In february before my anniversary... I got raped. The man who raped me told me not to tell anyone or he would kill my parents, friend, murder my husband and make me clean it up.
I think he's watching me. My husband is an F.B.I agent. Should I tell him?
2007-05-05 12:56:56 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes! I am so sorry that happened to you. Have you been dealing with it without the support of your family. Let your husband know. You have a duty to report him so he cannot do it to anyone else. Let your man be there for you. Again I am sorry. Please lock that man up. Rape is a terrible and brutal and sick thing. Don't let another woman face what you had to by this man. Take care of yourself baby.
2007-05-05 13:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by atlantaboi3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him because since he is an F.B.I agent he could probably get someone to watch over you and your family while he tries to find out to who raped you. You should also tell him anything you know about the person who raped you like what he looks like or anything else that can help him search for the person who did that to you.
2007-05-05 13:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by lil'Lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell him and you should have reported the rape. This man is out free on the streets and could do this to you or another girl again. Your husband has the power to catch him and a team of great crime preventers who will absolutely catch this guy. This man is not going to kill your family. This man is a coward and only wants to make you feel scared. Tell your husband so they catch him, press charges and ruin his life for the horrible thing he did.
2007-05-05 13:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by jpursell84 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should! This guy is trying to use your fear to protect himself.
If the guy really is still watching you who's to say he won't do it again or to someone else?
If your husband is an F.B.I agent then he will know what to do.
2007-05-05 13:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by flygrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now what are you asking us this question for,if your husband is really an F.B.I. Agent.Let him handle the dirt bag,or inform one of his supervising officers.And let them handle it.Like that's a no brain-er.I mean hello you should have already told him,because now it is going to be harder to catch the guy.You have already let him get away with it for the last three months,and he has probably victimized more women in that time.The only way that they are going to catch this guy is to be informed that he is out there.
2007-05-05 14:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by LaRie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of all criminals are cowards. They usually pick on the weak or helpless. They will avoid anybody they think is formidable. Think about the guy lately who knocked a lady 104 years old down. If one is known to carry a gun they will back off for example. I wouldn't take the threat to seriously. If your husband is FBI, he will know what to do. Trust him.
2007-05-06 10:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by Dutch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you enjoyed the rape, dont. women enjoy being raped but report it due to shame. Size up the man if he's able to privilege enough to put your family to their knees. If same level, better tell your husband since he's an FBI and knowledgeable on how to frighten him otherwise he will continue to harass you.
2007-05-05 13:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by wilma m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the story seems to be very unlikely...but if true the answer is to run and tell your husband. If you believe that he is dangerous and possibly still around and watching you, then the safest thing to do for everyone is tell as he will hurt you again.
2007-05-05 13:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by cuteGIRL01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes you should. Before he does it to somebody else. Every rapist will threaten because that gives them power over you. He won't kill anyone, he'll go to jail and get what's coming to him.
Tell someone now, tell your husband, tell the police, don't become a statistic.
2007-05-05 13:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by Mina 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes definitly becuz the FBI can get u , your parents, ur friends protection and they will help catch that guy especially if your husband is a FBI agent so do it. that rapiest is probably bluffing trying to scare u thats it
2007-05-05 13:02:51 · answer #10 · answered by asian senorial 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋