Family - May 2007

i'm going on vacation to see my family and i want to go woth my bf how do i convince my mom

2007-05-08 11:58:26 · 2 answers · asked by shortie_chick260 1

My little brother always pick on me. He steals my cell phone and call my friends and said the most horrible things about me. He always steals my diary, he keeps putting whooping cushion under my chair. Then he throws water balloon at me, when I kick him, then he cries and blamed it on me, I got into huge trouble. So everytime when I'm asleep he put his underwear on my face. He makes my life miserable, my mom don't believe me. How do I get my brother to stop bugging with me? I'm 14 and he is 10.

2007-05-08 11:53:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Bear with me, people. This is going to be a bit long, but if you stick around to read and respond, I'd really appreciate it.

My father and mother divorced when I was 4 years old. My mum and I went to live in another state, and I have visited my dad a few times a year since then (I'm now 20 years old).
His family is full of over-achievers; all of my aunts, uncles, and cousins have all gone to really good colleges and have gone (or are going on) to be doctors, lawyers, etc..
My mother mainly raised me and she and her family are not so much over-achievers as they are simplistic people. I did OK for myself in high school, but not as well as I know I would have had I been raised by my father.
I started college in 2005 and went to a school that my dad wasn't too proud of (not a big, well-known, state school). I didn't do too well because I got lazy the first semester, so I decided to take a summer course at the local community college to bring up my GPA. My dad was less than pleased with

2007-05-08 11:47:15 · 4 answers · asked by Delvala 5

my husband was arrested for domestic because our neighbor heard a window break which was caused by accident my husband was drunk and arguing with himself. He never laid a hand on me or threatened me. When we got to court for his initial they charged him with drunk and disorderly. We never had a pretrial confrence and now the end of the month we are going in for the final consult with the DA is this even legal to charge him with one thing and arrest him for something else?? We are searching for a lawyer now if anyone knows of a good one in wisconsin let me know.

2007-05-08 11:35:33 · 1 answers · asked by park153521 1

2007-05-08 10:09:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son is almost 8 years old now. We haven't seen his father in nearly 4 years. He was always in and out of the relationship cheating on me and staying out all night. He used to hit me and I let it go on far too long. Now things are great. I have remarried and had another child. My son calls my husband daddy mostly because this is all he has ever really known. Now My ex is due to get out of jail. He had to sit the last 6 months in county lock up for not paying child support. He has never really helped me out at all and I know he will just end up back there cause he never learns.

I guess my question has to do with waht should I do if he tries to get into my sons life? I think he is going to feel that he is owed because he just sat time and is going to try to take him from me. His family lives out of state and I'm afraid he will leave with my son. He is not a good man and has never grown up so I don't think my son being around him is a good idea. We have a good family here

2007-05-08 09:23:03 · 19 answers · asked by Michelle C 3

2007-05-08 08:46:29 · 1403 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Mom has always been the kind of Mom who physically takes care of her kids, but is not loving. There was never any hugs or I love yous. My parents to this day have never told me they love me. Im 37. They put us kids down.....your not smart enough, your not pretty enough........always picking out our flaws. Well its still going on. I've gone overload my schedule to prove to myself I am way more than my Mom ever wanted me to be. She hates me for this and is constantly trying to make me miserable. I try to stay away from her because I just dont want the pain and hurt that comes with it. Am I the only one who cant stand my Mom?

2007-05-08 08:42:16 · 22 answers · asked by Felicia 2

My daughters father and i are divorced. My daughter asked me not to tell her dad, because it would make him upset.

2007-05-08 08:23:34 · 26 answers · asked by yo yo 1

I know a lot of people (both my sister's friends and some of my more distant cousins) that refer to non-biological or distant relatives as actual family.

For example, I know someone that calls a friend she's known since birth, cousin (even though they are not related at all), calls my dad uncle, and calls some other unrelated friends of her family "Aunt This" or "Uncle That". It kinda makes things confusing because I never know if this person is referring to a biological relative or not. This person is of Italian heritage.

Then, I also know someone else that refers to my parents as "mom and dad" (I think she does this more to be affectionate than other said person). Again, this is just a friend of the family. This person is Hispanic.

And then I have an actual relative, who is a semi-distant cousin. (I think like 2nd or 3rd --- possibly removed a couple of times --- I'm not sure exactly). He calls my dad uncle, where he's just a cousin (not a close one at that).

Why do they do it?

2007-05-08 08:06:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My stepdaughter is the daughter of a mom who commited suicide when her daughter was 6. I married her dad when she was 11, having known her for 3 years prior. She has been endulged since her mom's death as her dad overcompensated for the loss. This has created a child who speaks her mind no matter what, has a total loss of respect for anyone older than her, doesn't know her place in the family, acts disruptive and is extremely arguementative. I am acting in the role of her mom because her birth mom is dead. I cannot cope. I am on medication and off work because of the extreme stress she has caused in our home on a daily basis. I am in therapy. This child is not on medication, nor in therapy. She just goes about her day trying to get he own way every day no matter what anyone even her dad says differently. There is always a scene. I feel such a sense of hopelessness that I do not know how I am going to cope for the remaining years she lives with us. Any suggestions 4 me?

2007-05-08 08:05:46 · 11 answers · asked by Firegal 2

Okay how can i make it up to my sister heres what I done

Tackled her badly in football and made her watch a scary movie and she wont watch TV now

2007-05-08 08:00:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 17 years old and i have lived with my real dad and step mom ever since i was 2. we have never had a good relationship or even a relationship at all and im afraid that because we have never really had a relationship, that we never will. i think that she feels that she still has to compete with my real mom for my attention and love. how can i improve this relationship and do think that it will ever get better? I need help ASAP! this means alot to me! HELP PLEASE!!!

2007-05-08 07:51:02 · 6 answers · asked by babyspice200267156 1

I have gymnecomastia so, though I'm slim, I have breasts with a feminine shape and developed like those of a 12 or 13 yo girl. Doctors don't recommend a surgery and say this will disappear in a year. But this is terrible, especially for a boy who likes swimming. Many kids and even adults keep picking on me, they've told me a lot of times I should wear a bra. I turned 14 Sunday and yesterday some schoolmates, 4 boys and 2 girls, said they wanted to give me a gift for my bday cause I'm a good fellow, help them with math and other subjects. Actually, I'm a good at math, get good grades and like to help people. I'm not that kind of boy who gets in trouble.
Well, the gift was a joke, they wanted to make fun of me, it was a bra. I got embarrassed, didn't expect something like that, couldn't avoid tears. They laughed, made fun of me and other kids laughed to. This was something so degrading that I didn't tell my parents. I'm their friend and they did this to me. Now I want revenge

2007-05-08 07:44:40 · 5 answers · asked by Ed 1

My parents have my brother living with them. He has destroyed their home, drinks, drugs and brings deviant people over to stay there with him. He has taken over the whole second floor. Last year, he was away for 9 months and I went there and cleaned for 8 weeks. found homes for all the cats he brought in the house and scraped cat poop off of floors and made repairs to the house. Now they have let him back in. I was there last week and he got drunk and came after me with a gun and accused me of robbing him. I had my one year old baby boy with me and had to leave in the middle of the night and stay in a motel until my husband could come get us. My mom refuses to put him out and I can not go there with him there. I will not put my child in that situation. I miss my mom and I am heartbroken over this. I have always been a good daughter. I didn't call the police because me dad said it would kill my mother to have cops there. I won't see her for Mothers Day.

2007-05-08 07:35:44 · 6 answers · asked by Barbara 2

hey i need help with a situation! would you give me sugestions please. but i need yall to be serious. i really dont want yall to be jerks about it

2007-05-08 07:18:45 · 14 answers · asked by sexy southern chick 1

My little sister keeps coming in my room and taking my stuff
she keeps annoying me and my mom and step dad keep telling her but she wont stay out wht shall i do ?
i cant put a lock on my door incase a fire

2007-05-08 07:17:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-08 06:39:59 · 14 answers · asked by notthisgirl37 1

My mother passed away and I don't have any children of my own. Any suggestions on how to celebrate the day without being depressed that I don't have my mother to spend it with?

2007-05-08 06:03:34 · 22 answers · asked by Kim 2

my mom just told me yesterday that she finally took my advise from what i told her a month ago about leaving my father. i love my father but i dont appreciate what he did to me and my family. and because of what he did is why my lil sis and i are in the system.

2007-05-08 06:03:15 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for almost a year now. Almost 2 years ago he picked out the most beautiful engagement band and wedding ring. I absoultly love it and especially love it cause I dont know anyone else who has anything like it. I just found out from my grandmother today that yesterday my grandmother my younger sister and her fiancee went ring shopping. My sister got the same ring as me but in gold. I am furious...I cant believe she did that and my grandmother allowed it. They could have at least called and asked me if I would mind...it was my special ring...and now im supposed to be all suprised and excited when my sister shows her new ring off to our family on mothers day when all I want to do it cry. Am I being selfish?

2007-05-08 04:43:03 · 29 answers · asked by ***Luvin being a mommy*** 2

I just wana know, thats all.

2007-05-08 03:39:10 · 11 answers · asked by Belle B 1

I've been fighting with my mom really bad for the past year ond a half!!! I try to bite my toung but it still wont work!!!! I mostly fight with her about grades,chores, or evan about my hair!!!!! how can i stop this madness!!!

2007-05-08 03:33:31 · 6 answers · asked by Barrleracerhotty 1

2007-05-08 03:20:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a hard time following the rules. I mean im not a bad kid that does drugs, and sneeks out of their house or skips school. I just can never manage to follow my parents rules. For instance myspace. Iv had 3 and iv gotn caught every time. The thing is I really want one. But in order for me to have one i have to have my parents trust witch i dont please help. I hate havn to live my life in secresy

2007-05-08 02:23:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last night my fiance and I were making love and our 2 1/2 year old son was in bed already for about an hour. So we figured good hes asleep. Well right in the middle of it my fiance looks over and to his horror there is our son watching in the doorway!!!!!! We didnt know whether to laugh or scream. So we got dressed very fast and giggled for awhile and put him back to bed after telling him that mommy and daddy were playing. Well now my fiance thinks the kid is ruined for life. I keep telling him that our child is going to be fine and wont remember it. Even though he has an excellent memory. I still keep laughing inside everytime I think about it. If you have a story, please share.

2007-05-08 01:57:29 · 13 answers · asked by crystal lee 5

8 months ago I went thru breakup with bf of 2 yrs. He was the main provider so when he left i was unable to financially provide for myself & 2 children since i'd been a stay at home mom. I was soon evicted from the house we were renting & now basically homeless & jobless having to stay with friends starting from scratch to re-establish a home and life for me & kids. After moving out of house my 5 yr old son went to my moms so he could start kindergarten in a structured & familiar environment & i asked my sister-in-law and brother to care for my 18 month old daughter until I was able to secure a job & save enough money to find & rent a new place for us to live, ecspecially since my friend barely had a couch for me sleep on yet two kids. Its been 8 months now & Im employed, have a home & worked things out with my boyfriend so I'm ready to be the primary caregiver of my family again...but now my sister-in-law doesn't want to give her back & has reasons why she thinks she won't have to!!

2007-05-08 01:05:08 · 15 answers · asked by mfbuttons411 1

or do they fade

2007-05-08 00:43:43 · 11 answers · asked by :) 5

2007-05-08 00:39:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am having some difficulties at home right now, and I am finding it extremely difficult not to get brought down by everyone else's problems.

My dad was involved in an accident a few months ago, and still won't be able to walk for another few months yet. He continually moans and feels sorry for himself, and also complains about the pain, but will not take his painkillers (for what reason? I don't know).

My brother is also very low at the moment. He has recently split with his gf and I hate seeing him upset.

My house is therefore not a very happy place to be, and although I do sympathise with both of them, I am finding it very hard to stay happy & upbeat. I try to keep myself occupied with other things, but can't help but think "what is the point?" How can I stop myself being dragged into unhapiness?

2007-05-07 23:18:53 · 24 answers · asked by ♥Miss Inquisitive♥ 5