Family - May 2007

has married my step doughter and did not invite me or her father.to the wedding. to give a brief history my bother has had a drink problem for many years. he had already had a bad relationship which ended badly. my husbund and i gave support to his doughter but told her to tread carefully with the relationship. this was taken the wrong way. my brother told me he doesnt want too see me again and my step doughter said she wants to see her father without me.to top it up is other doughter hasnt seen her dad for over two years. she told him she didnt like me becouse she belived i should of worked and payed my husbunds debts. i tried telling her that i would have worked for another company however my husbund said it made more sence i worked in our own company together that would save hiring someonelse , she also accused me of treating her mum badly over money. my husbund paid her as much as he could his sons would rather see him on his own. my brother said i am evil and his kids dont like me

2007-05-05 05:32:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-04 19:16:38 · 13 answers · asked by snowriver 7

My husband and I have a very dear long term friend that has had 3 kids to a woman we really hate. Over the space of years she has constantly tried to stop us being friends and spending time with him. But more importantly, she's a terrible mother. When they were together, she never had food in her cupboards, always went to the pub and didn't supervise her kids properly. She's also deeply into heavy drugs. They broke up about a year ago, and she moved in with drug dealers. The house was recently raided and she went to court and was told by child services that she either attend rehab or lose her kids. Rather than doing the right thing, she has skipped states with the kids (our friend knows where she is, as do we) to avoid child services.

Do I dob her in? What would you do??

2007-05-04 18:42:37 · 13 answers · asked by kmlloveplant 2

my brother is graduating from high school. not sure what to get him. he's not to big on cufflings, special pens, or watches. looking to spend up to $150 (a little hire is ok) any ideas?

2007-05-04 18:29:13 · 5 answers · asked by laffy_taffy 2

this certain person has been living in my house going on 3 yrs and has not paid any bills since they have been there but they thinks that they can tell me about my own house me and my husband pay all the bills in the house but they wants to sit around and do nothing all day long and on top of that they have 2 kids that are living with us and they dont want to clean up behind themselves or their kids. But they are my best friend but im getting tired of having to come home from school and work and have to cook and clean and everything else. i really dont want to put them out due to the fact the kids are my niece and nephew but im tired sick and tired.

2007-05-04 18:11:55 · 23 answers · asked by mz.koffee 1

I have had problems with my MIL in the past interferring into my business, but now I feel I need to interject my opinion in something that she is doing. My MIL's mother was hospitalized with kidney failure and heart congestion about a month ago. She is doing a lot better thanks be to God. The problem is my MIL is 62 years old and likes to party. Tonight she called my husband up to watch his grandmother so she can get out and go partying. My husband is disabled and if anything were to happen to his grandmother (i.e. her falling out of bed, she need to go to the bathroom) he would not be able to help her or even lift her. My husband will not be able to call me if anything happed. We have a long distant number. I went to check up on them and his granny was very upset that her daughter had left her knowing that my husband was disabled and unable to really tend to her. She doesn't want me at the house we don't get along. What can we do to set my MIL straight about responsibilities

2007-05-04 18:09:29 · 10 answers · asked by Gypsy 2

I have had problems with my MIL in the past interferring into my business, but now I feel I need to interject my opinion in something that she is doing. My MIL's mother was hospitalized with kidney failure and heart congestion about a month ago. She is doing a lot better thanks be to God. The problem is my MIL is 62 years old and likes to party. Tonight she called my husband up to watch his grandmother so she can get out and go partying. My husband is disabled and if anything were to happen to his grandmother (i.e. her falling out of bed, she need to go to the bathroom) he would not be able to help her or even lift her. My husband will not be able to call me if anything happed. We have a long distant number. I went to check up on them and his granny was very upset that her daughter had left her knowing that my husband was disabled and unable to really tend to her. She doesn't want me at the house we don't get along. What can we do to set my MIL straight about responsibilities

2007-05-04 18:08:38 · 5 answers · asked by Gypsy 2

My mother in law passed away in January, when that happened my husband and I inherited his sister. She is mentally retarded and schitzophrenic, with paranoid delusions. I am really afraid that she is going to destroy my marriage. We have only been married for 2 1/2 years. I love him very much, but since he works 12 hours a day on midnights, and sleeps all day, he really doesn't have any idea how much work she is. She obsessess about everything, this week she is convinced she has a urinary tract infection, the doctor couldn't find anything wrong with her. Yet I have to hear about it every 10 minutes. She is 47 years old, but she acts like she is 12. My husband thinks I need to get a job, but he wouldn't get any sleep if I did. She wakes me up 4-5 times every night obsessing about some physical ailment that is not there.

Worse yet, mom never had her declared as a dependant adult, so we get no financial or medical help for her. We are now drowning in debt from her bills.

2007-05-04 17:54:22 · 5 answers · asked by Jinny E 5

2007-05-04 17:44:40 · 2 answers · asked by Soft Heart 6

2007-05-04 17:08:02 · 4 answers · asked by Wendy G 1

I have snuck out and gone before without them knowing but I would have more fun if I wasn't worried about getting caught.

2007-05-04 16:45:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm an 18 year old boy. I'm a senior in high school. I'd like to think I'm a good kid. I get good grades and I'm getting a scholarship for college.

My younger sister is 16. She just got a brand new convertible - her "dream car." I've been driving around a 20 year old piece of junk for 2 years. And my parents say I won't be getting another car anytime soon.

Comments? Advice? Anything to make me feel good?

2007-05-04 16:15:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom died when I was 18, my sister was 15 and my brother was 7.I decided that we shouldn't be seperated so I looked after my sister and brother.Well now my sister has two daughters and I have four children of my own, and my sister is now in jail and I took her girls. She makes me mad because all she do is write and call asking me about money.I send it to her but only when I got it. Not to mention I just paid a debt that she put me in because I didn't want her to get in trouble more than what she is and I know she miss and loves her kids. All she do is complain and get mad at me.Then my brother makes me mad because of the fact he will be 18 very soon and all he do is lay around the house and not help clean up, he gets mad when I get mad at him for being lazy, and he eats more than anyone in the house.I told him he has 90 days after his 18th b-day to get things in order or he has to find some place to live. I love them but I am tired for being the blame of their problems. Am I'm wrong?

2007-05-04 16:10:28 · 17 answers · asked by mrztreed1 2

2007-05-04 15:35:27 · 2 answers · asked by Camille A 1

conversations with my mom always turn to her, no matter how serious my issue is. she'll just say, "um hmm" when i say something and it ends up focused on her. it's as if she's spent her adult life taking care of me and my brother and now it's all about her no matter what. it is so annoying and i want to say something so bad, but she'll take it the wrong way. i love and appreciate her. and she does things a mom should do, but i just cannot shake this irritating feeling.

2007-05-04 15:32:31 · 5 answers · asked by KTL1315 2

My older brother runs off all the guys that i date and he treatens to beat up the guys that i have a crush on. why is that does he not want me to be happy or what.

2007-05-04 15:10:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

read past questions first today was body training. first i was woken up and taped to the wall. and a had another courset but this timie they pulled for three hours and made me answer qirl questions then they took me to the gym and put me in a girls fitness center for the rest of the day and now i am on a diet and i have a new nicnam tiff. i really nedd help what should i do

2007-05-04 14:49:08 · 8 answers · asked by cubegod666 1

Does any one have any ideal what i can get her???HELP???

2007-05-04 13:31:16 · 19 answers · asked by Karly 1

2007-05-04 12:31:15 · 2 answers · asked by sam g 1

ugh. they found a picture once and he was wearing black and they didnt approve. i thought it was totally wrong!! i tried to tell them he really was a nice guy but... they refuse to listen. i still like him but i keep it a secret.. is that okay? by the way i am 13

2007-05-04 12:22:51 · 4 answers · asked by so long and goodnight 3

I know the skater look is in - my son has been growing his hair out and its driving me crazy - he's so good looking and now it's getting to the point where you can hardly see his face. I know he loves it and I don't have the heart to just chop it off myself. . Any suggestions on getting him to cut it or should I just let him ride out this phase? He's 12.

2007-05-04 12:02:20 · 8 answers · asked by jessie 5

2007-05-04 11:54:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been divorced a year and a half, I am remarried and my mother and sister don't want anything to do with me or my new hubby. Plus his ex is driving me crazy!
Example - We went to the midnight showing of Spiderman last night - who do we run into, my sister, her husband with my ex husband, not only does it hurt me but it really hurts my new hubby because it just lets him know that they don't like him.
His ex has commented fraud and continues to open accounts in her old last name and my husbands name and he will do nothing about it.
I live in Washington state and I just want to move far away from everyone to just get on with my life and move on! I know that I will miss my father, I have grown really close to him, he accept's me for how I am and we do things together at least once a week.
Should I just say f them all and move? I have the rain here anyways! my kids are 18 and 19 my daughter is on her own, my son lives with his father

2007-05-04 11:50:59 · 3 answers · asked by Rosie 4

Me and my daughters father had a personal(it was only between us) agreement of amount he would pay me in form of money order every week.The only type of document I have is a notarized letter--signed by him-- which stated that he no longer lived with me and was providing $$ amt. as child support for our daughter. I needed this letter for an apartment which we had both applied for, but since our living situation changed, I needed this as proof to break original application. I have not received money from him in 6 weeks. I already have a court date for Child Support Enforcement but by then it will already be 8 weeks since he has given me money. I want to know if there is a way to get the money from the past 8 weeks.
Kind Regards

2007-05-04 10:43:38 · 7 answers · asked by maruka033 1

hes a perfecist and gets mad at me because i'm not and hes changing my mom in to one to I can't stand him,
and his son thinks he perfect cause he gets what ever he wants when he wants it and cause he goes to a privet school
he thinks he so perfect and he talk more then anyone should be able to talk in a hour or anytime I can't stand them please help me what should I do

2007-05-04 10:16:01 · 10 answers · asked by hobojoe309 2

My daughter is always getting embarassed now and she tries to tell me what to do now?!

2007-05-04 10:03:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-04 10:03:11 · 34 answers · asked by Heather Girl 1

2007-05-04 08:36:56 · 13 answers · asked by Love 1

I am a little heavier then your normal 17 year old about 200 pounds. my mother thinks its aweful and really wants me to lose wieght so whenever we go swimming or anything i always have to wear a girls 1 piece bathing suit. She says it makes me look less fat and better. I think it sucks and is soooo embarrising. heres a picure of the type of bathing suit i have to wear. This isnt the one i wear just the same type.
http://f5c.yahoofs.com/shopping/mcid7_26977/simg_t_t600332jpg110?rm_____D_zY6FEIC

Does this really make you looks skinnier?

2007-05-04 08:08:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was at work and had to go home so that she could go and see her dad at the hospital, and when she called; it sounded as if he was about to die.
I just told her that now im gonna miss out on my bonus and she got mad.
Should I just drop it and not bring it back up?
It was my first chance at this bonus and I missed it by 3%.
I know that family comes first.
I guess I was just an expensive baby sitter, even though its my own baby.

I just want to know what some of you would have done?

2007-05-04 07:57:02 · 22 answers · asked by jetski 2