Family - May 2007

read past questions first. today they woke me up and someone came over and they said they were going to do something about my voice they made me gargal and drink stuff for hours now i sound girly. i also had to play tennis again they say my girl form is coming along nicely and soon it will be permanate. i am trying to stay calm but now i have long air makeup dresses a girly body a girly voice and i play tennis in a girls league in a white dress what should i do

2007-05-05 16:18:03 · 7 answers · asked by cubegod666 1

February-March.. I heard someone scream no one heard it but me. Asked my mom and sister but they said its not them. Then voices keep whispering on me something I could not understand. I heard a crying late around the house at night and Im scared to death because of the abnormalities Im experiencing and I did not go to the source because I do not want to meet a banshee. I heard a scream again one week after the incident and a voice of woman shouting "wake up!" in the morning. Then three weeks later another scream. and it all stopped I shrugged it off because it could be result of extensive studying. Now I just found out now that my mom has leukemia. She is a 5 year breast cancer survivor and we discovered it after my mom started having weak legs and swollen mouth and bleeding nose. I hope to God that Im just schizophrenic I dont want any on my family to die. Is it all just my imagination? I heard that banshee only visits certain family but my mom is 1/4 spanish plz help.

2007-05-05 15:30:54 · 8 answers · asked by o_olikeomg 1

If your mother showed up at your baby shower in front of family and friends drunk, after you asked her to not come if she was going to be drinking? I'm really sick of it. At all functions she is drunk and beligerent and when I talk to her about it she just brushes it off like she is right and Im wrong for saying something about it. What would you do?

2007-05-05 14:00:03 · 14 answers · asked by hunney_21 1

I need some one to talk to, it is a very long story… and I do not know what to do any more. I am about to run away or something. Can some one please help?

2007-05-05 13:27:10 · 12 answers · asked by someone 2

2007-05-05 13:02:02 · 5 answers · asked by bobo 2

In february before my anniversary... I got raped. The man who raped me told me not to tell anyone or he would kill my parents, friend, murder my husband and make me clean it up.
I think he's watching me. My husband is an F.B.I agent. Should I tell him?

2007-05-05 12:56:56 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

Most of the times my mom is tolerable and I dont argue with her
But sometimes (probably like a week or less in a month) she gets all moody and emotional
Wtf is this pms or something??
How do I deal with this cuz when i argue with her she holds it against me for like an entire month and I dont want us to argue wat to do?><

2007-05-05 12:33:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

First of all,English is not my native language,so I can make some mistakes...=)
My parents are so strict and overprotective!They won't let me wear miniskirts,curl my hair,wear makeups,buy purses(they thinkpurses are useless),have a boyfriend, paint my nails,hang out with my friends at weekends,listen to music,and go shopping without them..And also,they are so religious!I think it's ok to be religious,but the problem is they say bad things about other religions.We live in the U.S and I think they should respect others' religion like many Americans do.They say bad things about Muslims, Buddhists, Catholics...And that makes me feel bad because I have many friends who's Muslim,Catholic,and Buddhist.When I tell them how I feel about their strict rules,they just criticize me,saying that children should do whatever their parents tell them becau-se the bible said so.Now I don't say anything about how I feel to avoid myself getting in trouble.Can you help me?=)
P.S I'm a teen... :-)

2007-05-05 12:27:31 · 8 answers · asked by Karlis:) 1

well my dad has just got mairred and i do not want to move somewhere eles and like i go out side to cry and all a fiew weeks later my hair gradully fell out because of depresson i got my friends to take me to the hospital cause i did not want my dad to know all these thing so how do i tell him i do not want to move to ny

2007-05-05 12:14:37 · 2 answers · asked by Jody S 1

Im pretty good at soccer but the soccer club im lookin at has these rele good kids i know them and they are rele good.

i want to join there team but i dont know how to go about asking.

2007-05-05 12:10:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, I hate my parents, they always ignore me, everything i do is wrong, i get yelled at for stuff they do to each other, ect.. They call me a mean little b****. I dont know what to do. I have someone that i go to for comfort nad advice, it helps but only for a short amount of time. What should i do?? need help

2007-05-05 11:54:44 · 4 answers · asked by Me 3

2007-05-05 11:54:29 · 5 answers · asked by CowleyASH 1

What is the most creative, or unique thing you ever gave your Mom for Mother's Day?

Moms, what gift would you love to recieve this Mother's Day?

2007-05-05 11:40:29 · 18 answers · asked by jam961 5

I have 4 kid's ages 4-7 yrs and some of the things they do, like not listening or being afraid to tell the truth.I am understanding why because i just look in there eyes i see me, i think we all should tap into are memories and try to understand are kid's and teenagers a little better

2007-05-05 11:26:55 · 4 answers · asked by coolchick 1

WHAT SHOULD I DO??

2007-05-05 09:57:23 · 15 answers · asked by Morgan M 1

I could really use an outsiders perspective...
I'm having a dilemma with my real father, so if you are interested, read on, and bear with me while I give some back story.

My mom got prego with me at 18. She and my dad had been together for 4 years and were planning a wedding. Before I was even born, he left her and married the woman he had been cheating on my mom with in the navy.

Well, to make a long story short, my mom spent years trying to
convince him to at least see me, or at the very least pay child
support, but he acted like we didnt exist. He was happy with his wife who didnt want to have children.

When I turned 18, he called me out of the blue. Weird, since I had never spoken to the man in my entire life. So, we decided to try and be friends. Then I had my daughter at 19. It should have been the perfect 2nd chance for him. Since he had missed out on me, at least he could be there for my daughter. Well, every time I talked to him on the phone or something, he acted

2007-05-05 09:45:11 · 9 answers · asked by Bomb_chele 5

my friends have boyfriends but my mom doesnt like that my friends are kind of trouble makers how can i say to her im growing up & im not a little baby ??

2007-05-05 09:43:08 · 25 answers · asked by crazigurlhott 1

My mom and I are really close. I don't like her current boyfriend and neither does she most of the time. We finally moved out but she still see's him sometimes and continues to get hurt. I think she deserves better but she wants to give up on guys completly. How do I help her?

2007-05-05 09:40:11 · 14 answers · asked by annie 2

that you don't want to hear her bad-mouth people? My mother talks bad about everybody... other family members, friends, even people she hardly knows or hasn't seen for decades. It drives me crazy. She never has anything good to say, and I get so sick of hearing it. Even though I am an adult, I still have to respect my mother and not be rude to her by saying what's on my mind. Short of not calling her anymore, I don't know what to do. It stresses me out so badly every time I talk to her... I just don't want to hear it anymore. She's easily offended and easily hurt. Any suggestions?

2007-05-05 09:35:57 · 10 answers · asked by Bluebellringy 3

What should I do?
He thinks I'm an easy slapper but I'm basically frigid
What should I do?
Help needed please
I really love him
Thanks x
Points coming your way for good answer...

2007-05-05 09:32:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband gradually became a bad alcholic over the years. We've been separated 6 months & he asks to come home. I asked him to leave if he wouldn't give up drinking & he chose to leave.
Here is my question: We have a 3 1/2 yr old son who adores his daddy. My husband is very good with him, BUT can't be trusted to not drink while caring for him. I have to supervise when hubby interacts with our son.
Part of me wants to let him come home & be in my son's life, but I think this could be bad for my son. I don't want him growing up in an alcoholic home. My husband's mother was a disgusting drunk & he really resents that his father never kicked her out!
If you have an alcoholic parent, are you glad this parent lived with you (or didn't live with you) & which would have been best for you in the long run? I want to know how my son might feel about my decision to refuse to let my husband come home.
Hubby is verbally abusive to me, but not physically abusive. He's NEVER mean to our son.

2007-05-05 09:17:11 · 8 answers · asked by ret340 2

children???WHY?

2007-05-05 09:14:30 · 4 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

Would you let a 14 year old girl that you dont know who has her own baby sitting job at her house baby sit your child?

2007-05-05 08:59:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

When i'm trying to be a good stepmother it seems i just don't fit in with the family in general. such as, when we were at the store the other day, my stepchild called my niece the N word in the checkout. i turned around a popped her for it and told her not to EVER say that again. i also popped my niece(black) for picking on her. The family behind me was white and they looked at me in horror and shock! i just don't understand why.

or like last week when we were at my husbands(white) mothers house for a get together. you would'nt believe how many people stard ar me when she called me ''mom''. Her real mother is strung out so i guess she calls me mom which i have no problem with. but his mom suddenly snatches her to the side and pops her on the hand and tells her''shes not your mom!'' I really wanted to say something but i did'nt know how far i should go as a stepmother seeing as though she was HER blood grandmother.
i'm new at this whole stepmother thing and young. (22) i want to Be as good as a stepmother as I could be but some people in his family (not all, unless you include society Makes me feel so out of place and like I have no authority over his little girl.

2007-05-05 08:55:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My own parents, grandparents to my 3 kids, live just a few minutes from us. Most people assume that since they live so close, my kids are close to them too, but this is not the case. It's quite the opposite, in fact. We might only see them once a month if that, and they don't call.

Growing up, my own grandparents lived very far away, and I only held an imagined ideal of who they were. I tended to put them on pedestals only to later have these images shattered when I learned who they were and what they were really like. I want to spare my kids the same heartbreak.

Is there a way to tell my parents that they need to be involved in their grandkids' lives? My son plays soccer and he'd be so happy just to have them there to watch. But they don't want to come because my mother says it is boring and they don't want to be outdoors. Also, getting a chance to leave the kids with them and have dinner with hubby would be nice.

In contrast, my in laws live in England and WISH they could see them

2007-05-05 08:39:12 · 7 answers · asked by mamaof3inVA 4

2007-05-05 08:25:11 · 19 answers · asked by Sahra 4

I lost my husband 4 years ago from glioblastoma, an aggressive type of cancer, primary on the spine which made him paraplegic. I looked after him for nearly 18months, nursing him and fought for all the support i can get including the health service and family support. I still miss him. Been to counselling and scathered his ashes three years ago where he wanted.
I don't see myself depress but just missing the presence of the person i loved and will always love.

2007-05-05 08:11:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom and i got in a fight. she got on my last nerve and and said "Fuc* you!"

so should i either kill myself just to show her what damage she did to me and she will regret what she did or should i just run away for a few days?

NOTE: TRUST ME IM NOT BEING TOO DRAMATIC ON THIS ONE BECAUSE SHE HAS DONE LAST MORE.

2007-05-05 08:07:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 3 monthes pregnant. Before I became pregnant I had a small jelaousy problem now it's out of control. I cry when he says that his daughter is coming to spend the weekend with us even. It may be due to the fact that she DOES NOT LISTEN. To anyone icluding her father. We tell her no and she says we arn't her boss. A 7 year old should know better right? Am I just going through pregnant mood swings or is there something wrong with being jealous of a child?

2007-05-05 07:39:18 · 10 answers · asked by Gabby 2

my parents or one of them is handicapped,we have three phones,whenrver it rings they automatically think that I am right on top of the phone so I should be the one to answer it. my mother is handicapped and uses a wheelchair and my dad is recuperating from a fall in which he had blood drained from his brain ,now my dad who is a heathy athletically built 93 year old who is more agile than I am.In your opinion,who should answer the phone?

2007-05-05 07:09:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous