Family - May 2007

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2007-05-15 04:42:10 · 10 answers · asked by enzyme 305 3

in not in a relatioship, it was just one night stand and apparently he pull-out it. we are just friends and slept with him bc he was going away. anyways hes in 1-2 weeks and dont wanna have the baby. we both agreed that we dont want a baby like this.. we're not couples and we all three would suffer. Im confused, i dont wanna be a single mom, but am already 28, financially stable but dont wanna be a single mom :( please any suggestions would be appreciated.

2007-05-15 04:02:08 · 43 answers · asked by Jessica 1

How many have the call to be missionaries who are on this website? I had thought of becoming a missionary (I am Pentecostal and my church has a strong missionary program), and have had some dealings with the VOM. However I feel God has called me to the military (and eventually) to become a Pastor.

2007-05-15 03:38:09 · 8 answers · asked by Knight-of-God 3

my dad does not communicate with me at all

2007-05-15 03:18:56 · 2 answers · asked by donna m 1

2007-05-15 01:49:24 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have 2 kids, a 10 year old and an 8 year old. I leave for work at 1:45 pm and my wife gets home from work at 2:00 pm. Do you think it is ok to leave them home alone for 15 minutes. My wife and I think they are mature enough and should be just fine. My mother thinks this is totally wrong. She thinks i should find a daycare for 15 minutes. What do you think?

2007-05-15 01:32:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

all my life untill 19yrs old I have had Autism, so i never express emotion, my mum hates me and wants me dead cause i dystroyed my parents marraige by being born, my dad is a drug dealer and cause i was born he got caught and sent to jail, and I have been in 38 foster homes, rejected by a total 39 familys and when i was 16 i got back in contact with my dad and after i lent him $3000AU and after i ran out of money i was useless to him and my life ended that day now every day the emotions of every bad thing thats happend to me creep up like a snake sqweezing me tighter and tighter my life feeling darker and lonlier and everday it feels more empty and dead. and being an ugly useless **** dos'nt help either

2007-05-15 01:27:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-15 01:14:33 · 12 answers · asked by rmu07 2

2007-05-15 01:05:55 · 6 answers · asked by alvin s 1

one year death of only son, our youngest daughter with whom we had been extremely close, whose child we grandparented for 7 years became paranoid, and crazy constantly lying and attacking her paren After asking us to volunteer at her childs school, she then got a restraining order ( in domestic violence court) to prevent us volunteering . In court she openly lied numerous times. she lied about her live in boyfriend, how and said we the grandparents were stalking her child, threatened to go to dss and on and on. our daughter stood up in court and said we killed her brother. He died in CA and we live in NC. We of course did not kill him, 12 weeks after death, no drugs/alcohol) died acute strychnine intoxication. Daughter lied that we would physically harm her child. Have not seen child 3 years. Too late to appeal the idiot judges ruling of guilty. 15 mos restrained.
Can we go after her for perjury as we can prove it through emails, etc judge did not allow emails in court

2007-05-15 00:57:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

She needs an outfit for a family wedding, but is so self-conscious she is now doing the 'Kevin the teenager' bit whenever I take her shopping to get something. The wedding is in a month and time is running out to find her anything to wear. Everything we look at is 'too tight' or 'too flowery' or 'gross'...................... etc etc......... HELP!!!!!!!!
How can I get it through to her that she is a beautiful young lady and will look knockout in anything !!

2007-05-15 00:39:55 · 23 answers · asked by Lily 4

My husband is facing some charges in court right n ow. If he is convicted he could be in prison for up to 5 years for something he didn't do. I asked him if he went to jail would he be listing the mother of his children on the visitors list and he said no, that I or his mother could bring the children to visit him. Of course his family who adores his ex strongly disagrees. What do you think?

2007-05-15 00:24:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

In the beginning of our relationship, before we were married, my husband cheated with his ex(mother of his other children), while I was pregnant with our son. It never happened again, but me and the ex already didn't get along. Of course I resent her and slowly I began to resent their two children because of it. Every time I look at them I think of my husband and their mother together. I know its wrong to feel this way. Especially after my son was born, I only want it to be us three. I havn't really told my husband this but I think her sensed it because he hardly see the children anymore.(2 and 4). I asked him how come and he told me he doesn't want to lose me. Do I just not say anything and let it be or do I be fake and tell him I want him to have his children around more?

2007-05-15 00:21:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My momis really pissed that im hanging out with them. I never get into any trouble when im with them though. My mom is just worried that im going to get into trouble, which I wont. I have gotten the threat of getting the boot out of the house if I dont stop hanging out with them. But I say its up to me who I want to hang around with. Also I dont fit into any other group of people. Ive tried, but I just dont seem to fit in exactly. Give me some advice?

2007-05-14 19:23:38 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-14 19:18:05 · 8 answers · asked by poopski 3

When I was little my dad asked who killed the peacock. I said it was my fault. It was Easter Sunday, so I thought it would be fun to color the eggs in the hen house. I colored them with band of bright green, orange, blue, the works. Well when the roster enter the hen house and saw the eggs, he flew right out and killed the peacock.

2007-05-14 18:55:09 · 6 answers · asked by Modern Man 4

I come from an adopted family. Basically since I was old enough to understand, my mother told me she adopted me. And I seemed to be at peace with that. Never questioned it. But along with me, she adopted many other kids. She only had one biological son, who's in his 30s now (I'm 20 years old).

Many people have asked me if I ever tried finding out who my true parents are. I've never tried in truth, because I always felt that if I did, I'd be stabbing my mother in the back or something. She cared enough for me to take me when my birth parents gave me up for whatever reasons. And she also took in all my siblings too. I have over 15 siblings, some not living at home anymore. She's one of those humanitarian types. I never wondered if they tried finding their roots, but their roots had found some of them. I'm still in the dark.

So I'm asking this: is it right for me to try and find my birthparents, or would I be betraying my mother (never had a father) like I think I would be?

2007-05-14 18:37:15 · 19 answers · asked by Niko? 5

and his birthday used to fall sometimes on father's day and we would celebrate it. I have a wonderful husband and a great father in-law who I think of as dad now. But I get so sad on father's day how can I explain it to them after 16 yrs I would think they would understand.Would it be wrong to celebrate my dad to?

2007-05-14 17:38:19 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Oh crap!!!!!!!! im so dumb dumb dumb dumb dumb dumb. i thought it was next sunday.
what's a killer idea for a 'sorry i forgot' gift

2007-05-14 17:26:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, here's the Deal: yesterday was my first mother's day. My man made me breakfast, then took a nap. We went to my grandmothers and he did some yard work, we came home he was supposed to make me dinner but went to bed at 6pm instead. Durring this he never even gave me a card. But he mad sure that we stoped a picked up head phones for his PS2 so he could play that. GRRRR------!

2007-05-14 17:10:53 · 14 answers · asked by Dazed and Confused 1

My biological mother is a compulsive lier and so is her husband. She abandoned me when I was little and knowingly left my and my brother with an abusive father. She had choose to tell me she was in an accident and lost her memory so she wouldn't have to answer for the past. which I caught her countless times lying and try to back peddle. I tried several times until I had enough and told her I wanted nothing more to do with her and him. They are trying to ruin my life,reputation and family. I have 4 small children and they are harrassing me. Have called CPS and reported me. They came to my home and found the report unfounded and I have a copy of the report but they won't be happy until they have ruined my life. These are truly psychotic people who are evil and I believe won't stop at anything. I told them if they continued I would get a restraining order. There is just no reasoning with them they are both seriousley off their rockers. That is why I cut off communication.

2007-05-14 16:24:04 · 8 answers · asked by tigger46161 3

I have 4 children and my oldest daughter and one of my twin daughters didn't so much as call me for Mother's Day. I have helped both of them countless times. My oldest daughter married a man who is bisexual and very controlling - I don't like his ways. She had 2 children before they were married and he doesn't like them and it shows. The twin has an illness that will eventually kill her - I have also helped her countless times. I was a single mother with 4 children and I worked 3 jobs in order to continue our lifestyle when my ex-husband left. Should I write them each a letter and cut them off? I am hurting so badly because of this (not suicidal - just hurt).

2007-05-14 16:22:33 · 15 answers · asked by gdaniel_98 2

How often do you think a normal person checks their email if they tell you they check it REGULARLY?? i have been waiting for someone to respond to an email i wrote them like 2 days ago and still no reply... how long do you think i should wait?

2007-05-14 16:10:55 · 21 answers · asked by greenturtle 1

Example: If your brothers name is John smith and you name your son John Smith does that make your son Jr, the II, or is he just John Smith?

2007-05-14 16:04:49 · 32 answers · asked by Lewis C 1

i think im bi and im just 15 and i dont know how to tell my mom im scared plz help me

2007-05-14 15:12:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

When i was six my mother and father would abuse me everyday, till one day he came in while i was tied up gaged and bleeding, he got rid of my parents soon after....he is he only person that has ever helped me....or loved me....well i have fallen in love what do i do?

2007-05-14 15:06:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my daughter's father are trying to get a long with each other for the sake of our daughter, however my mother keeps being negative, and it is affecting our daughter. My mother is very protective of her 1st born granddaughter, however her negativity is not welcome, and i don't want to keep her from her Grandmother, however it makes it hard when my mother is always talking down about my daughter's father, and have asked her to stop. She is not supportive of me trying to have my daughter see her father, she wants me to keep him out of her life as much as possible, and that is not good for my daughter, nor is her negativity either. How do i ask her to stop, and if she continues, what should i do?

2007-05-14 14:57:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a daughter who is 12. My husband and I are seperated and she's really been pulling away. I'm trying my hardest to give her the space she wants, but I'm afraid that she's angry and she's doing things she may regret in the future.

When I try to talk to her, she just withdraws. I found a note from one of her friends, telling her to cheer up and "don't be weird just cause of what you did with (insert boy's name here)." I don't want to invade her privacy and I don't want her to feel that she can't trust me ... but if something is happening with her I need to know about it.

I NEED ADVICE!

2007-05-14 14:41:51 · 23 answers · asked by fairy*chick~ 1

My husband is very moody and likes to blame his bad behavior on me. On Mother's Day he didn't acknowledge me or even take our daughter to get me a card because he was mad at me for some unknown reason. It hurts me and I tell him it does, but he just justifies his behavior by saying I did something wrong. Sometimes I don't know what to do.

2007-05-14 14:34:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad always makes me feel guilty of how much money i have and dont have...calls me "cheap" when i dont spend my money...then calls me "rich"...and i dont even have that much money...i dont know what his problem...hes always fighting with me about money

2007-05-14 14:06:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous