My mom walked out on me n my brother a month ago leaving my dad 2 take care of us.She left a debt in her credit account and my dad had to pay for it and she hadn't called me n my brother 2 check up on us. She use to verbally abuse me alot and physically abuse me a lil but that was all her bipolar talking when she didn't take her pill.
But she went to my brothers Tae Kwon Do ceromony and brought him a art case and she got me a make up bag. Should I send her something for mothers day -plz don't say "its up 2 u" just tell me what u would do.
2007-05-06 12:26:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i dont know what i would do honestly. do what your heart tells you to. The fact that she just left and how much that hurt i dont think i would.
2007-05-06 12:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by rockerchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go ahead and send her something? She is still your mother. Just because she has not done the right thing doesn't mean that you can't. If she is bipolar then she is ill and cannot help yourself. I know this is hard on you but I think you can feel good about yourself if you do what is right. Get her a nice card, tell her that you love her and send her a Mother's Day gift.
i am sorry that you have to go through all of that; good luck to you.
2007-05-06 12:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get her some flowers for mother's day. You understand her behavior is due because of the bipolar. This is not the way she would normally act. I know you really love your mother and care about her well being. Buy her a card and tell how much you really miss her. This will really help her.
God Bless
2007-05-06 12:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still your mom no matter what. Don't communicate with her on mothers day that way she will have time to think about what she did wrong and how her kids had suffered. She will feel sad and greatness. I am quite sure on mothers day she will see a lot of families getting together. She will be thinking about you and feeling devastated. Let her learn a heartbreaking lesson and then talk to her and let her know about your feelings.
2007-05-06 12:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I am sorry, but I trust that you are a over comer and a survivor
Life can be a smugger at times but we live , learn, and move past it, don't do anything that you cannot live with, Sometimes Parents have their issues we don't always know about, because it was long before marriage, and your conception. so do what is best and or feels right to you, live your life one day at a time to the best of your ability.
2007-05-06 12:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by Tennessee Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get her an actual gift since it seems you still have some resentment there. i would just send her a card so that she knows your thinking of her.
2007-05-06 13:30:50 · answer #6 · answered by jenn_sr03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you probably could still give her a mother's day gift well only if you want to.
2007-05-06 12:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by Ash girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋