Okay, I hate my parents, they always ignore me, everything i do is wrong, i get yelled at for stuff they do to each other, ect.. They call me a mean little b****. I dont know what to do. I have someone that i go to for comfort nad advice, it helps but only for a short amount of time. What should i do?? need help
2007-05-05 11:54:44 · 4 answers · asked by Me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Would the person you go to for comfort and advice be willing to sit with you and your parents while you share what you've written? It sounds like they are letting their personal issues fall on you and they need the light bulb turned on that you are important and not part of their problems.
I hope that your actions are not making this more of an issue. Acting out as a way to get their attention is not the answer! Joining outside interests that are positive- sports, clubs, school programs- and give you a good feeling about yourself may help. Keep a journal. Write down the good and bad. Believe in yourself. You have a purpose in this life and may have to reach up and out of your family to get there!
2007-05-05 12:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't suppose your parents are the type that you could sit down with and have a little heart to heart talk is it? If they are, then you might want to try it out. However, if they are the type that listens to actions more than words you could always crash at someone else's place until they notice that you're missing or try to even look for you and until the time they are willing to listen to you. You're probably also having a hard time letting them know how you feel. So write a letter. Send it to them. See how they respond and then decide what to do next.
2007-05-05 19:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by jeny g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ummm stay someone house for as long as possible until they cool down becuz it sounds like the longer u stay the worser it gets. Dont worry worry my parents are mean too ....Just talk to them about how u feel or if that fails go to somebody house for safety reason cuz it sounds like they gonna take their anger out on u and it will get physical
2007-05-05 19:05:50 · answer #3 · answered by asian senorial 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them a taste of there own medicine. Tell them you dont want to put up with it and you can call Social Services and have there ***'s sent to jail. (empty threat) or you could just leave and go to a friends house for a while. Just tell them that if they hate you so much then they dont have to have you anymore. (another empty threat but it gets them thinking about it).
2007-05-05 19:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by Katarina P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋