My parents have my brother living with them. He has destroyed their home, drinks, drugs and brings deviant people over to stay there with him. He has taken over the whole second floor. Last year, he was away for 9 months and I went there and cleaned for 8 weeks. found homes for all the cats he brought in the house and scraped cat poop off of floors and made repairs to the house. Now they have let him back in. I was there last week and he got drunk and came after me with a gun and accused me of robbing him. I had my one year old baby boy with me and had to leave in the middle of the night and stay in a motel until my husband could come get us. My mom refuses to put him out and I can not go there with him there. I will not put my child in that situation. I miss my mom and I am heartbroken over this. I have always been a good daughter. I didn't call the police because me dad said it would kill my mother to have cops there. I won't see her for Mothers Day.
2007-05-08 07:35:44 · 6 answers · asked by Barbara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I feel so bad for you. I hope your parents do something about your brother before they let him ruin everything. You have to keep yourself and your baby safe but it is so unfair you can't see your mother.
My mother died a couple of years back and I miss her even more on Mother's Day, but it is so much worse for you knowing that if things were different you could see your mother.
Good luck. You can have a wonderful Mother's Day with your husband and baby since you are a mother now.
2007-05-08 08:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow, I'm so sorry for you. I do have to ask you though, in the long run which will hurt your mom more? Having your brother there, or having the cops come? To me it sounds like your mom's life would be better in the long run if you called the cops and they removed your brother. I won't be seeing my mom this mothers day but she is coming up to see me the weekend after and I'm taking her out for a special night. Maybe you can have your mom come out and visit you. I really do hope everything works out for you and your family.
2007-05-08 14:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by granolaperson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom how you are feeling about the situation. If you don't want to go over there, then maybe she can come to your house. Just her though. If the situation gets worse with your brother, I would call the police on him. I would've called the police on him if he chased me down with a gun while I was holding a baby. Good Luck.
2007-05-08 15:38:55 · answer #3 · answered by Jaime A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i will not be seeing my mother on mother's day. i might not even be seeing my son on mother's day. they are in Wilmington for a doctors appt. and i could not go because i am going to be in school. i hate that. maybe they will be able to come back up here.
2007-05-08 14:40:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say your mom is not worried about you.
She would rather have your looser brother around even if that means you wont be.
I would let her know that you and her grandchild will not come around as long as your looser brother is there. Let your mom come to you.
2007-05-08 15:10:49 · answer #5 · answered by Tarro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant stand my Mom so no I wont be seeing her. Cant you and your mom get together outside of her house?
2007-05-08 15:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by Felicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋