nan again.. we live far away so it's impossible to see them.. but i've been told to cut off contact all together.. i've said he is my grandad so it should be up to me, but he hurt my mom really bad.. and i don't want to hurt her more by going behind her back and talking to them.. you may say that it will blow over but it has happened so many times for months on end, and this has been the final one as she has asked to be removed from his will and changed our number. It just doesn't seem fair.

2007-05-06 11:49:05 · 4 answers · asked by lovin_yooo 1

Oh my god, I cant breath, I dont know were to start, I dont know if I am taking things to far, I dont what to do?
am I wrong or right?

Last night I spent the night at a friends house, its safe there, her family is Christian,
well, My stepdad texted me at about 12:30 in the morning, and he said things like, "I am so happy to be your dad"
"I love you very much"
And this was unusual, it's like he was sissying up for something he did.
Well, I got home this morning, decided not to go to church, well, this girl named Bonnie, (12)
said that my stepdad was WAISTED, he even admitted he had one to many beers, my sister told bonnie that he was acting strange, He kept giving my Sister Britni Slobbery kisses on the scalp, and said things like "I ove you, I am sooo happy to be your dad"
and he kept giving her slobbery kisses alot, like 1 every 5 minutes, Well, my they let me get a puppy of my own about a year ago, she still is not fully potty trained, which I do regret,
However!
She poo

2007-05-06 11:47:55 · 70 answers · asked by maltese_i_love 2

2007-05-06 11:47:43 · 8 answers · asked by purkitty82 1

Okay, so my mom was being a total meanie, so I kicked my door really hard and now there's a big dent. I don't know what to do! Anyone have any ideas on how to cover it?

2007-05-06 11:39:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dated my ex for 10 months and over that time i got really close to his mom and his 4 year old sister. After fighting for a long time he told me he doesnt want to see me anymore and that i shouldnt keep in touch with his family. Last night i went to the mall with his mom and sister and he called me today and yelled about how i shouldnt go places with them cause theyre not my family.

Why is he so mad that im still close to his family?
Im not going to stop talking to them cause hes an idiot !!!
But is it wrong that im close with them still ?

2007-05-06 11:38:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-06 11:35:22 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-06 11:33:12 · 8 answers · asked by JEFFAVEGRL 4

As an adult (over 18, not living at home, married, have kids, etc), what do your parents do for your birthday? Do you still get presents? Do you they come over (have you over) for cake & ice cream?

2007-05-06 10:53:49 · 21 answers · asked by Trouble's Mama 5

And from now on i have decided to be good to them, what can i do to make them happy. I am 16, althogh i am not really bad, i did normally have 'temper tantrums' sometimes. and lol this is embaressing to say but cry when i didnt get my way,

2007-05-06 10:52:56 · 15 answers · asked by the_simple_life 1

I've lived in the same general area my entire life and want to move away to a beach town so bad! I've planned on going to the local community college for Psychology, but now I'm thinking I might want to move to Florida or the Carolinas for college. The only problem is, I'm a little intimidated about moving away from home so soon. I think it's something I could get over, but I'd just feel better hearing your advice too.

Did you move away for college?

If you did, did you have a great time and feel comfortable being away from home so young?
If you didn't, do you regret not moving away or going (in general)?

I really appreciate the advice, tell me everything! Thanks!

2007-05-06 09:51:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to go to college in nyc and live there. i want to major in theatre, they think im too smart to do that. i am smart, but i want to act. they say theyll disown me if i go into theatre, i don't want that to happen. they also want me to stay in alabama, because they think ill get murdered or something in nyc. they also think all actors are really terrible, immoral people. i want my parents to be happy with me, but i also want to be happy with myself. what should i do?

2007-05-06 08:51:33 · 2 answers · asked by filmnoirgirl16 3

I always knew and it's always been clear in our house that our dad spanks our mom just like he spanks us whenever she disobeys him but he usually does it in private so we've only just heard it. But the other night we BOTH got spanked in front of each other. Here's the story, I went out to a party, which I wasn't suppose to go to, and let's just say I drank a little, HUGE NO NO! So I was suppose to be home at 12 but didn't have a ride home so I had to call mom to come pick me up. Well she could tell I had been drinking and i told her not to tell dad cause I didn't want to be spanked tonight. Well when we got home there was dad, he asked what was wrong mom said nothing, I was just sick. So dad went over to me and smelled the alcohol. So then him and mom got in an argument when mom cursed him out, which I've never heard her do before. So he was pissed! He told me Id be spanked first and told mom to stand and wait. He grabbed me lifted up my skirt and spanked the daylights out of me. Then told me to wait right there. He wanted me to watch mom's punishment too cause he said that since mom lied and acted like a child then she should be spanked no different then me. Mom was shocked! She kept asking him to take her in the other room and do it, it's too embarassing, but dad said too bad.(I laughed a little after he said that, cause now she knows how I feel) So mom went over his knee, dad pulled up her skirt and spanked her for what seemed like forever! I told mom later that I was sorry I got her in trouble but she said it was her fault and she was the parent and she deserved it. ANYWAY, anyone else seen their mom spanked?

2007-05-06 08:47:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

what should i do?
keep sneaking? cause that gets me in SOOO MUCH trouble...i've been on house arrest for 5 months now and summers coming and i'm going to be soo bored.
i can't talk to him cause he won't talk about it OR give in. i'm afraid of him too...plz help. cause my ex who we've been on and off for 2 years, we are really in love (honestly) and wanna get back together. i love him soo much and i can't ignore it. what should i do?

2007-05-06 08:38:24 · 23 answers · asked by keeyla 2

2007-05-06 07:31:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

*sighs*
¬_¬
I hate it tbh, it's so horrible .. I can't have a tattoo, or another piercing. And I'm not allowed to stay with my friends in Cardiff. Some people have said 'Your dad just cares about you' but .. I don't know. I normally have to be in by 12am, too, if I'm going out.
I don't know what to do, as I'm scared of him.

;-/ HELP?!!!

Thanks.

Lucy x

2007-05-06 07:27:03 · 27 answers · asked by take me to the kittens 4

my parents are away. and my sister and her friends keep harassing me. she is 17 and i'm 15. the other day they held me down and kicked me in the balls. it hurts and i'm worried i might be sterile. she says she's gonna do it again. and she will break them if i ever tell anyone.

2007-05-06 04:41:37 · 4 answers · asked by paul t 1

I found out yesterday my 13 year old brother drew all over my yearbook i was furious i couldnt calm down when i got up this morning i started to yell and scream about it. my mom is now very stressed and i told her i was sorry but i do that so much it dosent mean anything anymore. I want to really mend things with my mom today but i dont know how because saying sorry dosent cut it anymore. And also ways for me to calm down so i dont freak next time.

2007-05-06 04:14:29 · 16 answers · asked by Gigi 1

I have 3 daughter;s I love all 3 more then anything ! But there bin times i yelled more then i should have. Alex baldwin should have bin givin some slack?

2007-05-06 03:28:24 · 2 answers · asked by stoner745 2

2007-05-06 01:36:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wouldn't my mother have to marry a man that has absolutely no blood relation to me at all, in order for me to be his step-daughter? If so, if she divorced him, would I no longer be his step-daughter?

And, is there a different term for a situation in which a woman has a son with one man, they divorce, and she has a daughter with another man? Is the daughter related to the first husband at all?

2007-05-06 01:24:02 · 2 answers · asked by Tee 2

2007-05-05 23:57:49 · 13 answers · asked by Sahra 4

who likes to throw the fact of an ex (whos been past for YEARS) that was apparently more approved of....and is constantly saying hurtful things to you and hurting her son too, who would only like to forget about the past? I dont want to ask him to stay AWAY from his own family but I cant take this...!

2007-05-05 23:13:51 · 14 answers · asked by . 3

my brother is 23 and he lives away from home. since he's been gone he has made a whole bunch of new friends who i like to describe as the 'wrong crowd'. don't get me wrong, they are lovely people, when they are sober. they drink wayyyy too much, and way too often, they're into recreational drugs (which i assumed was just pot) and they are just simply very dependant on alcohol and probably drugs to have a good time.

my brother seems to really love his new lifestyle. i was starting to accept that my brother is a piss head when last night i found out he's getting into more serious drugs like cocaine. this has completely thrown me off. i don't know what to say to him or if i should even get involved. i'm his little sister i don't feel like i have the right to tell him what to do, but it's just so awful to see my brother do this. especially me because i don't drink and i stay away from all drugs (i'm 20 by the way) and i just can't watch my brother get addicted to this trash.
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2007-05-05 20:51:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i wanted to go to my boyfriend`s tonight because it`s prom night& all my friends are there, but i`m in 9th grade so, yea i`m not. . well, i let my b/f`s dad talk to mine& dad said no. . so i was like crap - whatever& then i got to thinkin`, dad let my sister go to her friends yesterday& she came up today& i`m always home alone cause she`s always at her friends house& i`m always bored. . so i went& said daddy, my sister went to her friends all weekend last weekend& the time before& he just said Tiffany don`t you start with that crap& started yellin` at me ?
idk if it`s a trust issue, if he`s too overprotective, or is he likes my sister better ?
please help.

2007-05-05 16:48:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous