Family - May 2007

My grandfather is always trying to tell me i am his favourite,saying not to ever talk to my sisters,and saying they said this/that,and not to talk or bother giving presents to my grandmother(his wife)constantly,but just ignore the comments.lately he has started doing the same to my sister,and that she is now better than me,and says that i should be like her,and is constantly degrading me and constantly putting me down and saying i dont know anything and i should be like mysister.why is he constantly trying to cause trouble between family?

2007-05-02 16:48:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

He owes for a college he never went to. Broke his hand about 3x and bill collectores still call. I forwarded his address since he is now living with a girl that the mother pays for their expenses. His name has been in the paper lately for beating someone up and hers for robbing someone. How do I let go! I'm worried to death about him. He doesn't need this girl that is just llike him with no ambition. He is an addict. Maybe he isnt doing the hard stufff but he is reallly bad on booze and marjuana too. Haven't really talked to him for 4 months and miss the old him help me.

2007-05-02 15:29:44 · 14 answers · asked by Debbie A 2

My mom is crazy. I'm in high school, so I have a co-op, am an NHS member, and a MAC qualified varsity swimmer. I get 2 hours of sleep at with practice, work, and homework,and housework. She had the audacity to say that I'm the financial burden of the family. My mom has it sooo easy. She's a "stay at home" mom. I think it's rediculous that she doesn't cook or clean and isn't even nice to me. I'm so overworked and she hasn't worked in 25 years (as a secretary). I just don't know how to tell her that i'm overworked and i think she needs a job, any advice would be appreciated?????>>

2007-05-02 14:22:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i would like to know how i could move out of the state with only my mothers consent. my parents have joint custody but my mother has sole physical custody. does this mean i need my fathers permission. if so...how can i get around that without legally having to be emancipated. i don't want to tear my family apart by that i would just like to move without having to deal with court visits. is there any way i can do this without having to go to court?

2007-05-02 14:04:38 · 5 answers · asked by Allie M 1

2007-05-02 14:00:46 · 15 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1

Ok so I am getting inducted into Alpha Lamda delta this sunday and my mom is coming down to see me. My mom is recently separated from her husband and has been vulnerable lately! Anyhow I have an apartment with my boyfriend, whose family also is plan on coming down this weekend. They always seem to be competing for our attention and I think that my mom is a little upset that they are also coming down this weekend, since it is moms weekend and the induction ceremony at my college! My boyfriends family will probably stay at a hotel and my mom will probably stay here! My mom plans leaving my sister (13 yrs) at home because she said she needed a break from my sister (she can be a handful sometimes)! Anyway my sister and my boyfriends sister are friends and my sister is upset that my mom wont let her come! AH what do I do so my weekend isnt horrible!!!!

2007-05-02 14:00:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was asked to attend a birthday party, and bring a gift, for my mother's second husband's first wife's boyfriend. Another time I was asked to have dinner with my father's second and third wives' children from their previous marriages, so they could complain about my father after their mothers' left him. Has anyone else had family that would not go away? My family wants me to accept their cast offs, and I just want to get on with my life. Anyone else?

2007-05-02 13:28:20 · 4 answers · asked by kitzyababa 3

My Kids live with my ex Mother inlaw,there Step Grandpaw in Tn., i live in Arkansas

2007-05-02 13:15:06 · 3 answers · asked by rosesflowersskyblue 1

2007-05-02 13:00:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-02 12:15:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok back when i was in 5th grade i had a step bro name jason and he found out there are needles to control ppl wel he used them on me for 4yrs, i miscarriaged alot i only got every other week off he would hit me everyday and shot me if i wouldnt listen, i was basically his sex slave he give me needles to keep me horny so he could keep on rapeing me badly

2007-05-02 11:42:38 · 13 answers · asked by Jessica W 1

He is 34 yrs old and is very depressed.

2007-05-02 11:28:42 · 7 answers · asked by MoonDoggie 5

My mom was watching my kids and she thought I got some new kind of cookie sheet that looks like plastic :oP. Well it was my plastic cutting board and it melted all over the oven. I have a cleaning person coming on Friday and she said that she will do her best. I REally REally do not want to have to get a new oven, the one we have is only 6 months old! The more I am checking into it though it looks like we will have to do that.
My bigger problem is should I make my mom pay for this? My husband definately thinks so and I do too, but they dont have much money. Not that we do either. We could not afford to buy a new oven. What do you think? Is it wrong to make them pay? I just dont know what else to do.

2007-05-02 11:17:05 · 6 answers · asked by Ami B 2

read my other stories for background. i listened to you and stood up for myself. so they made a website gave the pictures to my friend. my mom is about to leave for two weeks and they said they want a sister know and made me kisss a picture of justin timberlink fifty times they pushed a golfball up my but and i'm still in a dress now everyone calls me tiffany

2007-05-02 08:49:57 · 3 answers · asked by cubegod666 1

do you think it strange that seven teenage boys
are out side my home and one of them knocks my door asking what time is it i am an old woman living alone thank you

2007-05-02 08:23:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, My husband lost his job and now going through a depression and soo hes been acting kinda stupid. I got a call a week ago from my father in law saying that my husband been arrested for a warrent, I was soo worried calling the jail and seeing whats going on and just in a mess plus pregenant on our third kid. Anyways my father in law said that hes not comming out til monday. But I found out he got out that night my father in law was still assisting that hes still in jail and this whole time I found out that my husband was at my father in laws. I got so hurt and angry I told him off I feel it was right for me to tell him off he know i was worried thinking my man is out in the streets waiting for me to pick him up I was looking for him all day and to find out my husband was there this whole time.. How would you reacted?? I know you are going to blame my husband and yes he should have called in the first place but this is about my father in law He should have told me where he was.......

2007-05-02 08:08:53 · 18 answers · asked by flaca 2

Do you feel your parents let you down in any aspect and how has this affected you in adulthood? Or if not your parents, did anything else from your childhood hugely affect you as an adult? Have you gotten over this and how?

2007-05-02 08:08:18 · 13 answers · asked by sassymoomin 4

i really need help my sisters have real blackmail on me if you read my other qustions and today i was going to tell but they grabed me first and put in a gerta, bra, panties a pink mini skirt and a tangtop. then they did my makeup and hair. they tied me to the bed face down and said if i ever tell they will chop of my you know what and i will really be a girl. then they made me say my name is tifffany and want to be a girl. then they said alright and they won't stop calling me tiffany and won't let me get undressed what should i do

2007-05-02 08:06:08 · 3 answers · asked by cubegod666 1

my bf asked me over his house. we'd be alone for less than an hr. my mom said no. im not planning on doin anything with him. we have been together 7 mos and he knows im a virgin til marriage. i know she is just protecting me, but can i make her trust me a bit more?

2007-05-02 07:47:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

A couple of weeks ago my mother in law said to my stepkids that my husband needs to watch my spending and should put a stop to it and they told me. I was mad and I told her not to come back to my house. 3 years ago when I met my hubby she accused me of stealing money off my hubbys sister and his sister found it and she apligized. My hubby has 1 son and 2 stepdaughters from a previous marriage and when we talked about having a baby she said it would be best if my husband dosent have any more kids. she said she dosent want to be a grandma again. I have a 2 month old. She apoligized for saying the money issues. She said the kids were lying. There 15, 12 & 8 and they all made up the same story. I forgot it and 2 days later I was talking about going back to school in front of his family and she said You'll never do it. Its been a while since you finished high school. My husband yelled at her and she said we'll 12 months is a long time What is she gonna do take care of the baby and stay up

2007-05-02 07:45:06 · 9 answers · asked by Mom to Isobelle 2, & Gavyn 8mths 5

Here's my life story, I want to hear some of ya'lls.

It all started when I was about 5 or so, my parents began selling drugs and our neighbors reported them and we werer kicked out of our house. From there we moved to NJ where my parents went nuts and split and my mom took my sister and I and put us on a train and ran to NC and told daddy he wasnt' allowed to come with us. After that we moved from town to town school to school trying to settle, when we finally did she met our neighbor-John, he was bad, He got her heavily into the drugs and conned my mom into keeping my sis and I from our dady-we werent allowed to see him anymore (I was 8), John started drinking and stole my moms money causing us to move again (schools too) and mom for some reason decided to let him live with us. Things got worse, SS tried to take us away, John tried to kill mom-if it werent for sis and I she'd be dead-we caught him trying to strangle her over the kit sink. And there is more-much more.out of letter

2007-05-02 07:41:04 · 5 answers · asked by MiSs Staci 4

2007-05-02 07:36:04 · 11 answers · asked by Curiosity 2

My 16yr old son lives somewhere else with his father the father let him quit school what can I do about him letting our son quit school.

2007-05-02 07:09:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok my daughter use to love my new husband, but latley she just don't like him and she wants me to leave him. He use to to so great to me and to her - BUT
Once he called the cops and had me arrested on assualt (no charges were ever filed)
She has seen him throw a 27 inch tv at me, throw the house phone at me, they both missed - they both are now broke.
She has seen countless bruises on me and she just knows they are from him. He told her that I was a slut and a whore
It has only been these last few weeks that he has been this way- a mix of persciption drugs and alcohol
I would love to stay with my hubby - but my daughter and him just dont get along, what can I do?
He really don't understand why she don't like him, I myself don't blame her - how do I explain this to him?

2007-05-02 06:57:11 · 23 answers · asked by Rosie 4

My friends mother is an alcoholic. I'm a little irate because the family doesn't do anything about it. They'll yell at her when she's intoxicated but the next day everything will be fine. She's rude to me and my friend doesn't even trust his own mother anymore because of all the lies. I know there's not much I can do but does anyone have any advice for me??

2007-05-02 06:53:31 · 7 answers · asked by xoxo 2

my fiance and i are very fed up of his family interfering in our relationship they make our lives a misery me and my fiance get along great but i am 13 years older than him and he is a bit disabled his family treat him like a disabled 5 year old even though he is 28, we want to move away from them all and live our own lives and be happy, but we dont know how to tell them this, any ideas. please no silly answers.

2007-05-02 06:34:18 · 5 answers · asked by judrop111 2

My step-mom today called me at school and said that she couldnt bring me food for my game but to tell my dad she did so she could keep the money. I told her that i wasnt going to do that and sheh got mad so we started fighting and she told me that It wa sprobally my fault that my mom died because i am such a little brat. The dean of students at my highschool saw me crying afterwards and asked me what was wrong i told him that i didnt want to talk about it should i have told him what went on and also why would my step-mom say it was my fault that my mom died?

2007-05-02 06:32:37 · 26 answers · asked by vermontangel90 1

My sister and I used 2 be always close, but now thats changed. she's a senior in high school and shes moving out soon. She wont talk to me and is always ignoring me. I have tried to spend special time hanging out with her, and get her a nice gift or something she wanted but nothing works!! I have also just left her alone instead incase i happen to be annoying her! when she moves out i am afraid i will have nothing to do with her anymore. I jus want to be close to her and be able to share secrets with her like we used to. What should I do?

2007-05-02 06:28:16 · 5 answers · asked by pink_dancer912 3

2007-05-02 06:25:34 · 3 answers · asked by Rucg 1

I am from Egypt. I work in Kuwait. I am married with 1 child. My brothers, sisters and parents keep on asking me for money when I phone home. I have a wife and a child to care for. I think that they think the money grows on trees in Kuwait. Help! How do I stop this?

2007-05-02 06:20:18 · 8 answers · asked by Mohammed S 1