Ok so I am getting inducted into Alpha Lamda delta this sunday and my mom is coming down to see me. My mom is recently separated from her husband and has been vulnerable lately! Anyhow I have an apartment with my boyfriend, whose family also is plan on coming down this weekend. They always seem to be competing for our attention and I think that my mom is a little upset that they are also coming down this weekend, since it is moms weekend and the induction ceremony at my college! My boyfriends family will probably stay at a hotel and my mom will probably stay here! My mom plans leaving my sister (13 yrs) at home because she said she needed a break from my sister (she can be a handful sometimes)! Anyway my sister and my boyfriends sister are friends and my sister is upset that my mom wont let her come! AH what do I do so my weekend isnt horrible!!!!
2007-05-02 14:00:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Wow-that's tough!!
OK, so I think you should see if you can convince your mom to take your sister with her. Tell your mom that you'd really love to see your sister and wouldn't want her to be left out-especially because of mother's day and since your mom is her mom too and she needs to be with her mother too. Don't mention the boyfriend's sister though. Get your sister on the phone and tell her that she needs to behave and not give your mother a hard time if she really wants to come down and not be left alone at home.
Try and enjoy your time. Don't let your mom get mad. If she is about to do something that will cause drama between both families (yours and your boyfriend's), remind her that she is here because of you're getting inducted into Alpha Lamda delta and not to get into anything that could ruin the weekend.
'Hope I helped!
2007-05-02 14:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and realize that you have a wonderful boyfriend. Just focus on the positives in your life right now. Good Luck.
2007-05-02 21:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW IT IS HARD, BUT U NEED TO GIVE UR MOM
SOME TIME FOR HERSELF. SOMETIMES US
MOTHERS NEED A LITTLE TIME AWAY FROM EVERY
THING. LET HER DO HER THING AND UNWIND.
DON'T LEAD HER TO A NERVOUS BREAK DOWN.
JUST LET THE BOTH OF YOU ENJOY THE UP-
COMING EVENT...................
2007-05-02 21:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy it!! You can care but you can't be consumed!!! Whatever happens just let it happen!!!!
2007-05-02 22:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by Alisha C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋